Why I hate bi-curious men.

[SPARTAN047]

There is a site for trans dating which allows the users to indicate their sexual role. I was curious about the percentages of the participants.

Among the trans women, 5% were tops, 35% versa and 60% bottoms. Among the men, 5% were bottoms, 25% versa and 70% tops.

No wonder it's nearly impossible to find trans tops, even the vers ones don't seem to want to top much.

 

[J1biboi]

I live in a very small country town where everybody knows everybody and teach there too. It wouldn't work very well if I came out as bi and so far don't know anyone for 100 miles that is.

I can certainly relate to this.

 

[Escierto]

No wonder it's nearly impossible to find trans tops, even the vers ones don't seem to want to top much.

In my experience, you are absolutely right. The girls will say they are versa but then you discover they have never topped in their lives! A pure top like my girl is rare.

 

[SPARTAN047]

In my experience, you are absolutely right. The girls will say they are versa but then you discover they have never topped in their lives! A pure top like my girl is rare.

While I don't mind being vers, my clitty and body aren't built to fully top. I'm happy to do it for vers sissies and trans chicks. I enjoyed the subs I took on but can't do it anymore. It's just not me.

 

[SPARTAN047]

In my experience, you are absolutely right. The girls will say they are versa but then you discover they have never topped in their lives! A pure top like my girl is rare.

I'm sure we both know this, I'd say most of them put vers just to get some replies. I mentioned most don't seem to like other trans girls. Maybe they're trying to get replies from guys who are vers too.

 

[Escierto]

Maybe they're trying to get replies from guys who are vers too.

Yes!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes!

I suppose we've all tried to tell little white lies like that.

 

[Escierto]

I suppose we've all tried to tell little white lies like that.

True dat.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

From when I was a teenager I've known I was bi (revised to pan now). And I found that getting your hands (or mouth) on a cock is about the easiest thing on earth to do, so much easier than finding a willing woman at short notice.

On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?

A lot of the time it feels like it's just a box some guys feel they have to tick, or they're looking to play with a couple and think it might be an extra enticement, but when it comes down to it a lot of guys are just like "You can suck my cock, I guess, maybe, but I'm not sucking yours".

Come on guys, overcome that curiosity and get the fuck out of that closet.

What you haven't figured out yet for many bi curious is someplace between straight men that suck cock andbi men that admit they suck cock and more.

 

[rube37]

I had my first same sex experience with another boy when I was a teenager. We jacked off together, jacked each other off, and he sucked me. I did not suck him and regretted that for a long time. It was not until I was 64 that I had another cock in my mouth. I am now 69 and have enjoyed stroking and sucking several cocks. I am married to a lovely woman, and have been for over 45 years, but she is just not into sex much anymore. Thus, I have turned to playing with cocks. I do not feel I am what you would call fully bi-sexual because I am not interested in kissing or hugging another guy and so far have not been interested in anal sex with a guy. I do enjoy very much stroking another man's hard cock and making him cum. I also enjoy sucking a nice looking cock from time to time.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I consider myself incredibly lucky to now have a swing partner who loves seeing me play with other guys. She's seen me suck, be sucked and fucked, and loved every minute of it. Seems there are plenty of other women in the swing scene who find bi play between guys erotic.

You are lucky. That's my favorite fantasy, to have a female partner who likes to watch me enjoy some cock. The ultimate would be if she enjoyed me watching her eat pussy

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I consider myself incredibly lucky to now have a swing partner who loves seeing me play with other guys. She's seen me suck, be sucked and fucked, and loved every minute of it. Seems there are plenty of other women in the swing scene who find bi play between guys erotic.

That's interesting as I have been a member of swing sites and they seem to have zero interest in bi males but maybe it's because you have a partner they can bang