the captians wench
sewing wench
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You could ask him to spend a few minutes helping return you to mommy mode. Other than that I sometimes will spend a few minutes cleaning up my room taking some time to get back to reality. Or I will take some time to take a shower or bath to give myself some transition time.
That's how we handle it.
For the most part Jounar doesn't like leaving me until he knows that I'm okay and back to normal. But some times I need some extra. If he recognizes it before he leaves, or if I recoggnize it before he signs off then I'll ask permission to wear something warm and snuggly so that I feel that extra warmth. It makes me feel held by him even more.
If he has to leave before I'm fully back, then I will take a shower and cry or what ever I need to to get me back.
I've had some bad returns, so it's rare for Jounar to leave me with out making sure I'm okay, but it happens some times.