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Cardinal said:
Gay friend told me that married guys in the 50’s start experimenting all the time
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Same here. Gay friend tells me at least 50% of guys he has met on Grindr are "straight" and married. It pisses him off because it looks like these guys look on gays as "gay sluts" who just want sex and not a relationship
 
mrdiscreet2 said:
You know that’s why women are always smiling as they walk down the wedding aisle.
They are thinking, “I’ve given my last blowjob!”
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Yep. Negotiations have ended at that point. Usually so does the oral, and for some of us, the intimacy and intercourse, too.
 
jackthelad11 said:
Same here. Gay friend tells me at least 50% of guys he has met on Grindr are "straight" and married. It pisses him off because it looks like these guys look on gays as "gay sluts" who just want sex and not a relationship
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I kinda struggle with this part of it. Like, I am a tourist in a world I really cannot fully commit to. But then again, it takes two consenting adults....
I just try and approach situations and people with respect, and all fine print understood ahead of time, as to avoid any unneeded distraction.
 
Tigobitties98 said:
@SusanHoward isn't the only one. There are a ton of women on here who love pleasing their partners, love giving oral, and have really active & fun sex lives. There is no "why", just the magical intersection of love & attraction. Knowing that I turn him on, turns me on, ergo, I want to do things that make him feel good🤷‍♀️
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Like I said, if you're in the mood.....
 
Tigobitties98 said:
You might be hanging out in the wrong forums. The PG Aural thread had a whole discussion yesterday with several of us who are oral fans, and there's another newish thread of a woman asking men what is they look for in good oral.

or perhaps it's a generational thing, I know for many women, particularly older than me, for whom it is an absolute taboo and they feel it's degrading (in a bad way😉) to do it.

The only complaint I've heard from women is that some men do t have good hygiene. So fellas, trim the busses and scrub with a pH balanced wash for Christ's sake!

My spouse is very reserved & vanilla, & isn't comfortable with locker room talk or porn. However, when he heard his coworkers complaining about living in a BJ desert, well he became a chatty-Cathy. Everyone at his old work knows he gets them as often as he'd like😂
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Mine stopped within 2 yrs of marriage after 15 yrs of unwedded bliss.
 
cypressknee said:
That’s part of the excitement of a mmf three way…what if your dicks bump 🤔
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Hello Cypressknee. Fyi, you mentioned a MMF. That means the two MM's are physically involved and the F watches and joins. With a MFM , the two males are normally not physically involved and are both pleasing the F.

I was in a 10 yr marriage where we experimented with both options. She was a bisexual swim suit model who happened to like watching porn with bi males playing. At first i was reluctant to play in front of her, out of some kind of embarresment.

Then she convinced me, that if I was bicurious i should be true to myself. Then she admitted that it would turn her on to watch.
That surprised me, because that was when she first disclosed her desire to see me with a guy. I was already curious and had lightly experimented when i was 9 or 10 yrs old with a 18 yr old cousin and again 10 years later with a friend. I have never told anyone and have kept that secret to myself.

She searched for a bi guy and eventually found several. She introduced them to me one date at a time until we found a perfect match for us. Mean while she also found a fellow female model she worked with that was really hot for our FFM. That Female moved in with us months later, and it turns out she was also turned on to watching bi-male porn.

When we disclosed to our female friend /room-mate that i had a bi-male friend who we would peridically experiment with, she was ecstatically turned on to the idea of being able to watch us play. About a week later my buddy came over and the girls excitedly watched us play as they had drinks and also got excited.

The girls watched us 69 and then we watched them 69. It was fun.
 
Smileyouronnow said:
Hello Cypressknee. Fyi, you mentioned a MMF. That means the two MM's are physically involved and the F watches and joins. With a MFM , the two males are normally not physically involved and are both pleasing the F.

I was in a 10 yr marriage where we experimented with both options. She was a bisexual swim suit model who happened to like watching porn with bi males playing. At first i was reluctant to play in front of her, out of some kind of embarresment.

Then she convinced me, that if I was bicurious i should be true to myself. Then she admitted that it would turn her on to watch.
That surprised me, because that was when she first disclosed her desire to see me with a guy. I was already curious and had lightly experimented when i was 9 or 10 yrs old with a 18 yr old cousin and again 10 years later with a friend. I have never told anyone and have kept that secret to myself.

She searched for a bi guy and eventually found several. She introduced them to me one date at a time until we found a perfect match for us. Mean while she also found a fellow female model she worked with that was really hot for our FFM. That Female moved in with us months later, and it turns out she was also turned on to watching bi-male porn.

When we disclosed to our female friend /room-mate that i had a bi-male friend who we would peridically experiment with, she was ecstatically turned on to the idea of being able to watch us play. About a week later my buddy came over and the girls excitedly watched us play as they had drinks and also got excited.

The girls watched us 69 and then we watched them 69. It was fun.
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Sure sounds fun to me!!
 
Smileyouronnow said:
I guess that's better than no answer.
Sometimes people just don't know what they want or feel about their sexuality.
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It like willing the lottery…you can guess what you’ll do all you want…but until it actually happens, you really don’t know what you’ll do
 
cypressknee said:
It like willing the lottery…you can guess what you’ll do all you want…but until it actually happens, you really don’t know what you’ll do
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That is a very good analogy of how you would feel and how you would react.
After all, it's a unfamiliar situation for you. Well put.
 
sparkie103 said:
I'm an older happily married guy, who would love to have a male FWB to give and receive from. In my later years I have become soooo curious to explore another cock.
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I'm similar just with a bunch of fetishes and kinks tho! My experience is limited but I've fully accepted my bisexuality and look forward to discreetly enjoying a male buddy...just got to find one lol
 
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