When did your fetish become a fetish?

[TheF1x3r]

I think that is a pretty broad brush to use to define a fetish.

My girlfriend knows I like a lady in pantyhose or stockings, but my life does not "revolve" around it. It would be detrimental to our relationship if it did. I am very cognizant that if I insisted she wear pantyhose or stockings, it would make her feel as if I am in love with what she wears, and not her. But with her knowing, it can be her way of seducing and teasing me.

I would still call my enjoyment of pantyhose and stockings a fetish though.

Paraphilia (fetish) isn't a binary thing, it's like this:

Clinicians distinguish between optional, preferred and exclusive paraphilias,[31] although the terminology is not completely standardized.

You probably find yourself in the preferred category I guess?

 

[CuttingEdge]

Paraphilia (fetish) isn't a binary thing, it's like this:



You probably find yourself in the preferred category I guess?

Yes, I would agree with you on that assessment, and with the general idea of fetish's being three non-bianary forms.

Thanks for informing me of this. I like learning new things.

 

[TheF1x3r]

Yes, I would agree with you on that assessment, and with the general idea of fetish's being three non-bianary forms.

Thanks for informing me of this. I like learning new things.

You're welcome, this topic actually got me interested in psychology.

Main article is here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilia

 

[drobert44]

So you migrated top to bottom? Or did you have fantasies about being a bottom the entire time?

I started 'as top for women and sissies, I was a bottom for only one gay man.

 

[vanquished005]

Before I retired, I slept with 4 women from the office. all were married catholic wives which is my my fetish.

i guess my fetish started when i was in high schoool. my friend's mom -- a married catholic -- seduced me. she was a lovely lady, kind, sweet. she was married to an absolute asshole.

 

[discjockey74]

Mine was back in junior high!

 

[SmokingFap]

My smoking fetish developed well before puberty, as my very pretty mom was a smoker and tended to lounge around naked (hence my Oedipus complex, as well). Since then, I've always found a pretty woman enjoying a cigarette to be super-arousing. Don't judge me too harshly. We all know the health risks.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I think that is a pretty broad brush to use to define a fetish.

My girlfriend knows I like a lady in pantyhose or stockings, but my life does not "revolve" around it. It would be detrimental to our relationship if it did. I am very cognizant that if I insisted she wear pantyhose or stockings, it would make her feel as if I am in love with what she wears, and not her. But with her knowing, it can be her way of seducing and teasing me.

I would still call my enjoyment of pantyhose and stockings a fetish though.

Fetish

a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs

an interest in an activity or object that makes someone spend an unreasonable amount of time doing it or thinking about it

 

[TheF1x3r]

Mine was back in junior high!

Tell us more, if you are able

 

[live4thebj]

Entire life? Well growing up I didn’t pick up on it but I had a thing for moms. Then when I read a mom and son incest story so did my fetish flourish. When I separated and divorced I pursued moms. Some single and some not.

Amazing how many moms out there are total sluts. Not saying it is a bad thing.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have had the same fetish my whole life. It started when my first girlfriend began cheating on me. This evolved into a situation where it wasn't exactly accepted, but we both knew and occasionally she spoke of details openly. She thought of me as her future husband, but cheating sex was thrilling for her, and she said this indirectly and even directly sometimes. This went on for many years. Eventually we didn't get married (for other, unrelated reasons). I do NOT wish we were together. But for the last 40 years almost every time I cum, I fantasize about her cheating. My mind wanders between points of view...mine, hers, the other guy's. I don't know why, but this immediately makes me hard and triggers orgasm. I've never told anyone this. My wife and I have been happily married for decades, and are nearing retirement age. There would be no point in broaching the topic.

I have exactly the same fantasy about a little preppy girlfriend of mine from decades ago. We are still occasionally in touch and I DO wish we were together. In reality she lost her virginity to another guy and told me all about it. She seems to be happily married now-- not to him or me. In my fantasy we are young again and she is highly promiscuous. Also makes me hard and makes me cum.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I've had a fetish for women with big breasts, lactation, and older women all my life, from my earliest memories. I've acquired a few more fetishes along the way since then. But those remain.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

I know I'm not nearly as wild as most of you but my first fetish was lingerie.
I was buying it and wearing it as soon as I could sneak it past my parents.
I trace it back to a coffee table book my Dad has in his library. It was WW2 nose art, so of course there were tons of pinup style pictures which sort of formed my first thoughts of what was "sexy".
That got me looking at that whole genre, Bettie Page, the Vargas girls, Rita Hayworth.
Then I stumbled on some Dita Von Tease stuff...was looking for a sexy Snow White costume and it was over for me.
What inspired you?

