Does being into forced Bi and Sissies make you gay?

I sometimes get aroused by the idea of a woman making me have sex with another man. I also get aroused by the idea of feminizing another man and making him my bitch. Does this mean I'm gay or bi? I mean I'm usually only into women but I guess sometimes when I am in the right mood I lean a bit in a different direction. Though I don't like the idea of just having sex with another man so it may be more of a fantasy based thing.

Could I be bi?

MasterK13 said:

I sometimes get aroused by the idea of a woman making me have sex with another man. I also get aroused by the idea of feminizing another man and making him my bitch. Does this mean I'm gay or bi? I mean I'm usually only into women but I guess sometimes when I am in the right mood I lean a bit in a different direction. Though I don't like the idea of just having sex with another man so it may be more of a fantasy based thing.

Could I be bi?

Click to expand...

I think that, if you recognize it as a fantasy, you're who ever you identify yourself to be. It is a very compelling fantasy, though!

MasterK13 said:

I sometimes get aroused by the idea of a woman making me have sex with another man. I also get aroused by the idea of feminizing another man and making him my bitch. Does this mean I'm gay or bi? I mean I'm usually only into women but I guess sometimes when I am in the right mood I lean a bit in a different direction. Though I don't like the idea of just having sex with another man so it may be more of a fantasy based thing.

Could I be bi?

Click to expand...

It could mean that yes, but why worry about it, if it feels good go for it. It could also mean your fem side is trying o surface

4yourpleasureiam said:

It could mean that yes, but why worry about it, if it feels good go for it. It could also mean your fem side is trying o surface

Click to expand...

What do you mean by my fem side?

Yes. It's time to come out. Embrace the cock.

MasterK13 said:

I sometimes get aroused by the idea of a woman making me have sex with another man. I also get aroused by the idea of feminizing another man and making him my bitch. Does this mean I'm gay or bi? I mean I'm usually only into women but I guess sometimes when I am in the right mood I lean a bit in a different direction. Though I don't like the idea of just having sex with another man so it may be more of a fantasy based thing.

Could I be bi?

Click to expand...

it sounds like it is just a fantasy so dont worry about the labels and enjoy the dream .

MasterK13 said:

I sometimes get aroused by the idea of a woman making me have sex with another man. I also get aroused by the idea of feminizing another man and making him my bitch. Does this mean I'm gay or bi? I mean I'm usually only into women but I guess sometimes when I am in the right mood I lean a bit in a different direction. Though I don't like the idea of just having sex with another man so it may be more of a fantasy based thing.

Could I be bi?

Click to expand...

I am. You sound "Bi" to me. You'll never know until you try the path less traveled. Use the internet, it can help you decide for yourself. What's wrong with being "Bi"? , most people are, most just don't "consumate" the friendship, and some of us are VERY LUCKY and have friends that help us out by holding our hands along the way. It's 2014. The worlds getting crazy, Find out before the world gets any darker. If it doesn't 'appeal" to you? At least you'll get an appreciation for people who are Bi, and walking a mile in someone elses's shoes isa good way to exploit the road we call life. Go to a "gay" bar, I did, BEFORE I started having sex with men and women. It opened my eyes. ANd it was one hell of an ass-kicking party too ! I know the wife and I enjoyed the hell out of ourselves !

Human behaviour, like human sexuality in general, is never black or white (regardless of what you may have learned). We are taught that some behaviours, interests and feelings are strictly 'masculine' and others are 'feminine', but most are not clear-cut and many are non-gendered. I don't just mean putting on dresses, but things like crying if you need to, or being gentle, or knowing the names of more colours than most men. It's all culturally relative anyway, by which I mean that there are few if any behaviours that only men do, or only women do. To express your feminine side just means that you're a little more willing to do, think or feel some of the things that are traditionally associated with women. Frankly, if we could express ourselves freely life might be a little more fun and we all might be a little more relaxed.

And maybe you are bi. So what? Orientation is also fluid and many of us go through phases of experimentation in order to find out what we like and what we don't. Watch some gay or bi porn, jerk off with a few guys, suck a few cocks if you want to (be safe!) and see if you like it. If you do, you're probably bi. If you don't, you're probably straight. That's all there is to it. It's not a test that you pass or fail - the only 'right answer' is the truth. At the very least you learn more about yourself in the process, which is usually a good thing.

MasterK13 said:

What do you mean by my fem side?

Click to expand...

In side any male that wonders about being forced as you say has a fem side inside of them. Most males just hide from it. Let yourself explore all things.

Don't stress about labels. If it feels good , enjoy and embrace it. Don't let your mind close your body to the chance of experiencing something amazing?

t1m1d1 said:

Don't stress about labels. If it feels good , enjoy and embrace it. Don't let your mind close your body to the chance of experiencing something amazing?

Click to expand...

This.

Also, don't let anyone else semi determine what is or isn't what you want from anything, job, lover, dinner......anything. Why should you really care what others think? Do you think a random stranger that disagrees with any choice you make would care at all if you gave them your opinion of them?

Think about it.

How true.

Seriously. Labels are worthless. We'd all be better off taking it in the ass every now and then. I wish I'd explored my bi-curiosities before marriage. I don't think sucking a cock makes you gay. And if it does, who gives a shit.

Exactly! Labels are truly useless. I'm married, but one of my MANY fantasies is of forced feminization. I love those stories on Literotica. Love realistic and non-realistic versions. Just that feeling of being powerless from having a powerful man, or maybe a woman turn you into a hot sexy gurl against your will, and all the trouble you'd get into because of it. You don't need to "call" yourself anything. That's what sites like this are about, to scratch that itch safely.

think what you like, do what you think.

