Glad it worked out for you, and I hope you keep learning new kinky things about each other.
Never tried that but willing to. If I had a wife or partner who wanted to, I would be willing if it gave them pleasure. There isnāt much I wouldnāt be willing to try at least once ( maybe a couple of things)
I think everyone should try to get over their hang-ups about pee and at least try water sports once or twice. I found that after a night of mixed cocktails, my wife's piss just tasted like, well, a warm, watered-down cocktail! And she orgasmed both times I drank her pee right from her pussy. But she had to be hammered to relax enough to be able to do that. And even if folks are too grossed out to actually taste their lover's piss, I think everyone should at least get peed on once in their life, if for no other reason than to know that they had tried it.
This is the perfect safe space to air out all of our dirty laundry. The dirtier, the better here!
I dated a woman and told her I would like to have her pee on me after she told me it was one of her fantasies. She said none of her other lovers were willing. She was willing but couldnāt pee. When she felt like peeing she said I should follow her to the bathroom, got on my knees as she sat on the toilet with my mouth wide open. She still couldnāt let it go. It never happened with her. She also didnāt want me to pee on her.
That sucks that you couldn't fulfill that fantasy just because she couldn't relax enough to go, even though she obviously wanted to. Overcoming that mental block is super hard for most people.
I figure that if itās meant to be it will happen. Unfortunately, most women Iāve been with have expressed fantasies that Iāve been willing to help facilitate but push came to shove, they backed out of fulfilling them. One or too weāre willing to role play with me the fantasy but not adding an additional person or persons. One had a fantasy of being on a bed face down in a mirrored room & wanted to be surrounded by men jerking off. She wanted a funnel inserted into her ass and as each man came, he would shoot his load into the funnel. I offered to set that up, finding a motel w a mirrored room & inviting men up to the room. She declined but we did rent that room & I got to deposit my cum into a funnel as she orgasmed fantasizing I was a bunch of men.
Now THAT'S a fabulous encounter.
I really wanted to see that. She said she fantasized about a room filled w men surrounding her & filling her up until the funnel overflowed. She had some great fantasies but wanted them left as fantasies
No offense, but who cares? You got to drain your balls into a funnel in her asshole! That's an experience 99.99% of us guys will never get.
I was disappointed for her. It was her fantasy, not mine. It really wasnāt about me. I guess thatās the problem with a lot of men. Who cares if she is satisfied? Who cares if her desires are fulfilled? As long as men ādrain your balls,ā what she wants doesnāt really matter.
Dude, don't take me the wrong way. She had a chance to fulfilling her fantasy and ended up getting cold feet. Not your fault, you did everything you could to help her fulfill it. And you did fulfill at least part of it.
My girlfriend now my wife was one of those girls who didn't want to get pregnant so anal sex was Ok with her. I loved playing with her ass and getting her ready for anal sex and sometimes this would go on for hours. I almost didn't graduate from college because we where having so much anal sex time. With her permission I have attached a photo of her getting ready for anal sex.
Well I would say my husband knows all the darkest corners of my naughty self and is probably one of the few. I do not tend to show that side of myself until knowing people well and being able to tell their reaction or unless someone I am around is around due to a specific part of that side. My husband and I were pretty open right out of the gate dating but we were not like a normal couple in the sense our relationship was very light and we knew both to have reputations of highly sexual people. Even that being said I think we are still learning new things years later.
Thatās sad
That's so sexy
Absolutely, not even your parents and closest friends. Learned that the hard way.
Iāve told all the women Iāve ever been with that Iām open to almost every fantasy or ākinkā they have. If it excites them or gives them pleasure, why not? No judgement or labels. The caveat is scat pretty much.
Yes is very hard to tell someone your inner desires for fear of losing them
