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Thank you for the update, much appreciated!We just received confirmation that my wife's cousin would be travelling overseas for an assignment for the next 2 years. He'll be moving out of the country by end of this month.
Wife and I are both sad about this, but we knew it was bound to happen at some point. After he leaves we have to discuss and decide further.
We just received confirmation that my wife's cousin would be travelling overseas for an assignment for the next 2 years. He'll be moving out of the country by end of this month.
My sister’s first husband was also in a similar predicament,at first it was working,in his own words he preferred someone like me to a stranger,but in the end ,she lost respect for him and they divorced….make sure all three of you have a serious,adult chat about it beforehand………..hope everything works out for you and your wifeHello everyone,
Wanted to share my current situation with you all and get some opinions, advice, thoughts etc.
I am a 40 year old man. My wife is 35. We’ve been married for the last 10 years. She’s a very sexual person. It’s been difficult for me to keep up with her, but I have tried to keep her satisfied. Unfortunately, about 2 years ago, I was diagnosed with severe diabetes and hypertension. My physical ailments coupled with my stressful job has led to an embarrassing decline in my performance in bed. I haven’t been able to get erections. When I do, it’s been difficult to sustain it.
My lovely wife has been patient with me and has been very loving and caring, but I can sense her frustration. I do take care of her needs through my fingers, tongue or a vibrator. It can’t replace the feel of being fucked by a hard cock, though. I know she misses it and that makes me feel guilty of not being able to satisfy her through intercourse.
One of my wife’s distant cousin moved into our city few months back. He is 36 and unmarried. My wife and he are very close having grown up in the same neighborhood. She speaks very fondly of him and had even admitted to having a crush on him during her college years. I’ve seen a twinkle in her eyes when he’s around. She still looks at him that way when he visits us.
He and I have become good buddies ever since he moved into the city. He comes over every Saturday evening for a drink and both of us talk about several topics of mutual interest. Over the past couple of months, we’ve spoken a few times about my wife. With the buzz of alcohol, he has confessed about finding my wife very attractive and told me how lucky I am. He even lightly flirts with her and I’ve seen her enjoy the attention.
This has got me thinking. My wife’s sexual needs are not being fully satisfied. I don’t want to push her to desperation where she may be tempted at having an affair. I am not selfish to keep her caged while not being able to satisfy her myself. I never had much libido to begin with. If she and her cousin get together, if they want to, it’s completely fine with me, they’d have my blessings. He’d be a much better choice to satisfy her sexually without any romantic entanglement. He’d be a much safer choice from a privacy and social secrecy aspect too.
What do you all think of this? How can I make this happen? Or am I overthinking this?
So did you and your sister end up sleeping together?My sister’s first husband was also in a similar predicament,at first it was working,in his own words he preferred someone like me to a stranger,but in the end ,she lost respect for him and they divorced….make sure all three of you have a serious,adult chat about it beforehand………..hope everything works out for you and your wife
Thanks! I feel much better nowadays.Lord Rahl, so nice to hear from you! Glad to hear your health is improving.
My thoughts exactly. Will keep you posted.Age should not be a factor here, in fact him being in his 20s would be an asset in matching your wife’s libido. May as well test the waters and see how he reacts!
Thank you for this well thought out detailed advice. Appreciate it.Putting myself in your place, if it were me,I would begin with my wife, and sell her on the idea of taking your nephew as a lover in the context of it being an opportunity for new and more erotic sexual experiences, rather than the emotional connection she had with her cousin. He’s young and virile, and being so, perhaps can give her a more exciting sexual experience than she has had in the past. Sell her on the fact that he is young and virile, and being so, should have the stamina to give her whatever new experiences she wants.
When I was ready to sell her on this, I would take her for quiet walks, perhaps in a park or nature reserve, some place that is quiet and peaceful. I would put suggestions/thoughts in her head, then let her roll those thoughts around, and then verbalize her thoughts. Get her turned on thinking about his young, hard cock, and how he can use it to please her. Especially, get her aroused and horny thinking about his hard, young cock sliding in and out of her hot, wet pussy. Build a mental image to get her really horny.
When she is ready to accept him as her lover, I would approach him.
I might start the conversation with something like:
“I saw you looking at my wife, (use her name), the other day.” “You kind of like her don’t you?”
Expect him to be a little nervous. It can make a man nervous when a husband starts asking these kind of questions.
Tell him it’s OK, that you aren’t the jealous type.
Then tell him:
“She, (using her name), told me that she likes you too.”
And add;
“Don’t worry, my wife and I are very open-minded these things.”
