Why did i become bi?

[FlirtyWordy]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

I have said, jokingly, for years that male Homo sapiens were designed by evolution to die by, let's say, 27 — stomped by a mammoth, speared by the neighboring tribe, savaged by a sabertooth, etc.

Because, c'mon! We have testosterone pumping through us from puberty to the end of our lives, and our brains are designed for novelty (in caveman parlance, "new conquests"). So we just get keep getting pervier as we get older.

I realize the above will strike some people as bioessentialist, and like I say, it's partially tongue-in-cheek.

But men, what do you think?

 

[Milo9012]

I was in my late teens (completely of age) when I first touched another cock. I loved the way a flaccid one felt in my hand and then the feel of it growing, first stiff then hardening.

Each stage excited me to my own erection but what I discovered I loved most about it was the way it made a guy feel; sighing with pleasure, moaning and groaning during climax, and sometimes saying sweet things to and about me in-between.

Those were the things I enjoyed and wanted to experience again with more guys. Later, I did the same, but more intimately, by taking cock orally. I quickly found I loved the creamy ejaculate and became a shameless cum lover; an affliction I'm so happy to have acquired through my 'faggotry'.

So why did I become bi?

I love the way I can bring pleasure to a guy and have him spurt sperm in an undeniable demonstration I have brought him to a peak of pleasure that leaves him feeling relieved and feeling like a virile man.

 

[nekkid_handyman]

I would say I've always been curious. Watching a lot of porn growing up, you end up seeing a lot of cocks. After a while, I was less uncomfortable with the realization that I found them sexy.
When I had my first experience, I realized I still LOVED women so I guess I didn't have as much guilt as I thought I would.

 

[DarkestParts]

I think it takes us all that long to figure out that we like sex a lot more than women. Thought of it makes us look to whatever or whomever can provide it. Sex consumes our minds and finding a way to make it last longer more intense and more meaningful pushes us to bridge those gaps we never thought possible.

That absolutely makes sense. I've heard about it being common for older men to become more open sexually and I would bet your answer is a main reason for many men.

 

[nostuff]

You pose a great question. I've spent years trying to figure it out, and I still don't have an answer other than to say I really like cock.

I'm especially puzzled, because I always thought the mere act of touching another man distasteful, if not disgusting. Not that I disliked gays in any way. I've always been a live-and-let-live kind of guy.

One day, however, I started wondering what man sex was like, why some men would be attracted to cock. It was a slow thing, nothing like that proverbial lightning strike. A long, drawn out evolution instead.

Was it because I wasn't happy at home? Perhaps, but that never made sense to me. If it was a matter of wanting more sex, I could have tried an affair with another woman instead of a man.

Was it because I started watching gay porn? I couldn't even watch William Hurt in Kiss Of The Spider Woman. Yuck, I had to close my eyes.

Was it something I read? If I couldn't tolerate a mainstream Hollywood movie, why would I find the written word any more appealing?

All I can figure is that something in me changed, something physical or psychological. Either way, I'm not smart enough to figure it out, so I just accept that I have an appetite for both men and women.

Social pressure is surely part of the explanation, at least for me.

Looking back, I was always somewhat out of step with my male peers. You might say my personality was a bit "softer" than theirs, though not to the point of others calling me gay. I was never comfortable with the coarseness so common among the other boys, and I disliked the cruel bullying of anyone who might get tagged as a sissy. And in that environment, you learned to side with either the other guys or the outcasts. I learned to be one of the guys.

That kind of indoctrination is tough to unlearn. It has taken me years to accept my gay desires, and I'm still not all the way there. Yes, I have finally experienced men, thank God, but the fears are still there. I suspect they always will be.

 

[Hitchiker69]

You're absolutely right about men sucking cock because they want to do it. My wife enjoys sucking me and will do it anytime I ask because she wants to please me but its not like she does it because she just wants to suck cock. She has sucked others cock in front of me to excite me and we have sucked cock together because she knows I like doing it.

I would absolutely LOVE to share a cock with my wife. Maybe she would like to try eating a pussy with me. That would be the ultimate outrageous pleasure

 

[Hitchiker69]

I was in my late teens (completely of age) when I first touched another cock. I loved the way a flaccid one felt in my hand and then the feel of it growing, first stiff then hardening.

Each stage excited me to my own erection but what I discovered I loved most about it was the way it made a guy feel; sighing with pleasure, moaning and groaning during climax, and sometimes saying sweet things to and about me in-between.

Those were the things I enjoyed and wanted to experience again with more guys. Later, I did the same, but more intimately, by taking cock orally. I quickly found I loved the creamy ejaculate and became a shameless cum lover; an affliction I'm so happy to have acquired through my 'faggotry'.

So why did I become bi?

I love the way I can bring pleasure to a guy and have him spurt sperm in an undeniable demonstration I have brought him to a peak of pleasure that leaves him feeling relieved and feeling like a virile man.

I feel very much the same way. I love the idea that I can attract and arouse another man. For the right guy, and in the right situation I would dress sissy style for him, do some make up and wear lacey panties. Then maybe a slow striptease before I go down on him. His cum is my reward, as well as the satisfaction of knowing he found me to be hot enough to get him hard.
I'm convinced I was born to be Bi, and that I need a man in my bed, mouth and ass on a regular basis.
I still love straight sex, but I need cock every once in a while

 

[KinkStevens]

My numbers are heavily slanted towards women. I sometimes wonder if my desire would lean more in the middle if I played with more cock. I’ll probably never know, but its a wonder

 

[PG564E]

I was in my late teens (completely of age) when I first touched another cock. I loved the way a flaccid one felt in my hand and then the feel of it growing, first stiff then hardening.

Each stage excited me to my own erection but what I discovered I loved most about it was the way it made a guy feel; sighing with pleasure, moaning and groaning during climax, and sometimes saying sweet things to and about me in-between.

Those were the things I enjoyed and wanted to experience again with more guys. Later, I did the same, but more intimately, by taking cock orally. I quickly found I loved the creamy ejaculate and became a shameless cum lover; an affliction I'm so happy to have acquired through my 'faggotry'.

So why did I become bi?

I love the way I can bring pleasure to a guy and have him spurt sperm in an undeniable demonstration I have brought him to a peak of pleasure that leaves him feeling relieved and feeling like a virile man.

So hot what you shared. I became an insatiable cum slut myself. I feel the same way that you do. This is wonderful! PM me anytime!