How did you get over the reluctance to swallowing your own cum? Stories and advice 💪💦

[SwitchOnTheNight]

The way that finally worked for me was to cum into a small cup, wait for my refractory period to pass its peak, and then knock it back once the urge to swallow it returned (more details here). Using a cup, you also get to feel the weight of almost all of it fall on your tongue as you tip it in your mouth, and the satisfying feeling of a full load sliding down your throat. There's no apparent issue with waiting (cum play in porn can last several minutes), so if you're finding it difficult, try shooting in a cup and waiting to see if the decision to swallow or not answers itself.

How did you get over it?
Any advice you want to share?

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

I cum/ruin only when mistress allows me, and the requirement is that i eat my cum… her words and instructions are enough for me to do it… and I’m starting to get used to it…

 

[klippert]

Unless you’re, chewing, playing Baseball or other outdoor sport. Spitting is impolite

 

[la_ruche]

Advice:
Resist the urge to just get out of bed and wipe it off.
Instead, lay there, look down on you waning wood and let your fingers play in the cum on your belly. Eventually you dip a finger in a pool forming on your chest and raise it, albeit a bit reluctantly, to your nose and sniff. Running your finger slowly down to your lips you stick out your tongue and have a curious lick. Finding out the taste is not that prominent you scoop up some more and suck it clean off your fingers.
You may now feel your dick starts throbbing again as you are slowly passing our of the refractory period and it raises slowly. Maybe scoop up some more from your belly or if you prefer - the head and hopefully there’s already some pre-cum mixed in there. Lick you fingers clean and start stroking the slippery boner again, now with a hand getting more and more wet. Let the second climax shoot right into your cupped palm. It may be thicker and more even in texture than the first one. Open your waiting mouth and lick you palm clean, allow the taste to infuse your mouth and then swallow it down.

Continue practicing with your first load so you reject the feeling of ”being done” and include scooping, tasting and swallowing (and possibly a second climax) before you “are done”.

 

[SwitchOnTheNight]

I cum/ruin only when mistress allows me, and the requirement is that i eat my cum… her words and instructions are enough for me to do it… and I’m starting to get used to it…

Always good to have a reason. It doesn't take that long to get used to if you stick with it.

Advice:
Resist the urge to just get out of bed and wipe it off.
Instead, lay there, look down on you waning wood and let your fingers play in the cum on your belly. Eventually you dip a finger in a pool forming on your chest and raise it, albeit a bit reluctantly, to your nose and sniff. Running your finger slowly down to your lips you stick out your tongue and have a curious lick. Finding out the taste is not that prominent you scoop up some more and suck it clean off your fingers.
You may now feel your dick starts throbbing again as you are slowly passing our of the refractory period and it raises slowly. Maybe scoop up some more from your belly or if you prefer - the head and hopefully there’s already some pre-cum mixed in there. Lick you fingers clean and start stroking the slippery boner again, now with a hand getting more and more wet. Let the second climax shoot right into your cupped palm. It may be thicker and more even in texture than the first one. Open your waiting mouth and lick you palm clean, allow the taste to infuse your mouth and then swallow it down.

Continue practicing with your first load so you reject the feeling of ”being done” and include scooping, tasting and swallowing (and possibly a second climax) before you “are done”.

That sums up that way to do it perfectly.

 

[Twistedkink]

For me it was pretty simple, I figured if I wanted/expected my partner to swallow/taste my cum then why shouldn’t I expectt the same of myself. Once I got over that it’s just cum, it became a lot easier and been hot ever since. And cum kisses are the the very best!

 

[cubbyfire04]

For me, the realization was an accident in my younger (and more flexible) days when I was attempting to suck my own cock lol. On my back, legs all the way over my head. I could get the head in my mouth but it was never comfortable enough. But I quickly realized I didn't have to stretch as far and could still shoot in my mouth. Game over. Now I just instinctively lick it up from myself, my wife, wherever lol.

 

[haventdonethat]

For me, the realization was an accident in my younger (and more flexible) days when I was attempting to suck my own cock lol. On my back, legs all the way over my head. I could get the head in my mouth but it was never comfortable enough. But I quickly realized I didn't have to stretch as far and could still shoot in my mouth. Game over. Now I just instinctively lick it up from myself, my wife, wherever lol.

