Guys, would this make it simpler or make it weird?

[Samantha47]

That is the $64 Question!

So true

 

[Samantha47]

I've seen ads in this area from a man who hosts weekly get togethers in his apartment for men who can't otherwise get away. He provides towels, condoms and water and asks for a small donation (I think $10). I haven't been to one of his get togethers, but it sounds like fun.

I did attend something similar several years ago at a man's house. There were around 10 men present and all had a good time. After paying him $10 to help defray the costs (condoms, lube and towels supplied), I was given a bag in which to put my clothes. Everyone was naked and had full run of the house. Most of the action took place in one room on a king bed, but he had a nice back yard with a privacy fence as well. All in all, it was a nice way to spend a lunch hour.

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I've seen ads in this area from a man who hosts weekly get togethers in his apartment for men who can't otherwise get away. He provides towels, condoms and water and asks for a small donation (I think $10). I haven't been to one of his get togethers, but it sounds like fun.

I did attend something similar several years ago at a man's house. There were around 10 men present and all had a good time. After paying him $10 to help defray the costs (condoms, lube and towels supplied), I was given a bag in which to put my clothes. Everyone was naked and had full run of the house. Most of the action took place in one room on a king bed, but he had a nice back yard with a privacy fence as well. All in all, it was a nice way to spend a lunch hour.

I would love that

 

[hilton1958]

Ok, this question is more for the married bi or bi curious guys… but anyone else can speak up if they want to.

A lot of the issue with trying to meet up with another guy is that the married guys can’t really host (except when their spouse is away, and even then, in my case there are cameras recording stuff). This isn’t an issue, of course, if you’re meeting a single guy most of the time.

So I sometimes think it would be great to find a single gay or bi male with their own place who would be willing to host a poker night that could be as often as they want to host, so us married guys could say we’re going to play poker, but really it’s going to a safe place to meet up.

I’m not suggesting that everyone would just start blowing each other in front of everyone! But there would be rooms guys could go to for their fun. Maybe the “poker money” could be given to the host. Of course a game could be played or the guys could just hang out and talk.

It would be better than getting a hotel room, there’d be no privacy and I think a lot of guys would be uncomfortable with that.

So is this one of those things that seems like a good idea to me because my autism spectrum disorder makes me try to look at things just logically? I’d like to hear the guys weigh in on this.

There are aspects of your idea which might work quite well. I certainly like the idea of having a sort of retreat, a safe place where you could go, and where anything goes and nobody would interfere or judge you. Sometimes I might just want to hang out naked and enjoy a couple of drinks, on another occasion I'd want to masturbate, maybe on my own, perhaps sitting by the pool, and then at other times with one or more other guys.

 

[Jeph77]

There are aspects of your idea which might work quite well. I certainly like the idea of having a sort of retreat, a safe place where you could go, and where anything goes and nobody would interfere or judge you. Sometimes I might just want to hang out naked and enjoy a couple of drinks, on another occasion I'd want to masturbate, maybe on my own, perhaps sitting by the pool, and then at other times with one or more other guys.

NFL games are the perfect setting for a gathering of select fans. Pregame, halftime, and commercials can be tedious without some distraction or other. If the game is good, watch it. But if it's bad!

 

[hilton1958]

NFL games are the perfect setting for a gathering of select fans. Pregame, halftime, and commercials can be tedious without some distraction or other. If the game is good, watch it. But if it's bad!

That spunds pretty ideal, and I'd hope there'd be guys there who don't mind being watched, or maybe even chatting while they're jacking.

 

[Jeph77]

That spunds pretty ideal, and I'd hope there'd be guys there who don't mind being watched, or maybe even chatting while they're jacking.

I did try it, a couple of times, four guys. Well five, but one just watched. It was all pretty casual, a friendly bunch of dads. One guy hosted in his home. Watching the game, eating, as usual, but sooner or later somebody's cock came out.
It was also cool that it all happened over the course of a few hours, so it didn't seem like a rushed interaction. Of course, the host had some videos for us to watch, as well.

 

[hilton1958]

I did try it, a couple of times, four guys. Well five, but one just watched. It was all pretty casual, a friendly bunch of dads. One guy hosted in his home. Watching the game, eating, as usual, but sooner or later somebody's cock came out.
It was also cool that it all happened over the course of a few hours, so it didn't seem like a rushed interaction. Of course, the host had some videos for us to watch, as well.

That sounds good, and I guess that once the first cock came out the others followed soon after, like it only needed one guy to break the ice.

 

[james2346]

sounds like a great idea, i wouldn't know how to find one..lol

 

[Jeph77]

sounds like a great idea, i wouldn't know how to find one..lol

Pure luck, in my case. Random conversation with a friendly local gentleman took a sudden turn. Led to an invite.

 

[Jeph77]

That sounds good, and I guess that once the first cock came out the others followed soon after, like it only needed one guy to break the ice.

We kind of took it like a marathon. No pressure. I haven't heard from any of them in a while, unfortunately.

