Were your fetishes caused by specific odd events?

I blame my fetish for pregnant women to be the fault of my Aunt. I can vividly recall as a small child my naked and quite pregnant Aunt bathing her son and I. I couldn't believe her enormous breasts and large belly.
 
My cuckold fetish originated with the first girl who cheated on me. I was hurt but also very turned on when I thought about it later.

It happened more than once and I think I came to regard it as perfectly natural for the women I dated to not want to be exclusive. As my moniker indicates I was always drawn to slutty, sexually adventurous women. The pain of being cheated on was never enough to dissuade me from that preference and so I eventually just embraced the fact that if I didn't expect them to be exclusive there was no issue.

Nevertheless, for a long time neither they nor I could find the right dynamic. They typically felt that either they were my gf with the expectation of fidelity or it was purely casual with no commitment. Cuckolding wasn't recognized as an option. Most wanted to be my gf, but then felt guilty when they cheated or lost respect for me when I just accepted it (or both).

But then my slutty and sexually adventurous wife taught me about cuckolding and I knew I had found my place.
 
Three that I can think of…
Panties. This goes back to kindergarten. I remember a girl named kim who’s panties were sticking out and one of my friends pointed them out and made a big deal about it. From then on I was interested in panties. I went on a trip to the beach in high school and my crush left her panties and shorts on her bus seat. I saw them, picked them up, deeeeeep breath…….. and nearly came right there. They were nasty. Not quite putrid but definitely not fresh or smelling as good as the 50+ women’s panties I’ve smelled since. Definitely the worst smelling of all of the panties, but it still got me hooked.
Creampie eating. I was a freshman and dating a girl in college for a few months and we were fucking pretty regularly. I went out of town Friday night and when I got back I went straight to her place and was horny. She resisted me, then relented. I had never gone down on her and I did, she resisted that too but I stayed down there and made her come. She said nobody had done that for her before and we fucked like crazy. The next day a bunch of guys were watching football at my neighbors apartment. I go in and my buddy says hey come here. We go outside and he tells me she cheated on me Friday night with the college linebacker. A huge dude that lived in our apartment complex. Everybody knew.
I was so embarrassed.
I confronted her. I asked if he used a condom?
No.
Did he pull out?
No, you know I’m on the pill.
So I ate his come out of your pussy? I made you come like that and you didn’t stop me?
I tried to stop you, you wouldn’t.
Now I often think about my wife and her previous lovers coming in her pussy to get me off. Then I go down on her and think about eating somebody else’s come.
Pee. In 8th grade my crush always went to the bathroom right before band class. I used to joke with her about being “ on the pot”. She thought it was funny, I thought it was hot, thinking about that sweet ass in those Jordache jeans, pulling them down and the panties with them, her tinkling in the toilet. Fuck.
 
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Think my fetish for white underwear came from my 1st true love,her name was carol in her late 50s,.she wore nothing but satin panty girdles, the 6 strap suspenders the old fashioned cone bras. White corsets similier things. We were together nearly year half she tought me what it was like to be with another woman.
I was bi curious before but i loved her, i know my fetish for white underwear and natural women came from her. .
 
I grew up in the 60s and 70s. The media was presenting the female form to be viewed in all its glory. Legs and tits seemed to be the bits that got the most exposure, although frustratingly breasts could only be partially exposed. I feel like I was cock-teased by the media with regard to breasts. I had seen so many bikinis, so many skimpy harem outfits, so many low-cut evening gowns, so many sheets pulled up to the armpits on TV and in movies by the time I finally saw a nipple in a 1966 Playboy, that I was ready to burst!

So, I chalk up my obsession/fetish/kink for breasts/big breasts/lactation/big nipples and the like to timing.

I also read a lot. I read every 'reader letter' to Penthouse and Playboy from 1970-1980, the forum letters, The Happy Hooker's advice column, the Playboy advisor, and any naughty novels I came across. Those Penthouse forum letters introduced me to the world of fetish and kink. In those days enemas and amputees were frequently written about, but also incest, pet play, watersports, bdsm, and more.

So, I credit my other fetishes/kinks to all of the above and more to the editorial staff of Penthouse.
 
Definitely, found my fathers extensive porn stash that included incest. There is more but you know the rules.
 
I am convinced that my love of female pubic hair and interest in watersports both derive from a formative experience which I probably can't describe here. It scarred me for life, but in a good way.
 
Either it was in AGAIN! still odds luck of the draw, or my fetish for exhibitionism, and other men’s wives, was established at a very, (two) young age
 
When my wife and I first became an item, fidelity and monogamy were number one in her books. I was constantly reassuring her I felt the same and could never betray her. But then about four years in, she developed an attraction to another man. He ended up taking her to a hotel and he fucked her! I found out right away and confronted her. I was furious and we were an eyelash away from being done. But we kept it together and started to move on. But soon her tryst started to arouse me instead of anger me. I started fantasizing about what went on in that hotel room.

