As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

I’m a married bi guy and have had sex with numerous men and women over the years. I can honestly say that I’ve never found a man sexually attractive to look at, but I’ve probably been more turned on with a couple of guys than I have been with anyone else.
 
I'm uncloseted and frankly a little bit activist/militant about being bisexual. Besides my wife, my longest LTR was with a man. But I do have a preference, and it's for women.

Particularly, queer women!

There's a recent acquaintance who I should have clocked as a lesbian but didn't, until I saw her in her Subaru. My mind went, "This is going to be harder than I thought"
🤣
 
I'm uncloseted and frankly a little bit activist/militant about being bisexual. Besides my wife, my longest LTR was with a man. But I do have a preference, and it's for women.

Particularly, queer women!

There's a recent acquaintance who I should have clocked as a lesbian but didn't, until I saw her in her Subaru. My mind went, "This is going to be harder than I thought"
🤣
Ah, the Subaru.
 
Ah, the Subaru.
Until I saw that, it didn't even consciously occur to me that part of what makes her attractive to me was queer-girl energy.

I mean, it should have. It's more surprising to feel attracted to a woman (or anyone) who doesn't seem queer.

As soon as I saw the Subie, I was like, damn, of course. But probably no cigar.

It does make me continue wanting to connect with her - and find out what her "food group*" really is. Hey, she could still be bi!

* Sandra Bernhardt used to have a schtick about this, using "food group" as a euphemism for someone's gender/orientation labels.
 
Until I saw that, it didn't even consciously occur to me that part of what makes her attractive to me was queer-girl energy.

I mean, it should have. It's more surprising to feel attracted to a woman (or anyone) who doesn't seem queer.

As soon as I saw the Subie, I was like, damn, of course. But probably no cigar.

It does make me continue wanting to connect with her - and find out what her "food group*" really is. Hey, she could still be bi!

* Sandra Bernhardt used to have a schtick about this, using "food group" as a euphemism for someone's gender/orientation labels.
I like the food groups idea. You can be a vegetarian who eats eggs and dairy etc.
 
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