ZiggyTheHutt
Really Really Experienced
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- Apr 22, 2013
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While some prefer to roleplay certain excuses for being spanked which make sense as a setting, such as disciplinarian roleplaying, being spanked by daddy, or teacher, or whatever... that's not the real reason why someone wants to spank or be spanked.
I like to spank. This is why it is exciting for me:
I like to touch. I like to lightly stroke, caress, and use feather-light touches. I also like to gently squeeze and knead and massage. I also like to give a quick, perfectly placed slap right where it creates a tingling feeling, not pain, which heightens the senses for her and makes her really, truly experience the other kinds of touches I am doing. There's also something about giving a spanking which provides me with a very primal feeling of satisfaction and appreciation when I feel the contact of my hand against her skin. It heightens the sense of intimacy, of nakedness, of primal, uncivilized, animal-like desire. And between two people who trust one another, it heightens that feeling of trust, of giving, and of taking.
When I touch, there is an unspoken and overwhelming feeling of "I want you", or "I want to touch you here, like this". When she responds to that touch, there seems to be an unspoken response of "I want you to have me" and "I want you to touch me there, like that".
Words don't need to be involved. But the act of spanking can be an expression of desire, and expression of giving and taking, and expression of trust, vulnerability, comfort and closeness. There is much that is being communicated between the people involved, and that communication heightens the sensations of sex and intimacy.
I spank her because she wants me to spank her. She wants to be naked, on all fours, ass in the air, face buried in a pillow. She wants to feel my hands caressing her body, touching her, telling her, without words, how much I want her. She wants to feel my hands giving her gentle smacks on the ass. She wants to experience something primal, a role that she doesn't get to play all day long, most of the time, almost every day. She can step outside of her professional self, her role as a friend, or a mother, or whatever her role is as a member of a family or a society. She can feel and express a part of herself which is hidden, taboo, and primal. That role excites her.
My role, as her man, spanking her, excites me as well. And I want to step outside of myself, my role as a professional, a supervisor, a civilized and respectable gentleman, and I want to be a different part of myself. I want to express my very primal desires in a way I simply cannot, anywhere else, with anyone else. I want to, just for a moment, feel like she is in my possession... which I'm almost ashamed to admit, because that is so radically different from how I usually am. I don't think of her that way. But a part of me really wants her to be mine. And in that moment, she is, even if only briefly.
I don't know how else to describe it, but it is quite meaningful to me, and to her.
I like to spank. This is why it is exciting for me:
I like to touch. I like to lightly stroke, caress, and use feather-light touches. I also like to gently squeeze and knead and massage. I also like to give a quick, perfectly placed slap right where it creates a tingling feeling, not pain, which heightens the senses for her and makes her really, truly experience the other kinds of touches I am doing. There's also something about giving a spanking which provides me with a very primal feeling of satisfaction and appreciation when I feel the contact of my hand against her skin. It heightens the sense of intimacy, of nakedness, of primal, uncivilized, animal-like desire. And between two people who trust one another, it heightens that feeling of trust, of giving, and of taking.
When I touch, there is an unspoken and overwhelming feeling of "I want you", or "I want to touch you here, like this". When she responds to that touch, there seems to be an unspoken response of "I want you to have me" and "I want you to touch me there, like that".
Words don't need to be involved. But the act of spanking can be an expression of desire, and expression of giving and taking, and expression of trust, vulnerability, comfort and closeness. There is much that is being communicated between the people involved, and that communication heightens the sensations of sex and intimacy.
I spank her because she wants me to spank her. She wants to be naked, on all fours, ass in the air, face buried in a pillow. She wants to feel my hands caressing her body, touching her, telling her, without words, how much I want her. She wants to feel my hands giving her gentle smacks on the ass. She wants to experience something primal, a role that she doesn't get to play all day long, most of the time, almost every day. She can step outside of her professional self, her role as a friend, or a mother, or whatever her role is as a member of a family or a society. She can feel and express a part of herself which is hidden, taboo, and primal. That role excites her.
My role, as her man, spanking her, excites me as well. And I want to step outside of myself, my role as a professional, a supervisor, a civilized and respectable gentleman, and I want to be a different part of myself. I want to express my very primal desires in a way I simply cannot, anywhere else, with anyone else. I want to, just for a moment, feel like she is in my possession... which I'm almost ashamed to admit, because that is so radically different from how I usually am. I don't think of her that way. But a part of me really wants her to be mine. And in that moment, she is, even if only briefly.
I don't know how else to describe it, but it is quite meaningful to me, and to her.
