Were your fetishes caused by specific odd events?

[Richelieujuniour]

What he told you they were all made up ? Lol

not all, just a couple of my faves-- & he had the receipts, too

 

[Paddydrack]

not all, just a couple of my faves-- & he had the receipts, too

Sorry so why was it a let down for you ?

 

[Zosofan1000]

My fascination with ass play began when I was very young. I was around 4 or 5 years old and had come down with a fever. My grandmother, who helped raise me, took my temperature rectally. I remember it felt oddly relaxing.

Fast forward many years later when I was discovering masturbation. One time I took one of those long thin plastic BIC pens that had a rounded end and gently inserted it a few inches into my bottom. I began stroking my cock and just as I was on the verge of coming, I slowly started pulling the pen out of my ass. The orgasm I experienced was earth-shattering. I felt a warm spray on my face and tasted my own salty fluid. The bulk of my ejaculation hit the headboard above my head. Needless to say, I discovered the prostate orgasm that day.

I have used didos on myself and my wife has pegged me a couple of times, but she's never been into ass play. I never ask her anymore because I know her heart isn't in it. But I am really curious about getting fucked by a real cock. My wife says that dildos are okay, but there's no substitute for the real thing. One of these days I will get the courage to arrange a meet-up and try it.

 

[Trimjob69]

I'm not exactly sure how my "anal" fetish began, but I do remember when I was quite young, a neighbor boy and I would lick each other's asshole and suck each other.

 

[Bryan_C]

I love this thread
I was dating this guy in college that would stop when we were messing around and go to the bathroom. This happened a couple time of him leaving instead of fucking. So I went into the bathroom and found him jacking off lol He told me he didn't feel that we should should fuck so he got off this way.
Don't know if that is a fetish or not but certainly someone who had something going inside his head

But why leave? He should have gone ahead with it with you there, maybe to help...

 

[StrongMaster7]

Sorry so why was it a let down for you ?

If I may butt in, speaking for myself, I was foolish enough to think the Penthouse Forum letters were actually 'field reports' from real people of what the sexlife of people 'over 18' was like. I became convinced that the world was a filled with attractive women who would want to have all kinds of consequence-free sex with me once I was 18, or once I left home, or once I had a place of my own...

The let down came as I gradually realized that there was no 'other world' where sex was so freely available. And eventually I realized that the writing style of all the Penthouse Forum 'letters' was very similar.

Actually, Literotica is sort of that way too. To read many of the posts, one would think that life really is like Penthouse Forum. I'm not suggesting Lit posts are true, just that I'm reading the highlights of many people's sexual lifetime.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

I believe my interest in peeing jumped from bodily function to erotic stimulation on a camping trip where I shared a tent with my cousin's girlfriend and during a rainstorm we peed inside the tent (into a container) rather than venture outside in the weather.

Since then I have explored, celebrated, indulged, and pursued opportunities to pee with others, or to be watched, or to watch others pee.

I wrote it as one of first stories here (A Wet Summer Night) if anyone is interested.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

If I may butt in, speaking for myself, I was foolish enough to think the Penthouse Forum letters were actually 'field reports' from real people of what the sexlife of people 'over 18' was like. I became convinced that the world was a filled with attractive women who would want to have all kinds of consequence-free sex with me once I was 18, or once I left home, or once I had a place of my own...

The let down came as I gradually realized that there was no 'other world' where sex was so freely available. And eventually I realized that the writing style of all the Penthouse Forum 'letters' was very similar.

Actually, Literotica is sort of that way too. To read many of the posts, one would think that life really is like Penthouse Forum. I'm not suggesting Lit posts are true, just that I'm reading the highlights of many people's sexual lifetime.

My first exposure to erotica was an adult novel titled Free For All Wives (which I have since found online...it's not good, but was typical of the late 70s/early 80s and an excellent gateway for my interest in erotica).

But my dad had a stack of Penthouse Forum magazines in the basement, and I have so many fond memories of those.

 

[PinkLemonade22]

My love of being spanked was definitely from being spanked my dad and actually enjoying it.

 

[SurferBoy9044]

My fascination with ass play began when I was very young. I was around 4 or 5 years old and had come down with a fever. My grandmother, who helped raise me, took my temperature rectally. I remember it felt oddly relaxing.

Fast forward many years later when I was discovering masturbation. One time I took one of those long thin plastic BIC pens that had a rounded end and gently inserted it a few inches into my bottom. I began stroking my cock and just as I was on the verge of coming, I slowly started pulling the pen out of my ass. The orgasm I experienced was earth-shattering. I felt a warm spray on my face and tasted my own salty fluid. The bulk of my ejaculation hit the headboard above my head. Needless to say, I discovered the prostate orgasm that day.

