When a girl masturbates

abiamarie said:

I've heard a story of a guy whose girlfriend confessed to him that she masturbates and he left her out of disgust and shock, although he jacked off like any other male.

I've also heard of other types of men who like that their girlfriend masturbates.

Why would a man hate that his girl masturbates? And why do some other guys looove that?

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PinkOrchid said:

omg, I can't get through a DAY without getting myself off. God help the poor man who would have to live with me if I can't get my daily stress relief.

If he can consistently go at it two, three or four times a day, then I wouldn't *need* to do it, but I would still enjoy it as a shared activity.

If I'm in a relationship, it's something I like doing for a partner. I can't imagine having a partner who didn't like to share that, it's a whole dimension that would be missing. And I like to watch him, too. There's a certain level of trust and intimacy that observed or shared masturbation brings to the table.

Someone who would tell me I shouldn't masturbate is likely to be either too controlling or too repressed or too insecure for me to be able to have a healthy relationship with.

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Noor said:

Insecurity, afraid he won't measure up, that she may perfer her masturbation to him.

He may also have the misguided notion that only men should enjoy sex. I figure guys like that are better off with someone else.

Some guys just love everything about women and their sexuality.

Noor

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ravyn said:

I guess I see how some guys would be insecure. But I've never been with anyone who thinks it's disgusting. My friends act like they don't do it, but we all know they do! Most of the men I've been with like watching and I think it's a huge turn on to watch them.

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UC_Gav said:

Women say the exact same thing.

Alot of people say 'Oh i dont need to do that, im in a relationship' but to be honest i think thats more of an attempted insult like "I have a partner unlike you, ya sad wanker"

Ive heard a few times of girls getting upset when they find out their partner masturbates, watched porn, writes ertoica etc because they feel that they arent satisfying enough and their partner requires more sexual stimulation than they can provide.

Its simply an ego thing. Like, "What the hell do you need to do that for, arent i enough?"

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PinkOrchid said:

omg, I can't get through a DAY without getting myself off. God help the poor man who would have to live with me if I can't get my daily stress relief.

If he can consistently go at it two, three or four times a day, then I wouldn't *need* to do it, but I would still enjoy it as a shared activity.

If I'm in a relationship, it's something I like doing for a partner. I can't imagine having a partner who didn't like to share that, it's a whole dimension that would be missing. And I like to watch him, too. There's a certain level of trust and intimacy that observed or shared masturbation brings to the table.

Someone who would tell me I shouldn't masturbate is likely to be either too controlling or too repressed or too insecure for me to be able to have a healthy relationship with.

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abiamarie said:

I've heard a story of a guy whose girlfriend confessed to him that she masturbates and he left her out of disgust and shock, although he jacked off like any other male.

I've also heard of other types of men who like that their girlfriend masturbates.

Why would a man hate that his girl masturbates? And why do some other guys looove that?

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MistressRain said:

I was with someone some time ago ... and he was strictly no show in the masturbation department . He said he would never ever do that in front of me ... that was his time ( although that is one of the biggest turn ons for me!) , and that it was a very very private thing ( guess we weren't that close afterall ) . And if he would finishwith me in bed and leave me hanging and I knew it wouldn't take much to make me cum ... I started masturbating with him there , he would turn his back or walk out .... he made me feel very bad about myself when I did ... needless to say , he's gone.

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