Why did i become bi?

[Ike_The_Spike]

Hah. Not quite—I was guessing on your age. I'm 74

I was probably 8 (1974ish) when I knew I liked multiple genders, I just didn't have the language for it or the understanding that I was "different."

When I was in my mid-late teens I finally had the language for it and knew that I was different so I closed that part of myself off from most people. Back then it was kind of ok to be gay but bi men were just lying to themselves and everyone else if you listened to the bullshit.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I had a friend in my teens and another friend in my twenties that I would fool around with. Having sex with both of them was awesome. I got married, but for all these years I missed those guys, I miss sucking her cocks. Now I just watch gay porn sometimes have gay phone sex with guys I meet here. I still love my wife, but miss gay sex.

Phone fun can be extremely hot!!!

 

[J1biboi]

I was probably 8 (1974ish) when I knew I liked multiple genders, I just didn't have the language for it or the understanding that I was "different."

When I was in my mid-late teens I finally had the language for it and knew that I was different so I closed that part of myself off from most people. Back then it was kind of ok to be gay but bi men were just lying to themselves and everyone else if you listened to the bullshit.

It's still that way here.

 

[Britva415]

Back then it was kind of ok to be gay but bi men were just lying to themselves and everyone else if you listened to the bullshit

"Back then?"

This stuff is still alive and well in 2025.

 

[Jeph77]

I was henpecked and held out on, into other means.

 

[Milo9012]

Before I turned twenty, I was being flirted with by so many gay guys, it was embarrassing when I was with straight friends, but I was secretly turned on by these hot handsome effeminate guys and the bulges in their tight jeans.

It wasn't until I was into my twenties that I reached into one of those jeans, pulled out a cock and stroked it to an enormous eruption; cum spewed fountain-like and I was hooked.

It was later that I sucked my first and, like a first kiss, you never forget it; the first taste of cum was, well, you guys know ...

I'm old now, but I want more cock and cum before I check out of this life.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Mutual blowjobs is the best most intimate connection that friends can ever achieve

Good friends cum for each other in each other!

 

[Milo9012]

Mutual blowjobs is the best most intimate connection that friends can ever achieve

Vitriolhack:
Good friends cum for each other in each other!

I've never had the pleasure of sucking a 'friend', but I can imagine the powerful bond it creates between two guys who began by liking, and hopefully, trusting, each other beforehand.

The feeling at his eruption must be an amazing moment for both friends.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I've never had the pleasure of sucking a 'friend', but I can imagine the powerful bond it creates between two guys who began by liking, and hopefully, trusting, each other beforehand.
The feeling at his eruption must be an amazing moment for both friends.

It is, Milo, there's no feeling to equal that moment of mutual oral orgasm.

 

[Milo9012]

It is, Milo, there's no feeling to equal that moment of mutual oral orgasm.

I hope I experience that moment one day.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I hope I experience that moment one day.

If you want it enough, that moment will come.
And you will wonder why it took you so long...

 

[Milo9012]

My want has whiskers now; I've been wanting a long time.

 

[Sgts19]

I hope I experience that moment one day.

My bucket list thing to try. I've always wondered what it would feel like when a cock starts to throb as it pumps warm cum into my mouth

 

[Milo9012]

My bucket list thing to try. I've always wondered what it would feel like when a cock starts to throb as it pumps warm cum into my mouth

It's a feeling you'll love at once, daydream about later over and over, then crave to feel again and again for long afterwards.

 

[Justynewhitney]

It me in my 40s. Started with trans prostitutes. Sucked off a couple of men in porn booths. I love dick, but not men. Is that crazy?

 

[NewbieHere]

I didn’t understand gay or lesbian sex. Growing up, I liked looking at naked guys but didn’t want others to know it.

I remember myself, my brother and cousin playing cards and I came up with the loser had to get naked and run around the house. I wanted to see them naked.