I often meet people in public that I have seen in the Adult book store. J/O or just exposing themselves at the store. I sometimes want to approach them in public and ask them if they want to suck or be sucked. but haven't got the courage to do so yet. Does that make me bi?
I know I am very curious about it.. I have sucked a few at the book store, and been sucked many times there.. but never taken it any farther... my ex-wife even had me find a guy online to suck me.. so she could watch. Did I enjoy it.. hell yes... I am getting tired of trying to please others.. and just think maybe i should just do what I feel is good for me, and satisfies me..
Is that wrong? I guess I may never know..
What I do know after all these years, is it is time to have fun..

I think all the comments say don't sweat the labels are ontrack. We only have so long so why not enjoy life. So long as you do not hurt or take from others for that enjoyment.

Yes, you are bisexual. That does not mean that you want to fuck men as much as women, or all men, or anything-- it simply means that you do, in fact, enjoy sex, under the right circumstances, with men. And since those circumstances include having a woman present, I don't see how much more BI sexual you can be!

liz33nd said:

I often meet people in public that I have seen in the Adult book store. J/O or just exposing themselves at the store. I sometimes want to approach them in public and ask them if they want to suck or be sucked. but haven't got the courage to do so yet. Does that make me bi?
I know I am very curious about it.. I have sucked a few at the book store, and been sucked many times there.. but never taken it any farther... my ex-wife even had me find a guy online to suck me.. so she could watch. Did I enjoy it.. hell yes... I am getting tired of trying to please others.. and just think maybe i should just do what I feel is good for me, and satisfies me..
Is that wrong? I guess I may never know..
What I do know after all these years, is it is time to have fun..

Click to expand...

Its a matter of satisfaction, to fulfill your own cravings and desires, I love sucking cock and having mine sucked my man or woman. There is something about having a blow job from another male, and cumming in his mouth, to have him taste your spunk. I find it makes me want more, I just love to climax.

I am probably not a good candidate to answere anything on here as I was dressed as a little boy and knew from early on I wanted to be a girl but in those days and places a boy became a man. I should not but I do envy the youth of today but I know they still have a hard road to follow as so much of society needs to label people.

michaeldreams said:

Exactly! Labels are truly useless. I'm married, but one of my MANY fantasies is of forced feminization. I love those stories on Literotica. Love realistic and non-realistic versions. Just that feeling of being powerless from having a powerful man, or maybe a woman turn you into a hot sexy gurl against your will, and all the trouble you'd get into because of it. You don't need to "call" yourself anything. That's what sites like this are about, to scratch that itch safely.

Click to expand...

This is a great topic.

It's not a fantasy for me, but I am looking for good stories about forced feminization. I'd appreciate any helpful links to your favorites.

Oh gosh, mgringo, so many! Let me work on it and get back to you. It's just a really sexy topic isn't it?

all human beings have female and male parts of there bodies and psyches./ All men have the female hormone estrogen. Its levels can determine your behavior. It is what makes you sentimental toward your child for example. All women have testosterone, the male hormone it is what makes them aggressive. Some evidence suggests that verying levels of these hormones and others control human behavior to a great degree.

Kinsey, in his exhaustive study of human sexuality, found that a majority of men and women reported having had at least one same sex experience. Catelouger that he was, he went on to identify, (16 I think) distinct identifiable levels between gay and straight. My personal belief is that all persons, male and female are potentially bi sexual, that certain activities, void of fear and loathing will turn on anybody.

Gore Vidal, a brilliant man and one of the most famous homosexuals of our time has said that homosexuality is not a non but a verb, that there are no homosexuals or heterosexuals, only different sexual acts.

Don't even think about trying to label yourself, that will only bring you grief. Accept whatever fantasies you have as part of you, indulge them to the fullest. then decide logical whether you want to indulge in the actual acts.

Don't let any one desire or lack thereof, define you. I have been down that road of fear and denial and guilt NO THANKS! I went through all that as a teen and pre-teen, during which there was another boy, finally a man, that I loved as much as any woman i have ever known. We were off and on again lovers from 11-60. Neither of us ever had a desire to move in with another man, to marry or establish a full-time relationship. But we sure liked each other's cocks. we were each others first sex partners. and the last thing he said to me was" _____, I love your bones."

I love cock, but I have been very successfully married for more than 30 years.

4yourpleasureiam said:

I am probably not a good candidate to answere anything on here as I was dressed as a little boy and knew from early on I wanted to be a girl but in those days and places a boy became a man. I should not but I do envy the youth of today but I know they still have a hard road to follow as so much of society needs to label people.

Click to expand...

I know how you might have felt and might still feel. My childhood was such that I longed to be a girl but like you conformed to society's norm of the day and remain a man (unfortunately).

beingtrue2me said:

This.

Also, don't let anyone else semi determine what is or isn't what you want from anything, job, lover, dinner......anything. Why should you really care what others think? Do you think a random stranger that disagrees with any choice you make would care at all if you gave them your opinion of them?

Think about it.

Click to expand...

true.

Taking It Like A Man...

t1m1d1 said:

Don't stress about labels. If it feels good , enjoy and embrace it. Don't let your mind close your body to the chance of experiencing something amazing?

Click to expand...

Does being into forced Bi and Sissies make you gay? Not necessarily. But if it does, surely that's a fringe-benefit…?