Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Poetdontknowit]

I think guys have the ability to compartmentalize sex/orgasms/fooling around from emotions. Its just getting off, which is always better with someone else. Marriages get stale with lack of sex, a bud in the same boat becomes your best cum buddy. It's just cumming, no emotional entanglement. Nut, and go about your day. And, it seems to be easier to find a guy to get off with than a willing female sometimes. Convenience.

 

[Justcurious777]

I think guys have the ability to compartmentalize sex/orgasms/fooling around from emotions. Its just getting off, which is always better with someone else. Marriages get stale with lack of sex, a bud in the same boat becomes your best cum buddy. It's just cumming, no emotional entanglement. Nut, and go about your day. And, it seems to be easier to find a guy to get off with than a willing female sometimes. Convenience.

I think there is a difference between those who are attracted to other men and those who are just attracted to a cock. I am definitely in the latter category. Have no interest in kissing/cuddling, just get turned on by a nice cock.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I think guys have the ability to compartmentalize sex/orgasms/fooling around from emotions. Its just getting off, which is always better with someone else. Marriages get stale with lack of sex, a bud in the same boat becomes your best cum buddy. It's just cumming, no emotional entanglement. Nut, and go about your day. And, it seems to be easier to find a guy to get off with than a willing female sometimes. Convenience.

Absolutely.

 

[Poetdontknowit]

I think there is a difference between those who are attracted to other men and those who are just attracted to a cock. I am definitely in the latter category. Have no interest in kissing/cuddling, just get turned on by a nice cock.

Absolutely. I'm not attracted to the guy himself. I mean, I can appreciate a handsome male or good physique, but that isn't something that catches my eye. Women catch my eye. But, if the horny factor is up, and only a nice cock is there and in a similar mood... let's do this

 

[SmokingFap]

I started a thread just a few days ago about my first experience sucking cock, which just happened on Saturday. I won't repeat the story here, so if anyone's interested please visit my thread.

Thread 'So I Sucked My First Cock Yesterday...' https://forum.literotica.com/threads/so-i-sucked-my-first-cock-yesterday.1611964/

Anyway, it was quite a memorable experience, and I enjoyed both him sucking my dick (he's a 65-year-old devout gay man, so he's pretty fabulous at it) and taking his limp, but fat penis into my mouth swirling it around and feeling it grow. For me, I was most curious about sucking a guy. Him blowing me was a wonderful bonus.

But now that I've lost my cock-sucking cherry, I find that I'm still very interested in it going forward. But now, I won't feel that irrational pressure to do it. I did it. So now I can be more relaxed and selective going forward. I'm not going to turn into a cock whore, I just think it would be something fun to do with guys that I know and like. No rando pickups, thank you.

 

[Biguy77578]

I think guys have the ability to compartmentalize sex/orgasms/fooling around from emotions. Its just getting off, which is always better with someone else. Marriages get stale with lack of sex, a bud in the same boat becomes your best cum buddy. It's just cumming, no emotional entanglement. Nut, and go about your day. And, it seems to be easier to find a guy to get off with than a willing female sometimes. Convenience.

You hit the nail on the head. Cumming without emotional ties, nut and go though many times I just want their nut and as many as I can get to get my fill.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Absolutely. I'm not attracted to the guy himself. I mean, I can appreciate a handsome male or good physique, but that isn't something that catches my eye. Women catch my eye. But, if the horny factor is up, and only a nice cock is there and in a similar mood... let's do this

Yes - women catch my eye, not men. While I'd have absolutely NO romantic interest in him, If I'm going to suck a guy, which I certainly do want to do, I would want him to be attractive; i.e., handsome, or normal looking, and with a decent physique. I may be effected by the gay/bi porn that I watch, but, yeah, that's what I want.

 

[rag196]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I am close to 70 and I am experiencing the same thing. For some reason I want to try sucking a dick.

 

[rag196]

Very interesting thread. I had my first bi experience about 10 years ago at a clothing optional lake. I never in my wildest dreams was expecting it to happen. My wife was out of town, so I drove out to the lake with some beers and was just enjoying being put in nature on a beautiful day!
A guy was sitting down from me probably 20 feet away and I could see he was very well endowed. I really like to look at ig cocks and I had my sunglasses on and tried to be discreet.
He got on his float and proceeded to swim out to the boat buoys and I was hot so I jumped into the lake and floated closed to shore. I had a few beers and was feeling no pain and I could hear him paddling closer and closer to me. The next thing I know is he positioned himself right behind me. I pretended like I didn't realize he was behind me and was paddling my hands through the water to keep me upright on my float. I reached back through the water and brushed my hand against his hard cock. I turned and acted surprised . Be fre I new it I was stroking him under the water and ended up sucking his cock!!!
Again, I didn't set out to do this

Yep, would agree!