Similar.
My cum shots were far reaching and voluminous. Getting cum on my face and lips was not an everyday occurrence but did happen so I was not repulsed when I first sucked myself off. Rather enjoyed it and it became a regular playtime activity.
Last time was yesterday with GF, used my fingers to share my cum from her face into both our mouths before kissing her.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Similar.
My cum shots were far reaching and voluminous. Getting cum on my face and lips was not an everyday occurrence but did happen so I was not repulsed when I first sucked myself off. Rather enjoyed it and it became a regular playtime activity.
Last time was yesterday with GF, used my fingers to share my cum from her face into both our mouths before kissing her.

Brings to mind a hand job I received in college. It was pitch dark and she was a pro. I blasted myself directly in the mouth, across my cheek, and headboard. She heard the splatter and wanted to see so I quickly swallowed what was on my face before she turned on the light so she didn't see. Then she whispered "would've been hot if that hit you in the face". Didn't take long for that relationship to turn very kinky

 

[curiousguy80]

I had a meetup planned with a guy I met on here a few years ago. When I finally give oral, I want the full experience including him finishing in my mouth. I've tried to taste my own cum in the past, but could never bring myself to swallow. Meetup date was approaching, so while in the shower I came in my hand and made myself swallow it. I wasn't grossed out afterwards, so over the next few days I did the old legs over head trick and came in my mouth swallowing each time. Unfortunately the meetup with the guy didn't happen, but knowing the taste didn't bother me, I finally got the courage to go down on my wife after finishing in her and licking her clean. She was into it then, unfortunately she doesn't let me do it anymore.

Hopefully me and my friend meetup some day soon and I can bring myself to swallow his.

 

[txfuncouple]

If you have a reluctance to swallowing cum (I don’t), go down on your wife/girlfriend/hookup/etc right after you cum inside her and lick her to another orgasm (or two or three or…..). Or ask her to kiss you right after you cum in her mouth after she blows you (or while she’s blowing you tell her you want to taste her tongue).

You’ll be licking both of your juices up and it’s awesome. And she’ll get off on it and start fantasizing about seeing you suck another cock.

Soon you’ll not be worried about swallowing and enjoying it even more.

 

[Easyvirtue]

It was an old girlfriend who I kissed directly after she swallowed after a blow job! She asked if I liked the taste of just having my cum in her mouth! I could taste the musty residue of my cum and it immediately made me hard again! She told me to lay back and sucked me again cumming in moments as she immediately came to my mouth and we kissed passionately! I’ve been hooked ever since, either enjoying my cum alone or being fed!!

 

[haventdonethat]

It was an old girlfriend who I kissed directly after she swallowed after a blow job! She asked if I liked the taste of just having my cum in her mouth! I could taste the musty residue of my cum and it immediately made me hard again! She told me to lay back and sucked me again cumming in moments as she immediately came to my mouth and we kissed passionately! I’ve been hooked ever since, either enjoying my cum alone or being fed!!

During a threesome I kissed wife and flinched a little bit from the faint taste of our friends cock and cum in her mouth. It just made me so proud of her, I kissed her harder!

 

[Rabidwolf71]

One way I know is to actually learn to have a prostate orgasm it's different than a normal one because it just comes out on its own from the muscle contraction versus it being pumped out and there is no change in mindset if that makes sense if you have one you'll understand what I'm talking about I'm sure others out there who have done this can attest to it the key thing is finding the right angle and if you really want to make sure you do it use a fucking machine that's what I did and shot loads of it into my hand and was able to just slurp it right into my mouth without the slightest hesitation

 

[Rayjay507]

I guess I first got over it by shooting my load in a large spoon with just a teaspoon of cool water. The water actually cools my sperm but makes it so tasty. I don’t even cool it down anymore. But I love putting the whole spoon in my mouth at once and getting it all. Yummy. I never waste a drop anymore either. I eat my cum every chance I get. I love it. I also feel sure it will be amazing coming from a direct source soon. Can’t think of much other than hard cock. I crave it! Ummm.

 

[panty_chap]

I'm still not over my reluctance. I do it because I'm often not allowed to cum if I don't clean it up after. At the moment I'm not allowed to cum at all so it's a non-issue I suppose.

Having someone domiant over you helps. I did it the first time because it was the only way I was going to be allowed to cum that night, and I had not been allowed for a while.

Other times I have done it because I was tasked to. The further I fall into a sissy role the more things I do because they are expected of me. And satisfying what is expected of me in ways I don't especially like is a turn on all in itself. Weird, I know.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I was never reluctant...I was eager. I was young and I adored watching my friend cum. The little drop of pre-cum on the tip made it hard for me to look away
https://www.sex.com/pin/66206144/

 

[tristantrotsky]

I was never reluctant...I was eager. I was young and I adored watching my friend cum. The little drop of pre-cum on the tip made it hard for me to look away
https://www.sex.com/pin/66206144/

My response exactly. There was never a moment of reluctance.
As soon as I saw spunk I was naturally eager to discover what it tasted like, and once tasted, I was hooked...