 

[james2346]

Pure luck, in my case. Random conversation with a friendly local gentleman took a sudden turn. Led to an invite.

sounds great, would love to hear more

 

[hilton1958]

We kind of took it like a marathon. No pressure. I haven't heard from any of them in a while, unfortunately.

That is unfortunate. I would love to be part of a group like that, but in my social circles it's just not gonna happen. I guess it takes a group of guys who are sexually open, chilled, and not cock shy.

 

[funguy4u100]

I'd love to join a group of dads like this...I believe our wives would be happy too...even if they don't know why

 

[newhere2learn]

So it’s not a completely ridiculous idea then!

Never done a group version of this. However have played with a couple of (separate) gay guys who's turn on was married guys.

They hosted, provided everything. The visitor just does what he's told.

Their trade off for provisions, was that they knew married guys were unlikely to risk anything as they'd not want to be outed.

One guy, was an oral slut. So operated a blow and go drop in from his flat. Married guys only. He'd be ready, naked. Porn on.

Bed ready, fresh towels. You arrived, were told to strip. Relax. He then got to work. You got amazing head. Cleaned up, left.


Another, loved to edge married guys, make them beg, make them tell him how much better than their wife he was. Professional, early 50s, hung, worked from home. His house was busier than most supermarkets. Wasn't uncommon to be shooting all over him as he rammed his dick down your throat, while two more guys waited downstairs or outside.

The knowing looks as you left, was hot.



Was a third too. Very gay, camp, but dominant. Was shift worker, and his place again I turned up several times as others left, and left as the next arrived. Very hot.

 

[KenM77Florida]

Actually, I don't recall a lot of guys ejaculating. It was more forming combinations of bodies (mostly sucking) and mixing and matching. Given the men were mostly middle aged or older, I don't think anyone wanted to finish up too soon. Some just watched. I stayed on the bed, licking on men as they joined in and occasionally stroking their bodies as they played. It was much more relaxed than the typical ABS experience.

There was a guy like that in Goshen NY yrs ago. I never went. Couldn’t get up the nerve. If I did, I probably wouldn’t be a bi virgin today. I think I would really enjoy the whole group scene, watching and participating.

 

[jamesdillinger]

Never done a group version of this. However have played with a couple of (separate) gay guys who's turn on was married guys.

They hosted, provided everything. The visitor just does what he's told.

Their trade off for provisions, was that they knew married guys were unlikely to risk anything as they'd not want to be outed.

One guy, was an oral slut. So operated a blow and go drop in from his flat. Married guys only. He'd be ready, naked. Porn on.

Bed ready, fresh towels. You arrived, were told to strip. Relax. He then got to work. You got amazing head. Cleaned up, left.


Another, loved to edge married guys, make them beg, make them tell him how much better than their wife he was. Professional, early 50s, hung, worked from home. His house was busier than most supermarkets. Wasn't uncommon to be shooting all over him as he rammed his dick down your throat, while two more guys waited downstairs or outside.

The knowing looks as you left, was hot.



Was a third too. Very gay, camp, but dominant. Was shift worker, and his place again I turned up several times as others left, and left as the next arrived. Very hot.

I'd like to be part of this!

 

[Dww013]

I would love the opportunity to have a local poker night to join.

I have seen guys advertising getting a hotel suite for this. The problem for me they were in the big cities north and south of me and times just did not work.

 

[newhere2learn]

I'd like to be part of this!

Of which bit?

 

[easyoff]

I would love the opportunity to have a local poker night to join.

I have seen guys advertising getting a hotel suite for this. The problem for me they were in the big cities north and south of me and times just did not work.

A close friend of mine and my wife's use to host a Wednesday night guys only poker game. I was surprised at how many of my friends were bi

 

[chapter6plan]

I've seen invites on DL for something like this in the Minneapolis area. Haven't looked too closely yet, but sounds like fun.

 

[Swuchro]

Ok, this question is more for the married bi or bi curious guys… but anyone else can speak up if they want to.

A lot of the issue with trying to meet up with another guy is that the married guys can’t really host (except when their spouse is away, and even then, in my case there are cameras recording stuff). This isn’t an issue, of course, if you’re meeting a single guy most of the time.

So I sometimes think it would be great to find a single gay or bi male with their own place who would be willing to host a poker night that could be as often as they want to host, so us married guys could say we’re going to play poker, but really it’s going to a safe place to meet up.

I’m not suggesting that everyone would just start blowing each other in front of everyone! But there would be rooms guys could go to for their fun. Maybe the “poker money” could be given to the host. Of course a game could be played or the guys could just hang out and talk.

It would be better than getting a hotel room, there’d be no privacy and I think a lot of guys would be uncomfortable with that.

So is this one of those things that seems like a good idea to me because my autism spectrum disorder makes me try to look at things just logically? I’d like to hear the guys weigh in on this.

Ideally, I would like to have a top whose married and our wife’s are friends. This would allow me and my top to take guys trips and spend the time playing.