What made you smile or laugh today? Part IV

[IrisAlthea]

I’m obviously ignoring the Warrior GoddessTraining cringe, but otherwise this very much made me smile:

 

[dreamysub]

Planed outdoor D/s session for next week And my work mates telling me I've lost quite bit of weight and look good, that made me smile.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Snuggly cat. Completely unrelated to falling temperatures, I'm sure.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Snuggly cat. Completely unrelated to falling temperatures, I'm sure.

No causality, just cat-correlation.
Either way, it’s still cat snuggles.

 

[Lady2020]

What's the percentage of women pming Lit men?

 

[Biggalute]

What's the percentage of women pming Lit men?

Good question, who knows, probably better odds on winning the lottery, lol

 

[Lady2020]

Good question, who knows, probably better odds on winning the lottery, lol

It took me one asshole to stop pming. I can't imagine what men put up with.

 

[Biggalute]

It's tough, but it's a mans lot we endure

 

[Photog1rl]

What's the percentage of women pming Lit men?

This made you smile or laugh? Or is simply pondering the idea hilarious?

And I totally PM men-or assumed men-but not to get smexy. I am totally comfortable starting a conversation. Some are ok with it and some aren't.

A message from a friend who really knows me made me smile today. Genuine connections are so valuable and rare.

 

[Lady2020]

This made you smile or laugh? Or is simply pondering the idea hilarious?

And I totally PM men-or assumed men-but not to get smexy. I am totally comfortable starting a conversation. Some are ok with it and some aren't.

A message from a friend who really knows me made me smile today. Genuine connections are so valuable and rare.

Probably more a sad smile. When I was younger on Lit I didn't think much of pming men. Not that I was asking for their dick pic. Just to get to know them. Men seemed to have no problem pming women. It was my experience pming men that I wasn't seen positively.

 

[Photog1rl]

Probably more a sad smile. When I was younger on Lit I didn't think much of pming men. Not that I was asking for their dick pic. Just to get to know them. Men seemed to have no problem pming women. It was my experience pming men that I wasn't seen positively.

Really? In what way?
I know some women on here say they would never PM a man but that seems kind of strange to me.
First, it makes the hetero-normative and antiquated assumption that men should make the initial contact. Second, those assumptions carry an implication that pming is only for sex. I feel line this devalues the interaction and does not allow for those that need a connection to get sexy to exist in this limited view. And last it takes the sexual power away from women. If a woman is PM’ing someone they are sexually interested in, as long as they are respectful- go for it!

 

[Lady2020]

There are actually men on Lit who don't women pming them for various reasons. It doesn't matter if women are just trying to get to know them.

 

[Treeview]

I am not one of those. PM me anytime

 

[Photog1rl]

There are actually men on Lit who don't women pming them for various reasons. It doesn't matter if women are just trying to get to know them.

Not doubting you but that seems lame AF and those men are not worth PMing.

 

[Lady2020]

I am not one of those. PM me anytime

You pmd me.

 

[Yesok1]

My girlfriend kissing me before we got up.

 

[IrisAlthea]

For once I’m happy with one if those screens with a rolling news reel:
Three tenage boys saved a little girl, from a man who tried to drag her into a car.
He was later caught with the car full of illegal porn.

Makes me happy for the girl of course but also because there has been so much negative news about teenage boys.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

My love.