I have used didos on myself and my wife has pegged me a couple of times, but she's never been into ass play. I never ask her anymore because I know her heart isn't in it. But I am really curious about getting fucked by a real cock. My wife says that dildos are okay, but there's no substitute for the real thing. One of these days I will get the courage to arrange a meet-up and try it.

I also had an aunt who took my temperature rectally I would lay over her lap and she would pull my shorts down and then would run her hands all over my ass and would spread my ass cheeks apart and just hold them apart for the longest time. She would then put the lube on my asshole and slowly insert the the rectal thermometer into my asshole. She would just hold me down and would take it out and then put it back in again. She did this serval times that summer and I still have fond memories and later in life I would wonder if she got off on this. What do you think

 

[massageguy1]

My first real encounter involved a take-charge neighbor who seduced me out of my trunks and plundered my ass in the sunshine... It was a seminal moment.

Literally. Senen everywhere.

So complicated. Thrilled, exposed, vulnerable, borderline shamed - does this mean I'm gay? CFNM and prostate play have been an obsession ever since.

WC Fields said 'A woman drove me to drink, and I never had the courtesy to thank her for it.' I thanked this lady every chance I got that summer

 

[massageguy1]

I also had an aunt who took my temperature rectally I would lay over her lap and she would pull my shorts down and then would run her hands all over my ass and would spread my ass cheeks apart and just hold them apart for the longest time. She would then put the lube on my asshole and slowly insert the the rectal thermometer into my asshole. She would just hold me down and would take it out and then put it back in again. She did this serval times that summer and I still have fond memories and later in life I would wonder if she got off on this. What do you think

She obviously enjoyed it...

 

[Tribe77]

Had a sexy teacher who always wore hose and heels. She would always dangle or slide off her heels. Have had a stocking and foot fetish ever since.

 

[gtnlynn]

I always hated being around smokers. In the almost 8 years we dated, I never suspected my future wife smoked, although she smoked every day and whenever on dates with other guys. She knew I hated it. Then a few years after we married, she worked in an office with several smokers and came home smelling of smoke every day. Still, I suspected nothing. Then after midnight one night, I smelled smoke. My wife was not in bed. I found her in her nightie, smoking a cigarette and blowind the smoke out the window, which the AC brought back in. Her shocked reaction was so funny that i couldn't get mad, and seeing her in a sexy nightie with a cigarette in her lips struck me as being super sexy. I immediately developed a smoking fetish, and I insisted that she smoke when we had sex. It continued until she suddenly stopped smoking.

 

[Paddydrack]

I always hated being around smokers. In the almost 8 years we dated, I never suspected my future wife smoked, although she smoked every day and whenever on dates with other guys. She knew I hated it. Then a few years after we married, she worked in an office with several smokers and came home smelling of smoke every day. Still, I suspected nothing. Then after midnight one night, I smelled smoke. My wife was not in bed. I found her in her nightie, smoking a cigarette and blowind the smoke out the window, which the AC brought back in. Her shocked reaction was so funny that i couldn't get mad, and seeing her in a sexy nightie with a cigarette in her lips struck me as being super sexy. I immediately developed a smoking fetish, and I insisted that she smoke when we had sex. It continued until she suddenly stopped smoking.

Thats a very interesting story. Thanks for sharing

 

[StrongMaster7]

My first exposure to erotica was an adult novel titled Free For All Wives (which I have since found online...it's not good, but was typical of the late 70s/early 80s and an excellent gateway for my interest in erotica).

But my dad had a stack of Penthouse Forum magazines in the basement, and I have so many fond memories of those.

I can still remember specific 'letters' that I used to get off to. One was about a busty Jamaican woman who comes to the door and another was about a busty older woman dressed as Santa Claus who 'gives a special gift' to her son's friend.

 

[massageguy1]

Best friend in high school - we were all of legal age - had a college age sister who was my ultimate crush. Senior year before college, I hung out a lot around his backyard pool. Water was great, but i was mostly checking out Kathy, and her prominent hipbones and flat tummy.

Yep, bikini bridge in 1978...thriller to see it come back

Hooked since then

 

[massageguy1]

Best friend in high school - we were all of legal age - had a college age sister who was my ultimate crush. Senior year before college, I hung out a lot around his backyard pool. Water was great, but i was mostly checking out Kathy, and her prominent hipbones and flat tummy.

Yep, bikini bridge in 1978...

Hooked since then

So, one summer day, I'm checking her out, hoping to see a little public hair without getting caught...my friend Jerry starts teasing her about those prominent hipbones...

