How did you get over the reluctance to swallowing your own cum? Stories and advice 💪💦

I didn’t have a choice. The first time I had phone sex it was with an older dom woman. She made me finger fuck my ass and after I blew a huge load which ran all over my right hand and fingers, she ordered me to lick all my cum off them. Yum! First phone sex experience, first time talking to a dom woman, and first taste of my delicious cum! Became a routine part of my masturbation pleasures. The experience prepared me well for a mistress who liked to snowball it back into my mouth.
 
The way that finally worked for me was to cum into a small cup, wait for my refractory period to pass its peak, and then knock it back once the urge to swallow it returned (more details here). Using a cup, you also get to feel the weight of almost all of it fall on your tongue as you tip it in your mouth, and the satisfying feeling of a full load sliding down your throat. There's no apparent issue with waiting (cum play in porn can last several minutes), so if you're finding it difficult, try shooting in a cup and waiting to see if the decision to swallow or not answers itself.

How did you get over it?
Any advice you want to share?
Just something that once tasted was craved. Now every chance I get.
 
From self-sucking. At first I wouldn't even come in my mouth, but arousal soon stopped me caring about that, and then the idea of swallowing it began to turn me on, so I did it quickly one day and continued doing it until I stopped self-sucking at the age of 28 when my wife wanted me to stop so I didn't hurt my back.

After that she suggested using a shot glass if I wanted to keep consuming it, so I've been using those usually twice a week for over a decade now. My wife makes sure there's always a clean one by our bed.

I don't have any advice, but it's worth it, and it just feels natural after a short time.
 
From self-sucking. At first I wouldn't even come in my mouth, but arousal soon stopped me caring about that, and then the idea of swallowing it began to turn me on, so I did it quickly one day and continued doing it until I stopped self-sucking at the age of 28 when my wife wanted me to stop so I didn't hurt my back.

After that she suggested using a shot glass if I wanted to keep consuming it, so I've been using those usually twice a week for over a decade now. My wife makes sure there's always a clean one by our bed.

I don't have any advice, but it's worth it, and it just feels natural after a short time.
That's some wife. Did she like watching you self suck or now swallowing it from the shotglass?
 
Don't know. Usually after nutting, it's not appealing. Darn post coital refractory period...
One day just decided to clean her up. Took a second or 10 to get into it. But, her smell combined with mine, was intoxicating. The rest of the morning left me with that taste in my mouth and a warm feeling in my belly. After that day, it's all good now.
 
While cum was always intriguing. My own brand has never been all that interesting to me.

As a guy, I've had a number of a gfs who would hold mine in her mouth after I climaxed, and want to kiss and feed it to me. I always seemed to waive it off. When I finally started meeting men as a crossdresser, the very first time I sucked a man, there was no doubt in my mind that I would swallow...And, I did. Completely.

Today, if I meet a man, I will swallow, unless we, or he, decide we'd like to cum another way...But, my own? Still doesn't interest me much.
 
While cum was always intriguing. My own brand has never been all that interesting to me.

As a guy, I've had a number of a gfs who would hold mine in her mouth after I climaxed, and want to kiss and feed it to me. I always seemed to waive it off. When I finally started meeting men as a crossdresser, the very first time I sucked a man, there was no doubt in my mind that I would swallow...And, I did. Completely.

Today, if I meet a man, I will swallow, unless we, or he, decide we'd like to cum another way...But, my own? Still doesn't interest me much.
For someone who is unsure, but not afraid to try. I think the best method is the direct method. Right into your mouth. I had the same experience as Liz as far as the first time meeting a man as a crossdresser. Once I had him in my mouth, there was no doubt I would swallow and never a second thought that I would keep sucking and kissing and licking it until it grew soft or he couldn't take any more. And I would much prefer sucking on a lovely cock for this reward than settle for my own. But long before I got there, years before when I was just discovering my femme self and about the time I started to explore and fantasize with makeshift toys, long before the internet, I tried something I read about in an issue of Penthouse letters. On the waterbed I had in college, with my favorite "toy" at the time, an amazing, smooth and sort of squishy hairbrush handle with a tapered head that slid in easily for a couple of inches or so before expanding to close to an inch and a half wide for another 4 inches. It was a close to the real thing as I had in those days. I was really enjoying myself. Again, no internet, so my eyes were closed, and I was lost deep in fantasy, occassionally stroking myself through the material at the front of my thong. As I grew close, I threw my stocking clad and shaved legs over my head, pulled my clitty out of my panties and I opened my lipsticked lips as wide as I could and I stuck my tongue out. My toy was buried as deep as it would go. My red pumps with 4 inch heels were above my head. I was so turned on I didn't have to do more than rub myself a little and I aimed right for my mouth. I can still remember it like yesterday. I really hit the mark. I started to spurt stream after stream right into my mouth and on my outstretched tongue. Much of it slid straight down my throat. But enough of the load had crossed my tongue and remained in my mouth that the taste and texture lingered. A few drops missed and hit my chin and my chest. Without thinking, I scooped those up and licked my fingers off. I remember that I wasn't repulsed by the taste or the experience. If anything, it confirmed that I wanted to have a real cock in my mouth and to taste and swallow someone else's cum.
 
