Why I hate bi-curious men.

[OralAllOver]

From when I was a teenager I've known I was bi (revised to pan now). And I found that getting your hands (or mouth) on a cock is about the easiest thing on earth to do, so much easier than finding a willing woman at short notice.

On swinging sites there's a thousand and one guys with 'bi-curious' on their profiles. Bearing in mind it only takes about 5 minutes to satisfy that curiosity, why?

A lot of the time it feels like it's just a box some guys feel they have to tick, or they're looking to play with a couple and think it might be an extra enticement, but when it comes down to it a lot of guys are just like "You can suck my cock, I guess, maybe, but I'm not sucking yours".

Come on guys, overcome that curiosity and get the fuck out of that closet.

I think u underestimate your own courage
I was fearful, not even honest with self, for decades

u special!

 

[FlirtyWordy]

They're misrepresenting themselves, though. Not perceiving themselves.

What does bi-curious mean to you?

 

[Britva415]

What does bi-curious mean to you?

I would just point to the original post.

Partly because that's what we're talking about, here - we're not talking about genuinely bi-curious men.

And partly because I agree that the men it is talking about are not imaginary, not bisexual, and not even curious.

This isn't to say that there aren't genuinely bi-curious men, and it's clear that they aren't the ones who OP is mad at.

 

[Britva415]

we're not talking about genuinely bi-curious men

This came up in another thread just now. I think if these guys said "heteroflexible" instead of "bi-curious" this issue might be cleared up/go away.

Thoughts, @magic_rat ?

 

[FlirtyWordy]

I would just point to the original post.

Partly because that's what we're talking about, here - we're not talking about genuinely bi-curious men.

And partly because I agree that the men it is talking about are not imaginary, not bisexual, and not even curious.

This isn't to say that there aren't genuinely bi-curious men, and it's clear that they aren't the ones who OP is mad at.

Having been through a stage of "bi-curious," I guess I have some sympathy. They know they have some kind of interest, but don't know what it is. Perhaps posting, visiting hookup sites, etc. is a way they can vicariously have fun/become more comfortable with it without committing to anything scary

 

[TrailerHitch]

If I had never been bi-curious I never would have explored being bi. I have had experiences with men and now I just say I'm bi.

Don't like my explanation? Tough shit.