Why do men keep trying to move from literotica chat to snapchat/skype?

[HumpDayHoratio]

Recently joined and I wanted to chat about fantasies and writing erotica as I start to build up my courage to post a story. I've had lots of men message and ask to chat on skype or snapchat. Whats wrong with the chat here and why ask someone on a forum that they have no idea what I look like to move to a more personal chat? One start instructing me how to set up skype after I polietly declined. I know what they hope to get but does this ever actually work?

This has been my experience. I started out on the Forum here. Sending a PM, waiting a day usually, then getting a response….a snail mail version of chat.

I finally figured out there was a “Chat” room here and honestly spend a fair amount of time over there lately. It’s an unstable platform for sure, but chat is in “real time” and can be fun.

I have been drug kicking and screaming over to an offsite chat room by a couple of gals that is way more stable and archives your conversations. Hope this helps you in some way.

 

[oxbowma]

That’s not always true. And not all guys are that burdensome. Some know to back off and I’d like count myself as one of them. Aren’t you a guy - way to throw all your brethren under the bus dude

I'm a guy with a wife who likes to dip her toes in the nudist/swinger side and have gotten way to close a look at the burdensome ones. Wish it wasn't true, but the 1000's of monosyllabic intros have left an impression

 

[3Frank]

The conversations option and there's one on the main site as well

I would be happy to help you out with the fantasies,erotics n stories idea, as I have a lifetime of experience with this subjects. We will follow your rules as it is more comfy that way. No need to change channels, unless you want another venue. How do we proceed? I have about 4 days of free time each week. Thanks

 

[Gory]

Recently joined and I wanted to chat about fantasies and writing erotica as I start to build up my courage to post a story. I've had lots of men message and ask to chat on skype or snapchat. Whats wrong with the chat here and why ask someone on a forum that they have no idea what I look like to move to a more personal chat? One start instructing me how to set up skype after I polietly declined. I know what they hope to get but does this ever actually work?

What you like to Chat and do you like Poetry! Does older men turn you off or on?

 

[TnA4U]

I get this all the time, too, and have added to my profile that I don't play off of Lit.

I understand the appeal of the other sites, but particularly for those of us who would prefer to keep our dalliance on Lit a secret, moving to a different platform can often pose significant threat.

While using a different moniker a few years ago, I conversed off of Lit with a gentleman or two. Sometimes, though, I'd forget to mute notifications or be logged in to a mailbox I use for Lit when I thought I was in another and nearly sent a few emails to outsiders.

Sticking with Lit has drastically reduced the number of near heart attacks I've experienced.

So, if those who contact me can't play by these rules, we don't play at all. That has, no doubt, limited my opportunities, but it is what it is.

 

[Vinylguy]

I get this all the time, too, and have added to my profile that I don't play off of Lit.

I understand the appeal of the other sites, but particularly for those of us who would prefer to keep our dalliance on Lit a secret, moving to a different platform can often pose significant threat.

While using a different moniker a few years ago, I conversed off of Lit with a gentleman or two. Sometimes, though, I'd forget to mute notifications or be logged in to a mailbox I use for Lit when I thought I was in another and nearly sent a few emails to outsiders.

Sticking with Lit has drastically reduced the number of near heart attacks I've experienced.

So, if those who contact me can't play by these rules, we don't play at all. That has, no doubt, limited my opportunities, but it is what it is.

Nothing matches that panic, I know

 

[rickeno650]

there are also chat rooms here you can use that allow chatting faster than messaging here in the forum

I like your shirt

 

[rickeno650]

I get this all the time, too, and have added to my profile that I don't play off of Lit.

I understand the appeal of the other sites, but particularly for those of us who would prefer to keep our dalliance on Lit a secret, moving to a different platform can often pose significant threat.

While using a different moniker a few years ago, I conversed off of Lit with a gentleman or two. Sometimes, though, I'd forget to mute notifications or be logged in to a mailbox I use for Lit when I thought I was in another and nearly sent a few emails to outsiders.
Sticking with Lit has drastically reduced the number of near heart attacks I've experienced.

So, if those who contact me can't play by these rules, we don't play at all. That has, no doubt, limited my opportunities, but it is what it is.

Good for you

 

[rickeno650]

I enjoy fun, hot chat as long as it respects both participants wishes. It actually makes it hotter!

 

[Baldo_bearded]

Back to the topic of the post, if I have a connection with someone here and want more and more, I like to move to an app that is more prompt and offers quicker replies or notifications, or more multimedia ways of sharing.

 

[a93dipqx]

Recently joined and I wanted to chat about fantasies and writing erotica as I start to build up my courage to post a story. I've had lots of men message and ask to chat on skype or snapchat. Whats wrong with the chat here and why ask someone on a forum that they have no idea what I look like to move to a more personal chat? One start instructing me how to set up skype after I polietly declined. I know what they hope to get but does this ever actually work?

