Why do older men become bi-curious?

[badonkadoku]

Sex with men is [...] easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure.

You must live in a more populated area. Also, sex between conventionally attractive men who aren't concerned about psychos and diseases is probably pretty easy to find. But otherwise, I'd have to dispute the claim as presented without any qualifiers.

WHY ARE WE SO FAR APART?? It's not fair!!

 

[KarinSoftly]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

 

[Jeph77]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

Not necessarily.

 

[KarinSoftly]

Not necessarily.

Not always but sometimes is what I meant.

 

[wifes_fag]

I became mostly a cuckold around age 40. She was fucking a boyfriend pretty often. I didn't mind because I am pretty small and knew she needed much bigger cock by then. She seemed much more satisfied and easier to live with too. I had sucked cock with her over the years and I found myself wanting to do it more for my satisfaction. She didn't care and even encouraged me to see other men too. Somewhere in my mid fourties I hooked up with a guy older than me that had lost his wife. He used me like his wife. After that I have never fucked my wife again. I enjoy being his pussy more. We still go see a new bull together sometimes but I don't fuck her.

 

[Uncut1969]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

Bingo and being on LIT makes your curiosity run wild

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

The increased interest in M2M definitely has to do with lack of attention from my wife, so I think that that is a primary reason for all bi-curious men; but, honestly, I've had the desire ever since my earliest experiences when I had a personal cocksucker. https://www.literotica.com/s/tribute-to-a-cocksucker

I've also frequented Adult Book Store video areas to satisfy my bi-curiosity
https://www.literotica.com/s/my-trips-to-the-store

 

[cuck72]

I'm in the same boat as many of us older men, grandpas. 72 now and I too have such a strong desire to be a cock sucking ass fucked old faggot. My wife also gave up on sex like over 10 years ago. But I can't blame it all on her, I've had the hunger for a cock in my faggot wannabe month for years now.

 

[Harley55]

For me it was a combination of a sexless marriage with my wife and watching porn and getting turned on by the cocks. Was bicurious for years until 10 years ago when I had my first encounter with a man. Fast forward, I am hooked and have 5 buddies I get together with, averages about once a week. One buddy hosts group gatherings, where I’ve had the pleasure of being with as many as 6 guys at the same time. Taking turns sucking multiple guys while multiple guys take turns fucking me is my favorite. I now prefer sex with men more than my wife.

 

[Sgts19]

I get more than enough sex from my wife and one other woman but never sucked a cock and wanted to knock it off my bucket list

 

[badonkadoku]

For me it was a combination of a sexless marriage with my wife and watching porn and getting turned on by the cocks. Was bicurious for years until 10 years ago when I had my first encounter with a man. ....
I now prefer sex with men more than my wife.

Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?

 

[Cabeza]

Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?

Yes and no. I’m not romantically attracted to men (so far) but it’s definitely more than “any port in a storm”… I am absolutely *sexually* attracted to men…

 

[cdstefi]

I used to think I could never be romantically attracted to men, but honestly the two guys I've had sex with were so nice, decent and just good human beings, I'm not so sure any more.

 

[Slowpick50]

I'm in the same boat as many of us older men, grandpas. 72 now and I too have such a strong desire to be a cock sucking ass fucked old faggot. My wife also gave up on sex like over 10 years ago. But I can't blame it all on her, I've had the hunger for a cock in my faggot wannabe month for years now.

I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive

I hope you find your man. You sound fun.

 

[SteveXR]

Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?

That's how I feel.

 

[Justcurious777]

Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?

Definitely not romantically attracted to men. It is the cock (and to a lesser extent their asshole) that interests me. The thought of kissing another man turns me off completely

 

[badonkadoku]

Definitely not romantically attracted to men. It is the cock (and to a lesser extent their asshole) that interests me. The thought of kissing another man turns me off completely

I have to admit, as much as the thought of kissing another man also turns me off, it would still be preferable to oral/anal contact! AbsoFUCKINGlutely NOT!

 

[Jeph77]

I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive

One follows the other.

 

[maxwellq]

For me a wife who has virtually no sex drive has been a big factor. I have always enjoyed wearing lingerie. My wife knows about this and is supportive. We even go lingerie shopping together sometimes. I get the odd handjob but we haven’t made love for 2 years now. I started looking at pictures of men in lingerie about 6 years ago on tumblr and then started watching videos of men in panties masturbating on xhamster. I now find I get more aroused watching satin and lace clad cocks than a pussy but still haven’t made the plunge. I do fantasise about sucking a cock but it would have to be with lingerie. Definitely not wanting any kissing or cuddling, just mutual masturbation or oral

It’s very much the same for me, but I my wife and I still have sex, occasionally while I am wearing a pair of her panties, pulled aside.

 

[Baztrachian]

Q: Why do older men become bi-curious?​

A: Because they want to double their chances of rejection.

 

[badonkadoku]

Q: Why do older men become bi-curious?​

A: Because they want to double their chances of rejection.

wish I could put both laughing and sad reaction!

 

[Subaurora]

I had been bi curious probably my whole life. When I would go to arcades I would find the booth playing a gay super 8 loop (yes that long ago) and it was so "naughty" to watch men sucking and fucking men. It was not until my 40's and I was divorced that I finally acted on my urges and met up with men. First time I gave a blow job it was so exciting, and the the first time a man kissed me, well let me tell you I loved it. My sex life now with my wife is good, we give each other screaming orgasms but I also enjoyed my secret time with other men getting what was impossible at home.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I had been bi curious probably my whole life. When I would go to arcades I would find the booth playing a gay super 8 loop (yes that long ago) and it was so "naughty" to watch men sucking and fucking men. It was not until my 40's and I was divorced that I finally acted on my urges and met up with men. First time I gave a blow job it was so exciting, and the the first time a man kissed me, well let me tell you I loved it. My sex life now with my wife is good, we give each other screaming orgasms but I also enjoyed my secret time with other men getting what was impossible at home.

Mmmmmmm! I love a naughty boy!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Q: Why do older men become bi-curious?​

Why puzzle our minds with asking profound questions?
Why ask about motivations when we could simply be enjoying the fact that they not only become bi-curious, but that they explore those urges to suck cock and to have their cocks sucked?
Just accept it, and enjoy it...