Why did i become bi?

[Chatomatic]

I have sucked guys and had other sexual experiences with me both solo and with women present. I dont consider myself to be particularly bi more hypersexual, any port in a storm if you will. When it comes to bi stuff i have a little saying. " i enjoy cocks, just not so much the Dicks they are attached to! "

 

[Biguy77578]

Some days I wish I had crossed the bridge of m/m sexuality later in life. My first sexual experience was with a neighborhood friend (male). I was past curious by my adult life.
Why did I becum bi… because I chose to

You were exactly like me. A neighborhood boy initiated me only now i appreciate that he did. I have been bi almost my entire life. I love women. I've been married twice for a total of 50 years but I lust for cock.

 

[PG564E]

I was in torment for years. Married, had kids, around 55 years old then and an overwhelming desire to kneel and give my first blow job to a man in a gay bathhouse.

I am so grateful he let me suck him off, and it felt so right for having a warm hard dick slide in and of my mouth. My torment vanished when the man's sperm filled my mouth. I can't describe how wonderful I felt. My birth as a cock slut happened that day.

 

[Biguy77578]

I had my kids early. My oldest was a junior in college when I divorced my 1st wife and became fee to do as I liked.
I got back together with a high school girl friend and I told her about my by sexuality and she embraced my bi side. We had mmf sex as well as mff. Anything we wanted l.

 

[CEOescape]

Out of the blue... I had to call an electrician for some minor problems,He showed up right on time and I was intrigued by his hair cut and perfectly groomed beard. He was mostly gray but a young man in his early30's..He gave me the nicest look and half smile that make me both nervous and aroused. It was as if he was reading my mind.He did not have on the typical jeans . He wor k pants that were pressed but more looked like very light sweat pants.when I look up he said... These are much more comfortable then the damn fucking jeans and smiled..
We talked as he worked about nothing but everything including my wife.
Taking a picture of her in his hands he said she is stunning but tell me what is the gap you feel from time to time..I don't know why I said , she is great but does not have a proactive passionate side...He responded that I was too handsome to miss out on passion and sex for sex sake..

With that he walked to me and looked at me telling me to stop him if I wanted...I closed my eyes as he gripped my cock and told me to open my shirt...With one hand he opened my pants and griped my with his other felt my chest and pinched my nipples.. He then said ,, tell me to kiss you.. I did and I damn near came..
Dave I want you to put your mouth around my cock!!!!!!! He moved me to the sofa and he guided me down on his cock....relax and enjoy it ,, no hurry,, I felt him about to cumm but he stopped and told me he want me to feel him make me cummm first..

I had never felt anyone suck me like he did and I orgasmed so fast..He grabbed my hard and he also came
.. We cleaned ourselves up and talk like old friends ..I got a text message that my wife was stopping at the store. Me exchanged number and did give me a bill for his work...

 

[Mrman69]

I became bi curious around age 40. I think it is because I love oral sex so much and my wife is just not much into it. She sucks my cock for about 30 seconds then asks me if I liked it. I always tell her yes, but that I would like more. Anyway, my love for oral sex has led me to explore sex with other men. My first time being suck by another man was absolutely incredible!! I posted a story about it previously. I have sucked cocks maybe 4 or 5 times in the past 10 years or so. I want to explore more

My wife thought 30-45 seconds was a blow
job.

 

[OpenRoad_71]

From the first time I watched porn I always wanted the taker experience more than the giver. I lived a straight life, loved women, and love having sex with women. But I always fantasised about having my feminine holes stuffed by hard cock. I didn't really think of myself as 'bi' then tho.
At age 40, while in the process of losing my anal cherry, one of the things my dom said as he took me, which I recall vividly, was: "You love my cock pounding your gay ass!", and I very nearly replied "I'm not gay"! I ate those words when it occured to me that not only was I in doggy position on a bed with his cock buried deep inside me, but that moments earlier I had been deep-throating him.
Thats when I accepted the "Bi" label, but I've just always been bi really.

 

[JustaguyinSouth]

Hey so just throwing this out there because I'm curious. Recently divorced, married for 15 years. I have had an experience or two with trans women but part of me just wants to drop and swallow a cock if I'm being honest. I'm in Cincinnati fyi

I have a trans fantasy too!

 

[need2please72]

I was with my first CD not long ago and she does not plan to change anything permanently but it makes me curious

 

[SissyBrandi19]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

Ok...just seeing the thread title? My brain awarded me this vision of Chief Wiggum and Ralph outside...Ralph says "Why did I become bi?" and Chief Wiggum says "Well you see, son, the shorter-length light rays become more scatter....I mean, WHA?!" (then 1970's sitcom music plays).

Yeah...I'm cursed like that.

 

[SissyBrandi19]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

I don't hang out in lesbian threads so there could be a correlate there but...if you really want to feel "part of the larger group" just head on over to Reddit and check out the "StraighttoGay" sub....and you'll read testimony after testimony that if you didn't have a sophisticated quantitative brain like myself...and didn't consider the huge self-selection bias...you'd think every, single guy on earth secretly loves cock. Which of course is true, but...(kidding)...I'm biased so not the right person to ask but it is...not uncommon. I would cite the psychological phenomenon named the "mere exposure effect" which addresses the idea that if you are absolutely averse to a stimulus that simply by repeated exposure you will find yourself experiencing greater affinity to that stimulus no matter what it is. As well, (theorizing) as one ages, one tends to see external validation for the silliness that it is, one becomes aware of the massive hypocrisy that permeates the ranks of those who seek to tell us how to live? So many things that rather "create a permissive internal environment" freeing the person to...not feel guilt because sexual guilt is never innate always learned. And what is learned...can be unlearned.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I was with my first CD not long ago and she does not plan to change anything permanently but it makes me curious

Does she identify as a woman? In that case, she may be transgender regardless of whether she takes hormones or has had any surgeries.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I don't hang out in lesbian threads so there could be a correlate there but...if you really want to feel "part of the larger group" just head on over to Reddit and check out the "StraighttoGay" sub....and you'll read testimony after testimony that if you didn't have a sophisticated quantitative brain like myself...and didn't consider the huge self-selection bias...you'd think every, single guy on earth secretly loves cock. Which of course is true, but...(kidding)...I'm biased so not the right person to ask but it is...not uncommon. I would cite the psychological phenomenon named the "mere exposure effect" which addresses the idea that if you are absolutely averse to a stimulus that simply by repeated exposure you will find yourself experiencing greater affinity to that stimulus no matter what it is. As well, (theorizing) as one ages, one tends to see external validation for the silliness that it is, one becomes aware of the massive hypocrisy that permeates the ranks of those who seek to tell us how to live? So many things that rather "create a permissive internal environment" freeing the person to...not feel guilt because sexual guilt is never innate always learned. And what is learned...can be unlearned.

A very amusing post but insightful as well.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

When I was playing with my wife down there and she giggled. Said I was tickling her and she kind of pulled away from me. Well, I took that as a sign to stop and go to bed. The next day she told me I shouldnt of stopped and she didnt tell me to. Not once did she touch or come anywhere near me, not gave me a clue I was going down the right path. But then got upset when I didnt keep going. Made no sense to me, and at the same time, my mind thought you made no effort at all. If I was with "Him" I have a feeling there wouldnt of been some damn test for sex.

 

[need2please72]

Thank goodness for guys who are bisexual So many more chances to taste what I crave