Submitting that first story for publication can be really intimidating. I sent in my first story a couple of weeks ago. I am not a fiction writer, but needed to build up skills in "showing" versus "telling" compositions and the only way I thought I could practice this tactic was through creative writing. An online interaction with a bitcoin scammer offered me inspiration for that first story which ended up being a little over five thousand words.

After I hit that "Submit' button, I first though the publisher running this site would reject my work because it was terrible. Then, when they accepted my story, expected that, no one would read my work and even if someone took the time to read my writing, they'd hate it, tell me I was a terrible writer and that should immediately uninstall any word processing software and never write again.

None of those things happened. I had a pretty good experience.

I am working on my second story now and hopefully will have a draft in a couple of weeks.

If you'd like to chat about fantasies and writing erotica, I'd love to read your thoughts and trade ideas for different techniques.

Have a great day!

 

[not1foryou]

Back to the topic of the post, if I have a connection with someone here and want more and more, I like to move to an app that is more prompt and offers quicker replies or notifications, or more multimedia ways of sharing.

And while that media may be of each other; it is also very fun to share various pics/gifs/vids from elsewhere to express my desires.

 

[nakedmanmeat]

I just found out there is chat on here.. but it's hard to follow with all the grey "someone has joined/left". I could see that be annoying in general chat, but not one on one.

 

[Baldo_bearded]

And while that media may be of each other; it is also very fun to share various pics/gifs/vids from elsewhere to express my desires.yes!

Please imagine the finger guns .gif I am imagining now for this purpose.

 

[Tigobitties98]

I think it still runs on MSDOS.

I'm not techy at all, and even I know that MSDOS is old & clunky!

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I'm not techy at all, and even I know that MSDOS is old & clunky!

Since you have a great rack and are articulate and witty, you get to pick the platform.

 

[Badguy4u]

Recently joined and I wanted to chat about fantasies and writing erotica as I start to build up my courage to post a story. I've had lots of men message and ask to chat on skype or snapchat. Whats wrong with the chat here and why ask someone on a forum that they have no idea what I look like to move to a more personal chat? One start instructing me how to set up skype after I polietly declined. I know what they hope to get but does this ever actually work?

I think like others, it's not really chatting on here, it's email. Very slow, now notification of a response. Just a big pain. But I don't chat with something else unless I've gotten to know the person, and at least have a sense they are real

 

[live4thebj]

Recently joined and I wanted to chat about fantasies and writing erotica as I start to build up my courage to post a story. I've had lots of men message and ask to chat on skype or snapchat. Whats wrong with the chat here and why ask someone on a forum that they have no idea what I look like to move to a more personal chat? One start instructing me how to set up skype after I polietly declined. I know what they hope to get but does this ever actually work?

Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. You do realize you are in a porn site right? Not like you are dealing with saints here and let’s be honest level headed people.

 

[nakedmanmeat]

Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. You do realize you are in a porn site right? Not like you are dealing with saints here and let’s be honest level headed people.

As a note, all saints have a past and all sinners have a future!

 

[kathyisgr65]

Right..a usually I can't speak for the men but I do it cuz the program here is not great for someone who has very little patience.

 

[IARainman]

Right..a usually I can't speak for the men but I do it cuz the program here is not great for someone who has very little patience.

Yes, I prefer kik or Skype because chat is so clunky here. You have to keep refreshing to see if you have new messages.

It’s also easier to share pictures for those who are inclined. It’s not an expectation, but when someone wants to, having to use a third party here is extra clunky.

So, those are reasons to move, but if someone doesn’t want to I’m happy to continue the conversation here.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Yes, I prefer kik or Skype because chat is so clunky here. You have to keep refreshing to see if you have new messages.

It’s also easier to share pictures for those who are inclined. It’s not an expectation, but when someone wants to, having to use a third party here is extra clunky.

So, those are reasons to move, but if someone doesn’t want to I’m happy to continue the conversation here.

Yup..not some crazy conspiracy to steal all ur money and kidnap ur kids..or whatever.. just better service

 

[IARainman]

Yup..not some crazy conspiracy to steal all ur money and kidnap ur kids..or whatever.. just better service

I take it that her original post hinted at it being some tactic to trick women into sending pictures. While it is easier to share pics, there are plenty of people content to converse and it flows better when you know someone has responded (or even when they are writing)

 

[kathyisgr65]

I take it that her original post hinted at it being some tactic to trick women into sending pictures. While it is easier to share pics, there are plenty of people content to converse and it flows better when you know someone has responded (or even when they are writing)

I take it that her original post hinted at it being some tactic to trick women into sending pictures. While it is easier to share pics, there are plenty of people content to converse and it flows better when you know someone has responded (or even when they are writing)

Just some ulterior motives u men may have..but I'm assuming cuz it wasn't spelled out...

 

[IARainman]

Just some ulterior motives u men may have..but I'm assuming cuz it wasn't spelled out...

Yes, we’re horrible. Lol