She stands up and starts in with him...Mom says that will make it easier when I have kids!

She turned to me, and starts to ask 'What do you...' and her eyes widen

Suddenly, she turns and dumps her whole Coke, ice and all, over Jerry's head. He screams at her, and goes into the house to clean up.

I'm basically gaping at her in lust and disbelief, and she says... XYZ.

I'm clueless. She says

Your barn door's open.

I look down, and see, to my utter shock and horror, the entire head of my fully erect penis sticking out of my trunks. All pink and proud...

I turn around, stuff myself back in my trunks, as she explains

You're a sweet kid, and I had to do SOMETHING...Jerry would have never let you hear the end of it if he'd seen...

Turned purple with shame, thanked her, ran home and masturbated in record time...

https://ibb.co/8j6GxYN

 

[mellowyellows]

Yup, I was cursed from the day it happened……and I’m not mad at it.

 

[massageguy1]

So, one summer day, I'm checking her out, hoping to see a little public hair without getting caught...my friend Jerry starts teasing her about those prominent hipbones...

She stands up and starts in with him...Mom says that will make it easier when I have kids!

She turned to me, and starts to ask 'What do you...' and her eyes widen

Suddenly, she turns and dumps her whole Coke, ice and all, over Jerry's head. He screams at her, and goes into the house to clean up.

I'm basically gaping at her in lust and disbelief, and she says... XYZ.

I'm clueless. She says

Your barn donor's open.

I look down, and see, to my utter shock and horror, the entire head of my fully erect penis sticking out of my trunks. All pink and proud...

I turn around, stuff myself back in my trunks, as she explains

You're a sweet kid, and I had to do SOMETHING...Jerry would have never let you hear the end of it if he'd seen...

Turned purple with shame, thanked her, ran home and masturbated in record time...

https://ibb.co/8j6GxYN

xyz stood for examine your zipper

How clueless were we that we had TWO slang terms for 'Zip up your zipper?'

 

[SherlockianMan]

I fully believe my cumshot/facial fetish was thanks to discovering the work of Peter North atva very formative age.

 

[AchtungNight]

Incest fetish- I had cousins willing to excite me in a swimming pool during my late teens. And a sister who let me pet her legs in privacy. All happily married now or single and not interested in me anymore. Nor am I particularly interested in them either. Older and wiser these days.

Swinging fetish- in college I rejected a threesome because I was into one participant but not the other and I ultimately wasn’t into either of them because they were pushing me into a “too much too fast” situation. Later a friend with benefits offered to break me in slow as a swinger and the rest is history.

Anti-fetish- I once had a summer camp bully threaten me with sexual assault. Witnesses and my martial arts training prevented his inappropriate behavior. Later my openly gay brother, the swinger friend with benefits and her network, and various favorite celebrities reminded me people of alternative sexuality (I could say LGBTQ but they keep adding letters) are okay despite such poor examples as the bully. I experimented with being gay but I’m not. Oh well.

Interracial kink- I’m a white man with black and Native American ancestry who used to live in Taiwan with an Italian family (diplomat brat). I’ve dated Asians, Africans, Caribbeans, Aussies, Europeans, Americans, and a girl in a Martian costume. Enough said.

White Knight complex- former aspiring police officer, longtime martial arts and Renaissance enthusiast, D&D player, video gamer. Need I say more?

Religious satire interests- I grew up liberal in a conservative southern US family. I also read a lot of the Bible in my youth and noted its adult content. Same for a science fiction series called Mission Earth by a popular science fiction author who more recently founded an applied religious philosophy. And I studied Taoism and Buddhism while living in Taiwan. Nuff said!

 

[t_h_seacrest]

After-school babysitter, slightly older, really pretty, and very strict. Might've planted a seed or two for subsequent fantasies/inclinations/weaknesses. Then there was that step-mother...

 

[Cardinal]

Oh definitely, our pasts often define our futures

 

[panty_chap]

In college I played in a co-ed recreational soccer league.

One night during a game I got spun around and my hand slapped an opposing player directly on her chest. She was behind me at the time, and I didn't see it happen, but I felt the softness of her breast and the outline of her nipple. The amazing thing to me was, I hit her with the back of my hand and still felt that?

It happened so fast, and out of the blue, that I was wondering if it really happened. Play continued and nothing was said. That was almost 40 years ago and I still think about it.

Because it was so surprising I thought about it a lot. I have never been one to dominate anyone or play rough so the idea had never occured to me before then, but ever since I've had thoughts of slapping a woman's tits and enjoy seeing in on porn sites. I't snot my major fetish, but it's there.

And it's branched into wanting to slap her pussy too...

I've never done it in real life though, I'm not sure I could.