I agree as well,

 

[rag196]

My wife is still very interested in sex, but, alas, the medications she takes ruin her ability to orgasm. So no sex for us. I love her, and don't want to have an affair with a woman. Two dudes helping each other out works fine for me. I know it's rationalizing, but, since there's no emotional attachment, I'm okay with the occasional man on man action.

Thats where I'm at, wife and I haven't had sex in 3 years, I still like to look @ hot women, but still need sex.

 

[klippert]

Why do they; NSA Sex.

 

[betabrad]

For me at least, I think my porn habit had something to do with it. But I also think it must have been something I was just inclined to all along. The porn just helped bring those feelings to the surface. It just takes a little while.

I think that looking at so much porn and jacking off to those images - yes, the hot sexy women, but also all those big hard cocks. Sure I was cumming to those women , but I was also cumming to those cocks. Somehow , I started looking more and more at those big cocks. Somehow , I was thinking less about fucking those sexy women or the sexy woman sucking my cock but I started thinking about being in the woman’s place . I started feeling jealous of her. It looked to me that she was getting so much pleasure from sucking cock and being fucked and I wanted to feel what she was feeling. I wanted to be the one on my knees sucking that big hard juicy cock. I started craving what it would feel like to be face down ass up and being fucked.

 

[Oldsucker]

I was curious for a long long time. I had dreams often, of sucking cock, sometimes my own, sometimes in a gloryhole type scenario, in a toilet. It was rude, and glorious. Eventually I realised I was running out of time. A dilemma, but I wanted to throw off the shackles of a conventional life to give it a try.
So at age 66.I did.I liked it. I knew I would.

 

[Sgts19]

I am close to 70 and I am experiencing the same thing. For some reason I want to try sucking a dick.

Done about everything else why not give it a try

 

[1960curious]

I am close to 70 and I am experiencing the same thing. For some reason I want to try sucking a dick.

It is great! The worst thing is you will get hooked and want cock all the time, and if you are married and your wife don't know. It drives you crazy cuz I want more then I can get with out the wife knowing!

 

[betabrad]

I think there is a difference between those who are attracted to other men and those who are just attracted to a cock. I am definitely in the latter category. Have no interest in kissing/cuddling, just get turned on by a nice cock.

Yeh, me too. I’m not attracted to men but I confess that there is just something about when I see a big hard cock - it just makes me feel weak and submissive. All I can think about is how much I want to drop to my knees and suck it or how much I want to drop to my hands and knees , face down ass up and have it fuck me. I don’t know why it does this to me. I just can’t help myself.

 

[1960curious]

Yeh, me too. I’m not attracted to men but I confess that there is just something about when I see a big hard cock - it just makes me feel weak and submissive. All I can think about is how much I want to drop to my knees and suck it or how much I want to drop to my hands and knees , face down ass up and have it fuck me. I just can’t help myself.

I am with you! Big hard cock just needs to be sucked and fucked!

 

[phil1955]

I guess I have always been bi curious but never upon it until I was retired. I have no desire to kiss and hug a guy but I love to suck a cock and swallow his cum. I have not had one in my ass yet but that will happen when I find a willing guy.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

I have always been curious about MM contact. The feeling has gotten a lot stronger as I get older.

 

[hilton1958]

There definitely seems to be a pattern/trend of guys becoming curious with age. I'm 66 now married, and still have regular and enjoyable sex with my wife, but have developed a growing desire to masturbate with other guys for the last few years. I finally acted on it and placed a couple of ads online for a wank buddy, which led to my first m2m experience just two days ago (we jerked one another off). I loved it and now I am craving more.

 

[PFWilly]

I quit being bi-curious many decades ago, and willingly engaged in my first consensual cocksucking encounter with my best friend. Never regretted that decision, and have reaped the rewards several times over the years. Don’t get enough these days, but enjoy every moment when I get the opportunity. Oddly enough, I get as much satisfaction from giving head, as in receiving. Something so satisfying about earning a hot and juicy reward in my mouth. Yum.

 

[PFWilly]

I guess I have always been bi curious but never upon it until I was retired. I have no desire to kiss and hug a guy but I love to suck a cock and swallow his cum. I have not had one in my ass yet but that will happen when I find a willing guy.

Like you, I’ve not had a cock in my ass yet. But think about it frequently. Like. Every. Day.

Good luck!

 

[Hirschjlm]

I think there is a difference between those who are attracted to other men and those who are just attracted to a cock. I am definitely in the latter category. Have no interest in kissing/cuddling, just get turned on by a nice cock.

Cocks are hot
Men are not

 

[Oldsucker]

Cocks are hot
Men are not

Yes.The cock.The spunk. And for me- the balls!

 

[PFWilly]

Cocks are hot
Men are not

I enjoy a nice hot cock, but also enjoy full body contact, kissing, touching, and light nipple play. Like they say, different strokes for different folks. Wonder where that phrase first originated? LOL.

Cheers!