Then after suitable dialog to convince your nephew that you are on the level, tell him:
“If I read your face right the other day, you weren't just attracted to her, but thinking about her sexually?”
The, depending on his reaction, tell him:
“It’s OK, she told me that she wants you too!”
And depending on his reaction, tell him:
“As I said, my wife and I are very open-minded about sex, what do you think about going to bed with her?”
Then if he agrees, look at him very sternly and say:
“If you do, you have to promise that you will tell no one about this, ever!” “Understand?”
Make him agree to keep this secret.
And if he is onboard, I would take control, and tell him specifically how she wants to be pleased. Perhaps not too much at first, but over time, groom him to please your wife in ways she never thought possible. If you are going to give him the pleasure of fucking your wife, you might as well use the opportunity to enjoy the experience for yourself also.
Also, I think I would limit how much I told my wife about the grooming part. You might as well enjoy this…………..
And if everything is going well, I would invite him over for dinner one evening and let nature take it's course.
LOL! That was exactly what my wife said.Hi LordRahl! Good to hear from you and great to hear your health is improving!
I LOVE the idea of your 21 year old nephew with your wife. You've received some great advice in favor of this situation, so I'm going to play devil's advocate. A 21 year old would be able to keep up with your wife's libido, for sure, but young guys SUCK at fucking. She'll need to be willing to train him, so to speak. In this regard, it would be great for him to learn from an older woman, but it might be a while before he becomes the man that can really satisfy her needs.
Good luck and I look forward to your next update on this situation!
Your thinking is right. If she satisfy with intercource than fingers, tongue and dildo are extra tools. But when wife do not satisfy with cock then other things do not help much. She want more and more sex with cock.Hello everyone,
Wanted to share my current situation with you all and get some opinions, advice, thoughts etc.
I am a 40 year old man. My wife is 35. We’ve been married for the last 10 years. She’s a very sexual person. It’s been difficult for me to keep up with her, but I have tried to keep her satisfied. Unfortunately, about 2 years ago, I was diagnosed with severe diabetes and hypertension. My physical ailments coupled with my stressful job has led to an embarrassing decline in my performance in bed. I haven’t been able to get erections. When I do, it’s been difficult to sustain it.
My lovely wife has been patient with me and has been very loving and caring, but I can sense her frustration. I do take care of her needs through my fingers, tongue or a vibrator. It can’t replace the feel of being fucked by a hard cock, though. I know she misses it and that makes me feel guilty of not being able to satisfy her through intercourse.
One of my wife’s distant cousin moved into our city few months back. He is 36 and unmarried. My wife and he are very close having grown up in the same neighborhood. She speaks very fondly of him and had even admitted to having a crush on him during her college years. I’ve seen a twinkle in her eyes when he’s around. She still looks at him that way when he visits us.
He and I have become good buddies ever since he moved into the city. He comes over every Saturday evening for a drink and both of us talk about several topics of mutual interest. Over the past couple of months, we’ve spoken a few times about my wife. With the buzz of alcohol, he has confessed about finding my wife very attractive and told me how lucky I am. He even lightly flirts with her and I’ve seen her enjoy the attention.
This has got me thinking. My wife’s sexual needs are not being fully satisfied. I don’t want to push her to desperation where she may be tempted at having an affair. I am not selfish to keep her caged while not being able to satisfy her myself. I never had much libido to begin with. If she and her cousin get together, if they want to, it’s completely fine with me, they’d have my blessings. He’d be a much better choice to satisfy her sexually without any romantic entanglement. He’d be a much safer choice from a privacy and social secrecy aspect too.
What do you all think of this? How can I make this happen? Or am I overthinking this?
You no need advice brother. You going right and proper way. you chat first with your nephew and then you discusse about it with your wife is your good steps and right dession. You kill two birds with one stone. Soon You seen your wife and your nephew both feel attraction to each other. You watch on them closely. when you chat with your nephew about your wife I'm sure his dick started to throbbing and when you told your wife that what about you and your nephew chat its made your wife's pussys.Had a chat with my nephew, yesterday. Sent my wife out shopping so I could talk to him alone.
We had a drink and discussed other things first. Then I dropped the bomb. Told him that I had noticed him ogling my wife several times. He almost choked on his drinks. Stammered and fumbled over his words to come up with excuses. He denied it initially but I persisted with a stern expression. It was fun seeing him squirm and fidget. He finally admitted to it and apologized profusely.