 

[cowboyup6977]

Frederick’s catalog in my grandmas bathroom

 

[Bisexguy70]

My fetish is wearing lingerie also. I just started on a whim. I was alone at a hotel and masturbating to trans/sissy porn. Something just brought me to try on outfits like i was seeing in the videos and in the magizines i had brought with me. Somehow i found a cute outfit, camisole top, thigh highs and garter belts. I just tried them on and got so aroused!! I masturbated until i had dry heaves. I was cumming with no discharge. I tried my fetish with a few guys and found out how much it aroused them. My first encounter was just me wearing crotchless fishnets and getting rimmed. Since then ive had many hot CD encounters.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Frederick’s catalog in my grandmas bathroom

Mine was the sears and jcpenny catalogues and the lingerie/ panty/ bra section

 

[live4thebj]

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-become-a-fetish.1593982/page-2#post-97816849

 

[live4thebj]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/same-fetish-my-entire-life.1597160/#post-97829340

 

[Crownvic]

Fetish

a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs

an interest in an activity or object that makes someone spend an unreasonable amount of time doing it or thinking about it

Her pretty feet...and watching her play with her shoes....gets me excited...

 

[TheF1x3r]

That got me looking at that whole genre, Bettie Page, the Vargas girls, Rita Hayworth.
Then I stumbled on some Dita Von Tease stuff...was looking for a sexy Snow White costume and it was over for me.

Oh god... to meet a woman like that.

I actually love pin ups, I seen them in old pictures in history books and they just.... they are theres something about the "real woman" shape, intense but not too much make up, and clothing that leaves you wondering what is underneath.

 

[TheF1x3r]

Amazing how many moms out there are total sluts. Not saying it is a bad thing.

Well I mean.... you already know they go all the way, right?

 

[~Elizabeth~]

The first one was as a child playing Cowboys and Indians being captured by my cousins.

 

[dschuetz68]

I'm really interested in people with unusual fetishes that most people wouldn't understand.

My fetish is sunscreen, and dates back to the 1970's. Living in an Australian country town, the local swimming pool was the place where we'd literally spend our waking hours. Speedo-style swimwear left little to the imagination, and as a result every curve could be easily leave little to the imagination.

The smell of sunscreen was everywhere, which was nowhere near as effective as it is today so lots was needed. I got a thrill out of rubbing it on my body and watching others do the same. Having someone else do it for me was the ultimate.

The sense has never left me. I have always visualised my fetish by wearing zinc. Working on a farm it's an everyday thing and something I'm known for. The funny thing is that nobody except my partner knows that I get aroused whenever sunscreen is present.

My partner thinks my fetish is stupid, but never seems to complain when I masturbate his penis with sunscreen

I'd be very surprised if anyone shares my fetish, but would love to know yours and how you came upon it!

I loved the 70’s.the sunscreen is certainly a trigger for me

 

[dschuetz68]

This is not my fetish, but maybe someone will know what I mean.

I came across this (no pun intended) unintentionally, I was looking for video game fail videos. It's safe for work.

I don't know if I have a minor and undeveloped interest in this specifically, or there was just part of my brain that was able to "read between the lines".

Jill Valentine gets Slimed

Did anyone else watch this and get the "huh... that's a fetish thing" alarm?

Yeah I did

 

[dschuetz68]

I know I'm not nearly as wild as most of you but my first fetish was lingerie.
I was buying it and wearing it as soon as I could sneak it past my parents.
I trace it back to a coffee table book my Dad has in his library. It was WW2 nose art, so of course there were tons of pinup style pictures which sort of formed my first thoughts of what was "sexy".
That got me looking at that whole genre, Bettie Page, the Vargas girls, Rita Hayworth.
Then I stumbled on some Dita Von Tease stuff...was looking for a sexy Snow White costume and it was over for me.
What inspired you?
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That’s sexy!!!