Cuckoldry and intimacy

[Tommelon]

Hello,
I hope you're well. I'm seeking advice on the topic of cuckoldry. I deeply love my wife but worry I may not fully satisfy her. I'm considering the idea of her exploring intimacy with other men, if she desires. However, I don't want to explicitly tell her about it. I want her to naturally explore this if she feels inclined, without feeling shy, ashamed, or weird about it. How can I approach this respectfully and ensure it's consensual?

 

[WonderPonder]

I'd say bring it up when you're in bed while aroused but in a subtle way. You know her best so find a way that won't scare her.

 

[Olderanwiser]

Hello,
I hope you're well. I'm seeking advice on the topic of cuckoldry. I deeply love my wife but worry I may not fully satisfy her. I'm considering the idea of her exploring intimacy with other men, if she desires. However, I don't want to explicitly tell her about it. I want her to naturally explore this if she feels inclined, without feeling shy, ashamed, or weird about it. How can I approach this respectfully and ensure it's consensual?

I'm guessing you don't watch any porn together or else the subject would have already been discussed

 

[luckyseven]

I'd say bring it up when you're in bed while aroused but in a subtle way. You know her best so find a way that won't scare her.

That's what I did, and although my wife was initially shocked about the idea, it was clear we both had secret sexual needs and wants that we were reluctant to discuss.

So, when we were confident and not embarrassed to share our sexual desires, it was obvious to us both that we wanted to be more sexually adventurous.

That was nearly thirty years ago, and for the vast majority of our successful open marriage, we still enjoy what we call recreational sex with other like-minded people.

 

[LeeKee]

Hello,
I hope you're well. I'm seeking advice on the topic of cuckoldry. I deeply love my wife but worry I may not fully satisfy her. I'm considering the idea of her exploring intimacy with other men, if she desires. However, I don't want to explicitly tell her about it. I want her to naturally explore this if she feels inclined, without feeling shy, ashamed, or weird about it. How can I approach this respectfully and ensure it's consensual?

Glad i found this. Similar situation here. Id like to follow this.

 

[LeeKee]

I'm guessing you don't watch any porn together or else the subject would have already been discussed

Years ago we did watch porn, and she just kept commenting on the woman. But i could see she was eying that big cock. We havent watched in 10 years.b

 

[screwher]

I’m thinking maybe subtly add the topic into casual conversation. Gauge her reaction, if any. Show no signs of jealousy or anger when she responds. With any luck she’ll have similar desires. And you’ll have planted the seed.