I told him I didn't really mind. But I need him to answer me honestly. I asked if he considered my wife sexy. Embarassed, he said yes. I asked if he fantasizes about her. He hung his head in shame. He said yes in such a feeble voice that I had to ask again. He was almost trembling by the time.
I calmed him down and softened my tone. Told him that I empathized with him. I was once his age too. Told him that my wife was a indeed a sexy woman who worked hard on her fitness and appearance. She liked to be pleasing to the eyes and be appreciated. Told him instead of staring or ogling, he should compliment her properly next time.
I changed the topic to make him comfortable again. My wife arrived after some time and nephew took his leave. I was happy to see that he complimented her looks and dress on his way out. She was pleasantly surprised.
Later I told her about our little chat. She laughed when she heard about his discomfort. Told me I shouldn't have tortured him so. She was very excited to learn that he fantasizes about her. He might come over again on Sunday. I'll see how we could proceed.
Any tips or advice?
Had a chat with my nephew, yesterday. Sent my wife out shopping so I could talk to him alone.
We had a drink and discussed other things first. Then I dropped the bomb. Told him that I had noticed him ogling my wife several times. He almost choked on his drinks. Stammered and fumbled over his words to come up with excuses. He denied it initially but I persisted with a stern expression. It was fun seeing him squirm and fidget. He finally admitted to it and apologized profusely.
I told him I didn't really mind. But I need him to answer me honestly. I asked if he considered my wife sexy. Embarassed, he said yes. I asked if he fantasizes about her. He hung his head in shame. He said yes in such a feeble voice that I had to ask again. He was almost trembling by the time.
I calmed him down and softened my tone. Told him that I empathized with him. I was once his age too. Told him that my wife was a indeed a sexy woman who worked hard on her fitness and appearance. She liked to be pleasing to the eyes and be appreciated. Told him instead of staring or ogling, he should compliment her properly next time.
I changed the topic to make him comfortable again. My wife arrived after some time and nephew took his leave. I was happy to see that he complimented her looks and dress on his way out. She was pleasantly surprised.
Later I told her about our little chat. She laughed when she heard about his discomfort. Told me I shouldn't have tortured him so. She was very excited to learn that he fantasizes about her. He might come over again on Sunday. I'll see how we could proceed.
Any tips or advice?
Thank you for update sharing. You and your wife or your nephew and his young and supper hot Aunti make me super horny. I can't stop masterbating. Love to hear your real storiesIts been a while since my last update. Wife and I were busy with family and work commitments throughout last month. Nothing much progressed with the topic at hand.
Last weekend, my wife finally took my nephew as her new lover.
We had decided that my wife should handle the boy alone to make him comfortable. I left town for a trip over the weekend. Before leaving I called him up and invited him over, asking him to be prepared to spend the night. I also asked him to be respectful to his aunt and show her a good time. He promised he would.
He came over on Saturday evening. Wife seduced him on our living room couch after dinner. She said he literally trembled with excitement as she fondled his cock and didn't last long. She was pretty fascinated with the way he erupted in her hands. She led him into the guest bedroom where they orally pleasured each other. He was hard again in no time. She put on a condom on him and guided him inside her. This time he lasted much longer, impressing her with his size and stamina. She mentioned he's noticeably bigger than me and her cousin. She said he lacked experience but made it up with enthusiasm. She enjoyed teaching and guiding him, and he was a quick learner. They fucked again that night and once again early Sunday morning, staying late in bed. After a late breakfast, they showered together where they fucked once more. I was back by lunchtime when he had already left.
Wife and I are very happy with the outcome. She said it was a completely different experience for her. She enjoyed being in control and being the dominant partner. She felt younger and sexier than ever before, getting a massive confidence boost with the way my nephew worshipped her.
We're planning to invite him again this weekend, this time with me present to watch/direct/participate as events unfold.
We are excited too hear to soon moreInvited my nephew to come over. He and my wife are in the guest bedroom at the moment, naked. I'll be joining them shortly. Wife has a surprise for him. She has resumed her pills and we know he's safe. She's going to take him bareback for the first time and let him cum inside her. Excited to see how it goes.
Nephew was just going down on my wife when I joined them. Gave him some tips on using his tongue on her and recognizing her body language. Boy's an eager learner for sure. She took me in her mouth while nephew brought her to orgasm. I proceeded to fuck her while she took nephew in her mouth.Invited my nephew to come over. He and my wife are in the guest bedroom at the moment, naked. I'll be joining them shortly. Wife has a surprise for him. She has resumed her pills and we know he's safe. She's going to take him bareback for the first time and let him cum inside her. Excited to see how it goes.