I was on the diving team and track.. very flexible. I'll never forget I'd just painted my bedroom and a plastic sheet covered my bed so I slept on the floor and had my feet against the wall when I decided to point my erection in the direction of my mouth. I was balls deep when I came and quickly spat my semen out in the sink. This became a nightly thing and got lazy and just swallowed it. No one has swallowed my cum more than me
 
That's some wife. Did she like watching you self suck or now swallowing it from the shotglass?
She used to get off watching me but not anymore.
I was on the diving team and track.. very flexible. I'll never forget I'd just painted my bedroom and a plastic sheet covered my bed so I slept on the floor and had my feet against the wall when I decided to point my erection in the direction of my mouth. I was balls deep when I came and quickly spat my semen out in the sink. This became a nightly thing and got lazy and just swallowed it. No one has swallowed my cum more than me
We have a similar story. Can you still selfsuck? I had to stop at 28.
 
For a long time I was reluctant to take my own cum. My wife changed that by collecting 6 or 7 loads in a baby bottle over a span of a week, restraining me and then bottle feeding me until I took all of it in one sitting. There's more detail to that but that's what happened. The most I ever took at once was about 8 to 9 loads of my own cum.
This was a time for her when she would dream up something off the wall and then act on it...... and it always involved me.
Another time she had me take her to an adult store, picked out a strap-on and a 18" double dildo and announced loud enough that just about everybody heard that she intended on making the entire 18 inches disappear into my ass when we got home. I ended being tied ass up to a table after an enema and the entire dildo right up to the second head disappeared into my ass.
Wow that is hot! DM me, I would like to hear more. I am in swfla too.
 
I love my cum. I got started by edging and as a result, I would get really close to cumming and stop just short of it, sort of as some cum would come out anyway but I wouldn’t have the feeling of completely cumming. I started slurping that mini load up and that got my going. Now I want to taste someone else’s cum for the first time.
 
The more you think about it the more it becomes a matter of, "but what if I don't like it"? If you don't like it, you can spit it out. Just like in hockey, you miss all of the shots you don't take.

Don't over-think it, "JUST DO IT" - you won't be sorry. After the first couple of times, it became my regular routine.
 
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Here's a secret move we do that might make it easier to try. We both are very oral and not to many times have we've had sex without oral. She'll usually go down on me first getting me to max hardness. Then I'll kneel on the floor beside the bed and lick and lap until she's close to getting off. When's she right on the edge from my tongue I stand up throw her legs over my shoulders and fuck her. When I get right to my edge I pull out and let a small load of cum out on her pussy. I can usually do this two and on occasion three. Basically edging I guess. After I let a little out I go back down on her. I haven't gotten off so the max lust is still there and I lick up the small loads without even thinking about it. I eventually get her off then I can fuck her much longer because the tanks not empty yet.
 
Was never hesitant or reluctant
One day When i was younger and started jerking off. I just looked at it all over my hand and then bam. I liked it off and cleaned it up. Have enjoyed my and others peoples cum ever since then.
 
I originally started eating my own cum because I was ordered to do it by my best friend Larry. I was his personal cocksucker and I had to do whatever he told me to do. Since he wouldn't suck my cock, I used to jerk off immediately after giving him a blowjob. At some point, he wanted to know whose cum tasted better, his or mine, so he told me to eat my cum instead of using a tissue in order to compare the tastes. I did it but I had to force myself, since I had to obey his instructions. It was difficult at first, but. over time it became easier the more I did it. His cum tasted better because his family were vegetarians. Eventually I would eat my cum even when I jerked off by myself. I still do.
 
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When my thoughts turned to having male on male sex, it highly aroused me as I stimulated my secret gay desires by reading and watching first bi-sexual porn, then morphed into total homosexual cravings. The experience of women sucking me and swallowing my load, made me steadily wonder what sperm would taste like. I would cum daily but not try it after my orgasm.

The desire in my mind just grew of course, so one day I jacked off and felt my warm cum and used my fingers to feed it to my mouth. I felt surreal the first time, but was proud of getting past that mental barrier. It was thick, warm, and did not taste bad at all. The second time I ate my cum I came in a shot glass and drank it down. It felt so sexy.
The third time I dumped my load and kept it in my mouth. Tasting and playing with it with my tongue. Laving my teeth with my fuck cream. Licking it off my lips, and that was almost 18 years ago. I have never stopped eating cum, and love other men's blasting into the back of my mouth to fully taste this carnal drink.

Wish I had done this my whole life now. You cum so much more in volume when your younger. If I could turn back time. . .
 
I've always had an affinity for facials, be it my own or someone else's. That just kind of inevitably led to me trying to eat some, and I quickly realized I enjoyed that too.
 
Posted about this before . . . I have eaten my cum since forever.
I sucked my own cock until in mid 40's or so. After I was no longer flexible enough my wife at the time would help occassionaly by jerking me off when my cock was close and pointed at my mouth. Now with present GF we share my cum at every chance we get and when she is not here when I jerk off I just lick it off my fingers.
 
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