Since then all my sexual thoughts are about my wife (and married women in general) getting fucked by other men! I have numerous fantasy scenarios. Some feasible, others not so much. And when the opportunity arose, I confessed my desires of her having sex with other men. She admitted that she wanted to have sex with other men too. So together as a couple we entered the hotwife lifestyle. Since then she’s spread her legs for three other men. Her current lover I’ve had the opportunity of watching them screw on our marital bed. And she’s confessed to there having been two other men in the same time period from when she cheated.
You sound like my kind a couple! :)
 
Well the fetish of mine detailed in this thread: Diapers for Brides (WARNING: Contains discussion of urination) was sparked by a chance internet search and the subsequent results.
 
Watching a woman masturbate is a huge turn on for me. It goes back to a couple of early sexual experiences. One was when I spied on a roommate as she masturbated on her bed with her panties at her ankles and her skirt pulled up to her waist. I was mesmerised by the movement of her fingers on her clit and the sounds she made as her orgasm washed over her.

I also dated, for a while, a very religious woman (Jewish like me) - she wouldn’t let me touch her but, in the end, we would masturbate together and watch each other on cam (never in person) which was amazingly arousing for me and I always came very hard.
 
I needed to get a suit tailored but since it was around the holidays and I had almost no time to spare, I decided to contact a tailor that merely had a sign in front of their home offering tailoring services. When I arrived, I was greeted by a beautiful Korean woman in her 30s and she asked me to go behind a curtain to change into the suit. She did nothing overtly sexual, but being alone with her in her home flipped a switch in my brain and I was suddenly desperate to have sex with an Asian woman or to be honest, many Asian women. Within a week I was getting my first of dozens of "massages" at a variety of Asian massage parlors.
 
I really enjoyed this thread, it’s exactly what i came here for. Alas my early voyeur experience would not be allowed in this forum. But feel free to pm if you want to discuss
 
I have no idea what caused it if anything did cause it but I discovered my fetish by accident. My exwife whom I was dating at the time was on AOL which predates what the internet is today reading erotic stories. Naturally I didn’t know this at first just saw her glued to the screen with her hand in the front of her pants playing with herself. Not long after I asked her what she was doing and she told me we fucked and boy did she fuck my brains out that day.

As we laid there catching our breaths I asked for more info about the stories and etc. so she showed me. I was browsing stories here and there but then I stumbled onto a mother and son story. Holy shit did it turn me on. Been hooked on incest ever since.
Lol..AOL.

That's how my wife and I met as teenagers when they introduced Instant Messenger. That's likely the starting point of my, uh, creative writing.
 
Back in the early 70's I saw my best friend's mom playfully wrestling with one of her friends and I was rock hard watching. It lasted under a minute but ever since then I've had a real thing for women's wrestling/catfighting. Particularly one sided matches where a busty woman (like my friend's mom) gets dominated by a younger more fit woman.
 
My dad used to collect scrap from landfill sites when he was out of work. During the summer my brother and i would accompany him for the adventures. There was an old guy who lived across the road from the land fill site who allowed the scrap men to use his gardens and metal shed to shelter from the weather and keep a skip to collect the scrap. One day my bother and me went hunting about his grounds and we came across a clapped out old car. We jumped in the front seats and pretended to drive the car. Then we noticed the back seat was overflowing with porno magazines. This was the 1980s so bush was the order of the day. So to this day i get really turned on by a hairy pussy. Thankfully every woman ive slep with had a hairy one. There is no better feeling than sliding your hands into a woman’s panties for First to to feel warm hair and wet lips.
 
I love this thread :)
I was dating this guy in college that would stop when we were messing around and go to the bathroom. This happened a couple time of him leaving instead of fucking. So I went into the bathroom and found him jacking off lol He told me he didn't feel that we should should fuck so he got off this way.
Don't know if that is a fetish or not but certainly someone who had something going inside his head
 
I grew up in the 60s and 70s. The media was presenting the female form to be viewed in all its glory. Legs and tits seemed to be the bits that got the most exposure, although frustratingly breasts could only be partially exposed. I feel like I was cock-teased by the media with regard to breasts. I had seen so many bikinis, so many skimpy harem outfits, so many low-cut evening gowns, so many sheets pulled up to the armpits on TV and in movies by the time I finally saw a nipple in a 1966 Playboy, that I was ready to burst!

So, I chalk up my obsession/fetish/kink for breasts/big breasts/lactation/big nipples and the like to timing.

I also read a lot. I read every 'reader letter' to Penthouse and Playboy from 1970-1980, the forum letters, The Happy Hooker's advice column, the Playboy advisor, and any naughty novels I came across. Those Penthouse forum letters introduced me to the world of fetish and kink. In those days enemas and amputees were frequently written about, but also incest, pet play, watersports, bdsm, and more.

So, I credit my other fetishes/kinks to all of the above and more to the editorial staff of Penthouse.
sadly, when I as starting on the outskirts of porn, I met guy who had written for 'penthouse letters" some of them, at any rate-- and more importantly, some which I had really gotten off on!

bog, big letdown, I can tell you.
 
sadly, when I as starting on the outskirts of porn, I met guy who had written for 'penthouse letters" some of them, at any rate-- and more importantly, some which I had really gotten off on!

bog, big letdown, I can tell you.
What he told you they were all made up ? Lol
 
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