 

[swflabimale]

For a long time I was reluctant to take my own cum. My wife changed that by collecting 6 or 7 loads in a baby bottle over a span of a week, restraining me and then bottle feeding me until I took all of it in one sitting. There's more detail to that but that's what happened. The most I ever took at once was about 8 to 9 loads of my own cum.
This was a time for her when she would dream up something off the wall and then act on it...... and it always involved me.
Another time she had me take her to an adult store, picked out a strap-on and a 18" double dildo and announced loud enough that just about everybody heard that she intended on making the entire 18 inches disappear into my ass when we got home. I ended being tied ass up to a table after an enema and the entire dildo right up to the second head disappeared into my ass.

 

[Jordanjack]

Similar.
My cum shots were far reaching and voluminous. Getting cum on my face and lips was not an everyday occurrence but did happen so I was not repulsed when I first sucked myself off. Rather enjoyed it and it became a regular playtime activity.
Last time was yesterday with GF, used my fingers to share my cum from her face into both our mouths before kissing her.

Nice. Wish I shot like that.

 

[Jordanjack]

For a long time I was reluctant to take my own cum. My wife changed that by collecting 6 or 7 loads in a baby bottle over a span of a week, restraining me and then bottle feeding me until I took all of it in one sitting. There's more detail to that but that's what happened. The most I ever took at once was about 8 to 9 loads of my own cum.
This was a time for her when she would dream up something off the wall and then act on it...... and it always involved me.
Another time she had me take her to an adult store, picked out a strap-on and a 18" double dildo and announced loud enough that just about everybody heard that she intended on making the entire 18 inches disappear into my ass when we got home. I ended being tied ass up to a table after an enema and the entire dildo right up to the second head disappeared into my ass.

Oh my god! How do you guys find women like this? I would love to experience that.

 

[Jordanjack]

For the longest time I could never taste my cum except when I contorted myself to shoot directly into my mouth. Then I didn't have a chance to chicken out. It wasn't until recently that I was able to cum in my hand and clean it up with my tongue. I had to force myself to do it the first few times. Now, I crave it.

 

[BiGuyBarrie]

I had no issue with my own cum. The first time was when I was with my buddy and he “talked” me into letting him suck me off and promised I wouldn’t have to do anything in return. (Although I secretly wanted to just wouldn’t admit it to him).

Finally that night he made the first move by slipping his hand under my sheet then touching my cock through my tight underwear. Then he slowly pulled my underwear down and I could feel his hand gripping my throbbing shaft. I then felt him move closer than his lips touching the head of my cock. I was breathless as I felt the hot wetness of his mouth covering my cock. It was my very first blow job and it felt amazing.

Several minutes later he simply stopped sucking me and said “your turn”. Although this wasn’t part of the agreement I was so turned on I would’ve pretty much done anything to get the feeling of his mouth back on my cock. So we switched places and I pulled his underwear off and nervously kissed the head of his cock tasting his precum. Then the head of his cock passed my lips and I knew right there and then that 1. I was sucking cock and 2 that I was instantly addicted.

I was so turned on sucking him that my cock was going to erupt. I told him and he said “it’s ok cum on my cock”. I shot a huge load all over his cock and balls and then he said “now keep sucking and clean your cum up as you do”. I did exactly what he said and I fucking loved it. Soon he told me to stop as he was close to shooting. I didn’t stop I kept on his cock until he was drained swallowing every ounce.

After that night every time I would masturbate which was a lot I would lick it off my hands.

 

[jbird4]

That reluctance is so weird. You tell yourself you want it. And you do want it bad. Then when you cum the urge isn’t just gone, but that notion that it turned you in so much and you wanted it so bad is completely gone.

For me I had swallowed cum from someone else as a kid a bunch but I still lost the urge to eat my own. Then I learned to edge. Especially cumming without orgasm. I could easily eat my cum when I edged out loads. It then just became part of my regular masturbation and now I eat at least some of my cum most times.

 

[swflabimale]

Oh my god! How do you guys find women like this? I would love to experience that.

We would experiment a little and open up about what we liked, didn't, and turn-ons. We introduced some bondage and vibrators and searched out specific porn, very little of it was straight porn. After I opened up about my four year relationship with my older gay cousin, she became obsessed with finding gay porn and subjecting me to her much kinkier side.