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Why do older men become bi-curious?

For me it was a combination of a sexless marriage with my wife and watching porn and getting turned on by the cocks. Was bicurious for years until 10 years ago when I had my first encounter with a man. Fast forward, I am hooked and have 5 buddies I get together with, averages about once a week. One buddy hosts group gatherings, where I’ve had the pleasure of being with as many as 6 guys at the same time. Taking turns sucking multiple guys while multiple guys take turns fucking me is my favorite. I now prefer sex with men more than my wife.
 
Harley55 said:
For me it was a combination of a sexless marriage with my wife and watching porn and getting turned on by the cocks. Was bicurious for years until 10 years ago when I had my first encounter with a man. ....
I now prefer sex with men more than my wife.
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Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?
 
badonkadoku said:
Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?
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Yes and no. I’m not romantically attracted to men (so far) but it’s definitely more than “any port in a storm”… I am absolutely *sexually* attracted to men…
 
cuck72 said:
I'm in the same boat as many of us older men, grandpas. 72 now and I too have such a strong desire to be a cock sucking ass fucked old faggot. My wife also gave up on sex like over 10 years ago. But I can't blame it all on her, I've had the hunger for a cock in my faggot wannabe month for years now.
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I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive
 
Slowpick50 said:
I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive
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I hope you find your man. You sound fun.
 
badonkadoku said:
Are we gradually conditioning ourselves to being bi? And/or is it an 'any port in a storm' situation?

We still, I bet most of us, aren't romantically attracted to men -- just cock lust, am I right?
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Definitely not romantically attracted to men. It is the cock (and to a lesser extent their asshole) that interests me. The thought of kissing another man turns me off completely
 
Slowpick50 said:
I’m in my 50s and I’ve always had a desire to suck a cock with an older man
Probably because when I was 23 I had the same desire, but chickened out
Went to his house and played with each other but I got too nervous and said I had to think about it
That’s never changed
Always thought one day I will get divorced which has happened, but now I have a girlfriend and my desire has even stronger

Kind of stuck in between a rock and a hard place literally but I’d rather be stuck between a rock and a hard on


That’s not going away it’s just getting stronger and stronger and stronger

Like most, the only attraction is to a big hard on and being submissive
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One follows the other.
 
Sliplover2 said:
For me a wife who has virtually no sex drive has been a big factor. I have always enjoyed wearing lingerie. My wife knows about this and is supportive. We even go lingerie shopping together sometimes. I get the odd handjob but we haven’t made love for 2 years now. I started looking at pictures of men in lingerie about 6 years ago on tumblr and then started watching videos of men in panties masturbating on xhamster. I now find I get more aroused watching satin and lace clad cocks than a pussy but still haven’t made the plunge. I do fantasise about sucking a cock but it would have to be with lingerie. Definitely not wanting any kissing or cuddling, just mutual masturbation or oral
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It’s very much the same for me, but I my wife and I still have sex, occasionally while I am wearing a pair of her panties, pulled aside.
 
I had been bi curious probably my whole life. When I would go to arcades I would find the booth playing a gay super 8 loop (yes that long ago) and it was so "naughty" to watch men sucking and fucking men. It was not until my 40's and I was divorced that I finally acted on my urges and met up with men. First time I gave a blow job it was so exciting, and the the first time a man kissed me, well let me tell you I loved it. My sex life now with my wife is good, we give each other screaming orgasms but I also enjoyed my secret time with other men getting what was impossible at home.
 
Subaurora said:
I had been bi curious probably my whole life. When I would go to arcades I would find the booth playing a gay super 8 loop (yes that long ago) and it was so "naughty" to watch men sucking and fucking men. It was not until my 40's and I was divorced that I finally acted on my urges and met up with men. First time I gave a blow job it was so exciting, and the the first time a man kissed me, well let me tell you I loved it. My sex life now with my wife is good, we give each other screaming orgasms but I also enjoyed my secret time with other men getting what was impossible at home.
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Mmmmmmm! I love a naughty boy!
 
Baztrachian said:

Q: Why do older men become bi-curious?​

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Why puzzle our minds with asking profound questions?
Why ask about motivations when we could simply be enjoying the fact that they not only become bi-curious, but that they explore those urges to suck cock and to have their cocks sucked?
Just accept it, and enjoy it...
 
tristantrotsky said:
Why puzzle our minds with asking profound questions?
Why ask about motivations when we could simply be enjoying the fact that they not only become bi-curious, but that they explore those urges to suck cock and to have their cocks sucked?
Just accept it, and enjoy it...
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We need to normalize the discussion topic (not to mention the awakening) so that more men will realize we're (inclusive of them) not freaks, and that maybe more of us will have the opportunity to suck or be sucked thereby!
 
badonkadoku said:
We need to normalize the discussion topic (not to mention the awakening) so that more men will realize we're (inclusive of them) not freaks, and that maybe more of us will have the opportunity to suck or be sucked thereby!
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The perfect solution...
Any answer that eases sexual tension and lowers the threshold of frustrated feelings of isolation are for the good.
 
klippert said:
Lack of sex or sick of the insane dating scene and the modern woman. So We start looking for NSA sex. And we know there are other men in the same situation.
In short. We become bi-curious for nsa sex
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Also, the steady dropping of Testosterone contributes to making Bi sex more acceptable
 
For me the extremism coming from so many sides including the alphabet group has really got me in a lock down mode.
I just want to go live in the woods somewhere until civilization normalizes.

Every discussion ends up cringe worthy
 
Doogiedoogie said:
The I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?
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I am 75 mwm that has experienced the same thing. The common link must be that our wives are no longer interested but men still want their cock played with.
 
WonderPonder said:
I turned 50 in 2015 and for the first time in my life I'm interested in sucking a cock. I haven't posted anything until this. For the past three weeks I'd come on here trying to think what to ask and never made a post about it or any post on any subject. I believe I know what helped trigger this but I'm still confused.
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I have turned 70 in 2020 and due to not having a woman and I too thought about sucking a cock.
 
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