I guess I have always been bi curious but never upon it until I was retired. I have no desire to kiss and hug a guy but I love to suck a cock and swallow his cum. I have not had one in my ass yet but that will happen when I find a willing guy.
Why do older men become bi-curious?
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Curiousforcock24
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I have always been curious about MM contact. The feeling has gotten a lot stronger as I get older.
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There definitely seems to be a pattern/trend of guys becoming curious with age. I'm 66 now married, and still have regular and enjoyable sex with my wife, but have developed a growing desire to masturbate with other guys for the last few years. I finally acted on it and placed a couple of ads online for a wank buddy, which led to my first m2m experience just two days ago (we jerked one another off). I loved it and now I am craving more.
I quit being bi-curious many decades ago, and willingly engaged in my first consensual cocksucking encounter with my best friend. Never regretted that decision, and have reaped the rewards several times over the years. Don’t get enough these days, but enjoy every moment when I get the opportunity. Oddly enough, I get as much satisfaction from giving head, as in receiving. Something so satisfying about earning a hot and juicy reward in my mouth. Yum.
Like you, I’ve not had a cock in my ass yet. But think about it frequently. Like. Every. Day.
Good luck!
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Oldsucker
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Yes.The cock.The spunk. And for me- the balls!
I enjoy a nice hot cock, but also enjoy full body contact, kissing, touching, and light nipple play. Like they say, different strokes for different folks. Wonder where that phrase first originated? LOL.
Cheers!
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I agree with you on this. Masturbating RN just thinking of this very thing
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Ah. I forgot the nipples
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I've always known I've had bisexual tendencies. At this age, with my wife's decision to retire from sex, my bisexual side has come out in full force. There are lots of men in the same situation however being able to meet discreetly is the biggest challenge.
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Fooled around in HS and the urge has returned
I am surprised that more men do not take advantage of their bi side. It seems that a lot of older women have given up on sex. I can not see that it makes a lot of difference if that warm mouth working on your cock is a man or a woman. I am fortunate that my wife does not mind if I bring a guy home as long as I don't complain if she brings a guy home.
Lucky man!
Getting back to the original question. I think one possibilty for why older guys tend to be more open to their bisexuality now, is that there is a lot less stigma attached these days. My first sexual encounter with another male was back in the 60’s. There was a HUGE bias against those activities back then. Being open about it, or even accepting the concept, was nearly unthinkable in those days. Still some stigma attached by many people now, but a lot more acceptance as well. Thank goodness for the change…
I think you are right. I think I always had the desire to suck a cock but was afraid to do so and the stigma was part of it. At my age now, I am not going to worry about what someone else thinks.
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Well put I couldn't say it any better I feel exactly the same way you do
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Oh my god that sounds like a perfect setup I would love to have that agreement with my life. You're so lucky.
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Yeah, I think it is... definitely happened to me...
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Going to be 45 in December and I seem to be one of the younger people here. So, it wasn't just discovering that I was bi, it was admitting it to myself and finally exploring and developing my feminine side, a journey that had been on hold for 20 years.
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That sums it up nicely for me!
We were into this lifestyle even before my prostate surgery so we have just continued.
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I had homosexual relations when I was young. Once I started dating girls it stopped. It reemerged in my late forties. The remergence was stimiluated by my wife. She told me she had a fantasy of watching me having gay sex. We role played this gay sex scenario ever since. I bought her a strapon which she has become proficient using. My desire to suck or be fuck by a real cock has only grown. I crave it now more than ever but have never taken the plunge (except for with my wife and her strapon dildo).
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Lucky you with a wife that may let you find a man to join you. Let us know if you ever fulfil that fantasy.
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