littleone77
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Toa_lin said:Yeah.... my pyl's the same way, her life wasn't exactly a rain-bow either.... actually we kinda started talking to begin with when she desperately needed to talk to someone, a shoulder to cry on, and the only person she could get a hold of was me, at the time a stranger... Now we're closer then we've ever been with anyone else But because of that, she still has a hard time opening up, and as far as I can tell, i'm the only one who can tell there's ever something wrong. So i don't think she's used to opening up at tall.
but we're making progress, and we'll get there eventually. Everyone just needs a couple nudges every now and then to keep moving in the right direction, that's all. And yes, Ds are included in that "everyone" cus i ALSO have a hard time opening up to my pyl when there's something wrong... I guess it's kinda the same idea. So we're both working on it, and luckily, we both drag it out of e/o if we have to
I found Daddy in a similiar fashion to you. He was there when I needed him and even when I didn't. I never would have dreamed we would be where we are now but circumstances quickly changed and here we are. Its amazing how well he reads me and is able to get inside my mind. Sometimes he knows what will bother me or how I will react before it actually happens.
So far we are doing pretty good in the communication area. I am just embarrassed about somethings which he is trying to break me of. Progress though is part of every relationship. When things are right, you become One and grow together as One.