Discovering hubby might want to be cuckolded

[whenagain]

I guess I don't have a ton to add except this thread is super hot.

 

[honestWithWifie]

Okay, I know next to nothing about cuckolding beyond reading a couple Lit Stories ... Any advice?

Wow! I somehow just discovered this thread. You are a cuckolds dream. You didn't originally want a male play partner, but discovered that it was fulfilling.

I am a wanna be cuck. I am honest about it. Wifie knows and even acknowledges about that it was quite fun to get fucked really good by someone other than me.

What advice do you have for us to give our wives? How can we "gently" nudge them over the edge? How about a little "girl-to-girl advice"?

 

[cuckoldbill]

Great thread.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Wow! I somehow just discovered this thread. You are a cuckolds dream. You didn't originally want a male play partner, but discovered that it was fulfilling.

I am a wanna be cuck. I am honest about it. Wifie knows and even acknowledges about that it was quite fun to get fucked really good by someone other than me.

What advice do you have for us to give our wives? How can we "gently" nudge them over the edge? How about a little "girl-to-girl advice"?

Hi honest,

Sharing your fantasies and desires with your life partner is a complex thing no matter what the nature of your fantasies are. It all depends on how you've dealt with sex in the past. Do you talk about it or just do it? Is she adventurous, open to simple variations or is it always the same formula in your bed? Does she ever talk about her own fantasies or does she wait for you to initiate? Clearly the more first answers you have the better your chances over second answers.

If your relationship has been mostly second answers, I think your road is long and full of baby steps. Break the ice, ask for little things, express that you have fantasies and want to share one with her but encourage her to share one too.

ALWAYS reiterate your commitment to your marriage, your love for her, your desire that she enjoy what happens, and that you want to experience new things together.

Maybe if you take that road of slow, small step goals transparent with her through honest communication, you have a shot.

Manipulating her into playing along with your fantasy is a terrible idea. No one likes dishonesty and manipulation. It immediately makes her wonder why you're doing this, what you really want, how far will this go, why are you lying to her. If it is going to happen, she has to have some latent interest or openness to it.

Hope that helps.

Annie

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Related question: Why is so much cuckold porn (pictures mostly) so heavily racist? I understand things or ideas can get strongly fetishized (like the idea of powerful black men with very large cocks) but some cuckold porn portrays the black men like monkeys, completely ignorant, almost animal-like. Have people really developed fetishes for that ugly, racist portrayals?

 

[BBCfan]

Related question: Why is so much cuckold porn (pictures mostly) so heavily racist? I understand things or ideas can get strongly fetishized (like the idea of powerful black men with very large cocks) but some cuckold porn portrays the black men like monkeys, completely ignorant, almost animal-like. Have people really developed fetishes for that ugly, racist portrayals?

I would suggest that it is more racist towards white men as being weak pathetic inferior small dicked losers. The black man is portrayed as superior and desirable. I don't see how that is like a monkey or suggests ignorance on their part.

Black men having a stereotype of being better endowed and sexually superior is one I would imagine most black males would be happy to see portrayed more.

 

[MarriedMumbaiMom]

Some years back, I discovered my hubby is a cuck!

 

[Cycle Tom]

Some years back, I discovered my hubby is a cuck!

Does he watch you with other men?

 

[honestWithWifie]

Hi honest,

Sharing your fantasies and desires with your life partner is a complex thing no matter what the nature of your fantasies are. It all depends on how you've dealt with sex in the past. Do you talk about it or just do it? Is she adventurous, open to simple variations or is it always the same formula in your bed? Does she ever talk about her own fantasies or does she wait for you to initiate? Clearly the more first answers you have the better your chances over second answers.

If your relationship has been mostly second answers, I think your road is long and full of baby steps. Break the ice, ask for little things, express that you have fantasies and want to share one with her but encourage her to share one too.

ALWAYS reiterate your commitment to your marriage, your love for her, your desire that she enjoy what happens, and that you want to experience new things together.

Maybe if you take that road of slow, small step goals transparent with her through honest communication, you have a shot.

Manipulating her into playing along with your fantasy is a terrible idea. No one likes dishonesty and manipulation. It immediately makes her wonder why you're doing this, what you really want, how far will this go, why are you lying to her. If it is going to happen, she has to have some latent interest or openness to it.

Hope that helps.

Annie

Annie,

Thanks for the advice. I'm already implementing it. It's going to be small baby steps. No manipulation here - hence my literotica name "honestWithWifie". I want to watch her, she wants some variety, she has had better PIV sex with others and she knows it. Her upbringing is preventing it. We keep chipping away at it through honest discussion using logic and reason.

 

[BBCfan]

Some years back, I discovered my hubby is a cuck!

How did you discover it?

 

[whenagain]

Related question: Why is so much cuckold porn (pictures mostly) so heavily racist? I understand things or ideas can get strongly fetishized (like the idea of powerful black men with very large cocks) but some cuckold porn portrays the black men like monkeys, completely ignorant, almost animal-like. Have people really developed fetishes for that ugly, racist portrayals?

Thanks for addressing this. It's hard to search for cuckold porn without running across really racist portrayals.

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

Related question: Why is so much cuckold porn (pictures mostly) so heavily racist? I understand things or ideas can get strongly fetishized (like the idea of powerful black men with very large cocks) but some cuckold porn portrays the black men like monkeys, completely ignorant, almost animal-like. Have people really developed fetishes for that ugly, racist portrayals?

