How did you acquire your fetishes?

I think my preference for older bbw women came when I was at a friends house when we were teenagers and he put some porn on. It was of a skinny young looking (to my perspective)teen girl choking on an enormous dick and I remember feeling repulsed and traumatised.
As the majority of porn involves men, and a lot of guys like young, thin women, it was going to be a little difficult for me to find stuff I liked so I think my emerging teenage libido (which as we all know is not to be denied ahaha) began to fixate on much older and much bigger women, if I couldn't find any clips that only had women in it.
 
My interest in sharing my partner came from walking in on my parents in the middle of a threesome with another guy. It certainly began to form a ton of my fantasies. It's also when I began to fantasize about my mom. The open dialogue I had with my dad at that time certainly helped perpetuate a lot of those fantasies.
 
I think fetishes are innate. I think 'they' are always there, maybe buried, but there. It's like trying different flavors of ice cream......you will love some, be ambivalent of others, and hate a few.
 
Discovery of porn at a young age
Trying things and liking them
Tumblr and the internet in general
Etc
 
Like many have stated, erotic stories and porn started me off on discovering kinks in general, but mostly pretty tame ones. My current favorite kinks did have some specific catalysts.
Edging: Chronic premature ejaculation necessitated edging practice, first on my own, then my ex-wife. Still a favorite!
BDSM: A woman I found on eHarmony after my divorce was heavy into it, she was a pain slut and taught me to top and I enjoyed the techniques, gadgets, and making her cum. I learned that I wanted done to me what I did to her, and I could not bring myself to be as rough as she wanted, and her heart was not into being a top. Her solution was to arrange a scene with a couple that she had played with. The male completely dominated her, showing me the extent of the pain she enjoyed, and his wife topped me. It was the most intense experience I have ever had and I knew I loved being submissive... and while I enjoyed being a top, I could not satisfy my pain slut GF's deepest desires. Eventually she found her true Dom and moved on. I am forever grateful to her. Now my wife indulges me, light femdom and edging.
Fantasies have been realized, but others remain. Imagination continues...
 
There's an old, long-deleted story which I think was on LE....about a man's fiancee who meets his lesbian aunt who's just come back from abroad and falls in love with her. They end up getting it on....and things take a dirty turn when the aunt orders the fiancee onto her hands and knees and then starts rimming her. She licks the gorgeous young slut's arsehole then forces her tongue deep inside and tongue-fucks her hard. It was amazingly hot and nasty and made me a fan of lesbian cheating and boosted my arse licking fetish too.
 
my first proper job, my supervisor was pregnant. She'd wear quite tight clothing. One day she was wearing a blouse, clearly no bra and she wasn't far from giving birth so could see how full her breasts were etc. Ever since ive craved sex with a pregnant lady!
 
I think I have always been a prev. I was curious about little girls my age and some little girls were encouraging it. I was caught peeping in the girls locker room in grade school and getting them to pee outside for me so I could watch. This is years before I could get an erection but back then then that wasn't the point. I liked to see what I could get girls to do and gaze at that mysterious spot between their legs. Then I ended up with some nudie mags and realized I was on the right track.
 
Oh, anime definitely the uncontrolled anime of the 90's and 2000's
 
Had a GF that sucked the most wonderful cock. She could deep throat my 8" like it was nothing. Then when i would cum- she wouldnt miss a beat... just when even farther down on me it felt like... So love having my cock sucked...Just memories now
 
I'm a total nylon fetishist! I grew up in the fashion era of nylons, bare legs were almost never seen when women were dressed up, the bare legged police of today that hate women's hosiery were not born yet, sheer nylon stockings and pantyhose were everywhere your eyes looked, even going into a bathroom you'd find nylon stockings always hanging on towel rods/showers drying from washing. My nylon fetish was defiantly fueled by all the older women around me growing up with legs always incased in nylons, especially an aunt. A view of stocking tops, garters, dangling of high heel shoes was an everyday event. I got hooked early in life, for sure for me a lifelong passion, weakness and fetish, so many stories and memories that all triggered my nylon fetish! Swish swish!
 
I'm a total nylon fetishist! I grew up in the fashion era of nylons, bare legs were almost never seen when women were dressed up, the bare legged police of today that hate women's hosiery were not born yet, sheer nylon stockings and pantyhose were everywhere your eyes looked, even going into a bathroom you'd find nylon stockings always hanging on towel rods/showers drying from washing. My nylon fetish was defiantly fueled by all the older women around me growing up with legs always incased in nylons, especially an aunt. A view of stocking tops, garters, dangling of high heel shoes was an everyday event. I got hooked early in life, for sure for me a lifelong passion, weakness and fetish, so many stories and memories that all triggered my nylon fetish! Swish swish!
The shoe dangling and Shoeplay is so hot...
 
I trace My oral obsession and my craving for being forcibly throat fucked to my early experiences as being my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker. We would watch his father's extensive collection of 8mm, black and white stag films, and we were both impressed by one particular clip showing a petite white girl being savagely throat fucked by this black stud whose cock was ENORMOUS!! We would watch this same clip over and over and were fascinated to watch this huge cock repeatedly disappear all the way down this fortunate woman's throat!! Larry was extremely aggressive and wanted to fuck my throat the same way the black stud did to the white girl in the film.
I was, and still am, fortunate in not ever having had a strong gag reflex, so I was able to allow him to do this to me quite easily, in spite of the fact that Larry's cock was also very big! Not as big as that black stud's cock, but close! I served as Larry's willing and eager personal cocksucker for a number of years, sucking his cock and letting him fuck my throat usually at least once every day, and often even more frequently than that until he finally moved away. I came to love letting him do this to me and I would dutifully suck his big cock whenever and wherever he ordered me to.
Sucking cock and being throat fucked very roughly has always been, and still is, far and away, my most favorite sexual activity.
 
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Definitely picked up a foot fetish from watching my mother paint her toe nails.
 
So my thing for pregnant women started when my aunt was pregnant. She was just so sexy!

My foot thing started the first time i was with an ex and her toes curled as she announced she was cumming.

My thing for wanting to share my wife was fantasising about watching her the night her ex knocked her up.
 
My panty wearing fetish started at a very young age thanks to my uncle's dressing me in my auntsvpantys and brascand lil dresses
 
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