How did you acquire your fetishes?

My fetish for incest no doubt grew out of the extensive, and at times intimate, amount of time I spent with my female cousin as we were growing up. Our closeness lasted into young adulthood but fell just short of the actual carnal act.

My fetish for Asian women was born of the stories I heard from service buddies of a unit I joined that just returned from a deployment to the Western Pacific. My next posting before I myself deployed to the region was Hawaii where my love of Asian women was further solidified.
 
I think mine have all been introduced to me by partners and I’ve then held onto them - I must be some kind of fetish sponge
I think you're right there AKUK. We are 'bound' (pun not intended) to pick up kinks and fetishes from those we encounter.
I now have a total passion filled fetish for pleasing my wife orally. Now, I've eaten too many to mention and was never like this. I can't get enough of her taste and reactions.
My other fetish is ball stretching and that seed was planted years and years ago while working summer employment between years in Uni. at a steel mill. In the change room one day an a guy walk out of the shower with the biggest low hanging balls. I thought it was totally manly.
Fast forward years later and down a rabbit hole one day and I found a group that modifies there ball sacs over years of wearing weights and manually stretching.
Two years later I have a decent hang and continuing. Sorry for yhe long winded reply
 
When I was young at neighbors house I'd get their daughters panties an play with them. They caught me an then they play too. Like to wear wife panties when I can an couple friends wife's too when the chance is available mmm
I’d love to hear more about when you were caught with their daughters panties.
 
I went and hunted my down. I turned over pretty much every kinky rock I could find to see what was under there. If I liked it, I added it to the list. It's a long fucking list! Some that I passed over, I came back around to later and found I liked them after all.
 
I went and hunted my down. I turned over pretty much every kinky rock I could find to see what was under there. If I liked it, I added it to the list. It's a long fucking list! Some that I passed over, I came back around to later and found I liked them after all.
What are your favorites?
 
How did you acquire your fetishes?

Did you have events that triggered them?

A vivid imagination?

Do you think your fetishes are genetically inherited?

I think my incest fetish was caused by being very close to my mom, no two people in the family were as emotionally close as we were.

Also, my older sister was quite exhibitionistic at least until she was 30.

Additionally, my aunt was so beautiful, she had even done some modeling after college.

My fetishes came from my mother and the things she has done to me that throughout my life have affected me.
 
I have a tan line fetish. I am sure it is the result of seeing 70s era naked women in magazines. I was mesmerized seeing naked boobs and asses for the first time--finally seeing what the swimsuits and clothing were hiding--only to have them highlighted and framed by tan lines. The incredibly white skin was like putting a spotlight on those forbidden areas. The very white asses have always been my favorite. I am sure this led to my fetish around ass play and rimming.
I agree and seeing a white ass and tan lines is my go to. Attached with her permission is my wife bent over a chair with her panties pulled down and spreading her ass cheeks apart.
 

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I agree and seeing a white ass and tan lines is my go to. Attached with her permission is my wife bent over a chair with her panties pulled down and spreading her ass cheeks apart.
Your wife has a mighty nice ass. Wish I was one of your friends. Come over an see her get naked an play mmmm
 
So clear...

Young adult experiences left me thrilled with exhibitionism, which lasts to this day. My first real sexual experience was with an 'older' woman (36?() who skinned me out of my trunks and fingered me like a prom queen in the sunshine by her pool at 18...

CFNM and prostate play have been obsessions ever since
 
Care to explain?
I was raised southern Baptist, they teach girls submission starting early. The book love and respect is a great bdsm manual. It's sold in a Christian book store near you. Grooming in the church is real. Girls are taught their bodies are sinful, their value is in their purity, their worth is in making and bringing up children and that they're capable of causing someone else to sin. Prime breeding grounds for brides for narcissists.

So they lose their value by the time they have children so they submit more in hopes he won't leave her since she has depreciated in value.
 
The same toxic environment breeds men who not only expect sex and submission, but do not believe a husband can rape his wife. The focus on male ejaculation (since she's only good for breeding now) causes sex to lack passion and often pleasure and climax for the woman.
 
I started using the internet.

Seriously, my interests were as vanilla as you can get. These days they probably aren't really that kinky to most people here, but compared to pre internet me they are. It took a little effort and you had to risk embarrassment to get really explicit porn. Cinemax soft core sort of stuff was about the limit for me.

Mainstream movies inspired my fantasies, mostly. And women I came across in the real world.
 
sort of a weird journey for me. a few years back i discovered that my wife is cheating behind my back. she has fucked 2 guys from our local parish, including a priest that she went to for counseling. although i was hurt and angry, i was also so turned on by this, especially since i tried unsuccessfully to persuade her a few times to do a younger guy while i watched.

i started to watch cuckold porn and got hooked, and this all made me very bi-curious. i then started sharing wife pics and vids with guys on-line. when i found out how arousing it was to show my naked wife to strangers, i got further hooked and further bi-curious.
 
I was playing hide and seek with my friends. I and a friend of mine decided to hide in a closet. She was standing and I was sitting. There was strong smell from her skirt and taking another whiff It was her ass. I had a instant hard on. That was my first realization of my love towards beautiful butts and everything about it. I now live sniffing licking fingering making love to ass ... just sniffing it and licking a round butt makes me cum hard
 
At the outset, let me clearly state that the events I'm about to describe occurred when both I and the girl were 18. I do solemnly swear.

It was in the mid-70's. Every Wednesday night and Sunday night after church I would offer to take my ex girlfriend home. We would always detour to back side of the lake. I was dating someone else at this time and she was engaged. Since we were coming from church, she would have on a dress and pantyhose. I loved stroking her nylon-sheathed thigh while I drove. We would have a torrid makeout session in the front seat, then hop into the back seat of my Bonneville. If felt so fucking sexy to hump her leg. The feeling of the pantyhose on my naked cock was amazing. More often than not, I would roll them part down and finger her and eat her. Then she'd give me a furious handjob and let me come on her leg.

I've had a pantyhose fetish since then. I'm quite sad that they've gone out of fashion.
 
My older brother gave me a couple of books, “The Joy of Sex” & “Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex” when he caught me and my girlfriend making out. I really took inspiration from them and later Penthouse Forum. I was very fortunate to find a woman that loves to have sex and indulge in all types of sex fulfilling our fantasies.
 
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