I kept winning and they would get naked and ran around the house. I finally lost. I got naked and took my turn to run. It was a nice night. Breezy. But cloudy so the moonlight was coming down bright but the clouds would cover it so it would get dark.

I got half way across when my neighbors came home. I hid in the bushes while they were in the front of their house talking. My brother and cousin ran out to see why I hadn’t come back and laughed at me behind the bush. It was scary and exciting at the same time.

I finally made it back. I think they wanted to see cock as much as I did. We never spoke of it again.

I was always afraid of being labeled gay because you couldn’t escape that and you would be shunned. It wasn’t “normal”.

Now, I have started to realize it doesn’t matter. Labels are what we give ourselves.

I have wanted to touch another man’s cock. To see it, touch it, play with it and suck it. It has been a deep desire.

I’m bi curious now. One day, I may have the courage to do it.

 

[chapter6plan]

I didn’t understand gay or lesbian sex. Growing up, I liked looking at naked guys but didn’t want others to know it.

I remember myself, my brother and cousin playing cards and I came up with the loser had to get naked and run around the house. I wanted to see them naked.

I kept winning and they would get naked and ran around the house. I finally lost. I got naked and took my turn to run. It was a nice night. Breezy. But cloudy so the moonlight was coming down bright but the clouds would cover it so it would get dark.

I got half way across when my neighbors came home. I hid in the bushes while they were in the front of their house talking. My brother and cousin ran out to see why I hadn’t come back and laughed at me behind the bush. It was scary and exciting at the same time.

I finally made it back. I think they wanted to see cock as much as I did. We never spoke of it again.

I was always afraid of being labeled gay because you couldn’t escape that and you would be shunned. It wasn’t “normal”.

Now, I have started to realize it doesn’t matter. Labels are what we give ourselves.

I have wanted to touch another man’s cock. To see it, touch it, play with it and suck it. It has been a deep desire.

I’m bi curious now. One day, I may have the courage to do it.

I wish you the best of luck. It's never too late to find a cock to suck.

 

[Cyberdog6x]

I have thought about this a lot over the last few years. In my forty's I started to gain an attraction to men and cock that I could not explain, it was like something clicked in my brain. One day, after going to the ABS many time to masturbate on my way home from work because I knew the wife would not be in the mood, I stuck my cock through the gloryhole, the best BJ ever! After many years of just receiving I found a guy in a ABS theater that I clicked with we traded BJ's, the feeling of a cock in my mouth was electric even though I could not make him cum. I was confused, and did not under stand where these feeling came from I would lay awake a try to come to terms with these new feelings.

Searching my memory, I was introduced to porn at a young age by a neighbor who found his dad's playboy collection. A few years later a family friend, just a few years older, would buy magazines for me and drop them off at my locker.

When alone with the family friend we started playing "boyfriend/grilfriend" though I was always the girl. I did like stroking his rather large beautiful cock and it still turns me on today to think about at the time I was more interested in girls and pussy. So in the end, I feel those early experiences laid the ground work for my experimentation later in life as many of us.

 

[NewbieHere]

I wish you the best of luck. It's never too late to find a cock to suck.

As much as I am on here to read, fantasize, and comment, it won’t happen because I’m married and I have a high profile life.

Still, I love to read and fantasize about a cock in hand. Or mouth. I’ll just have to live with my past experiences.

 

[Britva415]

I love dick, but not men. Is that crazy?

I used to know a lesbian who said that the only problem she had with dicks was the guy on the other end of it.

 

[liqueur]

I used to know a lesbian who said that the only problem she had with dicks was the guy on the other end of it.

I'm familiar with that feeling.

 

[jbird4]

I'm familiar with that feeling.

I mean, I am the proud owner of a dick and I would tend to agree with her in most cases.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Phone fun can be extremely hot!!!

Got a phone date Wednesday with a new toy! We’re into one another hot and heavy!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Got a phone date Wednesday with a new toy! We’re into one another hot and heavy!

Lucky boy!!!!

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Smooth hmmmmnice to see you