We haven't, or at least my wife has never said anything like that. For her, its more the idea that sex with black men was always considered a no-no when she was single and she's now at an age that it just doesn't matter.

 

[LisaVegas]

I don't consider hub a cuck. No humiliation things. He does love to watch though. I mean loves it. Anything I do. If he can't watch he loves to get a pic from it. Whatever it.. is. He loves pics he didn't take of me more than anything he takes. I enjoy it either way

 

[dz2681]

I don't consider hub a cuck. No humiliation things. He does love to watch though. I mean loves it. Anything I do. If he can't watch he loves to get a pic from it. Whatever it.. is. He loves pics he didn't take of me more than anything he takes. I enjoy it either way

Very hot, I’m in same boat as your hubby. Sounds like he’s been lucky to see some sexy times you’ve had.

 

[magicalmoments]

I don't consider hub a cuck. No humiliation things. He does love to watch though. I mean loves it. Anything I do. If he can't watch he loves to get a pic from it. Whatever it.. is. He loves pics he didn't take of me more than anything he takes. I enjoy it either way

This describes my experiences with my first wife as well. If I had encountered humiliation it would have killed the occasion and if it had been from the guy I would have thumped him, if it had been from her it likely would have killed the marriage.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I would suggest that it is more racist towards white men as being weak pathetic inferior small dicked losers. The black man is portrayed as superior and desirable. I don't see how that is like a monkey or suggests ignorance on their part.

Black men having a stereotype of being better endowed and sexually superior is one I would imagine most black males would be happy to see portrayed more.

True, the whole fetish relies on broad stereotypes which is fine if you're into it. The white males appear to enjoy the degradation. I'm sure the black males enjoy the adoration. And the wives enjoy a decent fuck for once, lol.

I was just referring to particularly noxious expressions of the fetish where the black man is not portrayed as superior or desirable, just an animal with a big cock. Not all certainly but it is out there. Let's hope that particularly nasty version of the fetish disappears eventually.

And I must say, if your avatar is any guide, a BBC fetish might be something I should try! yum yum!

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Some years back, I discovered my hubby is a cuck!

We'd love to hear more details, sweetie.

 

[hbcacouple]

Annie

We'd love to hear more details, sweetie.

Your husband is a cuck ONLY if you have been fucking around on him. If you haven't done the deed he may ahave an interest but it remains a fantasy.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Hubby brought cuckolding up again last night. As the potential end of Pandemic Conditions seems on the nearer horizon, he's very anxious to reunite with our play friend, Gary. OR, he explained last night, other people. So this is the first he mentioned thinking about going beyond Gary (his first/only cock to suck and first/only to fuck him). And to do it in a cuckold way. This became very erotic talk, at least until he couldn't talk because I put his head between my legs.

So now I'm starting to plan on how to go about it. How far to go in weaving the fantasy. And what do I want. The thought of a truly well-hung lover is very attractive after all this time being cooped up and isolated.

Open to suggestions...

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I'm thinking fairly often about how to make this happen. I would love a lover who wants me, man to woman. If he's hung that's a bonus . I'm considering leaving hubby in sissy bondage at home while I go have a *date*, telling him about it when I get home, but if the partner I find is up for it, I'd have him in our bed with my for hubby to watch, still in sissy bondage.

Of course, with two other family members in the house, the former is much more workable than the latter...

 

[Sportglide]

A couple weeks ago we had another overnight. I had planned ahead. It began as an evening of my dolled up sissy hubby being able only to watch Gary and I having a nice little sex marathon, unable to say anything due to the ball gag or interfere because he was locked to the chair. When Gary and I wanted to go to sleep together, I led sissy back to the guest room and strapped her down to the bed firmly. I pulled her panties down and slid a large anatomically accurate cock dildo into her pussy and pulled the panties back up over it. Her clit was a mess of precum and cum (the little slut had cum from watching us and her own humiliation) but it stayed in its cage.

The next morning, Gary went in to wake sissy by having her suck his cock. After that, he left and I finally released hubby. He said it was such an erotic night. He was very grateful.

Damn, that is hot.

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

I'm thinking fairly often about how to make this happen. I would love a lover who wants me, man to woman. If he's hung that's a bonus . I'm considering leaving hubby in sissy bondage at home while I go have a *date*, telling him about it when I get home, but if the partner I find is up for it, I'd have him in our bed with my for hubby to watch, still in sissy bondage.

Of course, with two other family members in the house, the former is much more workable than the latter...

My wife and I have been having the same conversations. Let me know how it works out for you.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

My wife and I have been having the same conversations. Let me know how it works out for you.

I've been thinking about it more. In a period where reality and family needs are trumping most sexy thoughts or fun times but we'll get back to it and I'm sure with renewed vigor. I recently did something impulsive and gave a gift blow job to a former colleague of mine and I enjoyed that very much. But it was sort of spur of the moment so I didn't tell Hubby before I did it.

Now that I've done that, I feel like I've crossed the Rubicon and going out to have a one-night-stand with a handsome guy is very possible, especially with things opening up here in the U.S. Of course, I'd really rather get picked up by another woman but that isn't hubby's cuckhold fantasy. Maybe I'll go out and go with the first man or woman who I connect with... maybe in a few weeks when all this other stuff calms down...