Cumslut1980
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- Jan 28, 2023
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Hello, I am completely new to the world of BDSM. However, I do understand that there is a Dom and a sub. And that the Dom controls the sub
I’ve been speaking to a person who is very much into BDSM, and we’ve exchanged some Correspondence. I understand we each have a life, responsibilities and things come up outside of BDSM that would prevent us from communicating.
2 questions:
1. in a BDSM relationship, even if it is only in writing, is the DOM, and their sub always in character, even if they’re not actually having any sexual relations.
2. in the world of BDSM with a Dom and their sub, I know the whole thing is about being controlled, but does part of that control include leaving your sub left wondering when or if the Dom will communicate with you?
I’d appreciate any insight on the overall concept thx u
I’ve been speaking to a person who is very much into BDSM, and we’ve exchanged some Correspondence. I understand we each have a life, responsibilities and things come up outside of BDSM that would prevent us from communicating.
2 questions:
1. in a BDSM relationship, even if it is only in writing, is the DOM, and their sub always in character, even if they’re not actually having any sexual relations.
2. in the world of BDSM with a Dom and their sub, I know the whole thing is about being controlled, but does part of that control include leaving your sub left wondering when or if the Dom will communicate with you?
I’d appreciate any insight on the overall concept thx u