Are bi/gay men turned on by their own penises?

[Astroman72]

Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Im not a narccisist. Or at least i dont think i am. But i like and am turned on by my own cock. I used to be very self concious of the fact it had a slight bend in it. But later in life i accepted it. Especially when i started to play with other men. When you have a guy say to you, mmm I just love your cock… or wow id love to suck on that!! Then you kinda get a big head (pun intended). Im not very big but im happy with it. I also like watching myself suck another mans cock. I have these private videos ofme sucking a guy when he video taped me using my phone.

 

[wetsawdust]

I like mine, and it turns me on as well. I love the curve it gets when it gets hard...

 

[Escierto]

I don't get turned on by my own cock. My girlfriend's cock - now that lovely thing turns me on a lot!

 

[J1biboi]

When I was younger and could get really hard, mine was a little above average, cut and curved slightly up and to the left. I thought it looked pretty good and tried to suck it many times, but never got it done.

 

[none2_none2]

Cocks were never something I craved, not even my own. I saw my cock as a tool to get inside another man: to get pleasure, to give pleasure, and to be one with another man even if it is for a brief time. I always craved a nice male body: preferred hairy, masculine, muscular, etc. I also liked nice balls as a source of virility (testosterone) and fertility (sadly, I'm infertile). I loved watching the scrotum skin move to make sure a man's balls are kept at the right temperature. As to cock, I used to see it as proof that a sex partner is turned on: hard, leaking precum, etc. However, it was something I didn't crave. Over time, I realized that if I loved the man, then I love his body -- including his cock. Because it is HIS. I also realized that a man can enjoy sex with you but his cock can be soft and maybe not leaking precum. My partner is that way. That is why when I watch porn a soft cock on a guy getting fucked isn't a turn off -- it is a turn on as it reminds me of the love of my life.

Note, since my cock is useless due to ED, I also learned that what really matters over any male body part is the HEART. What good is a hot body, if there is no feeling involved. If my partner were to die, and my cock worked, I would still crave what I crave in a man's body. However, if the guy was one of those "crave cock but not the man", I would have no problem passing on him. To not feel anything for a man, to me is not some such made up orientation such as "hetero-romantic", but rather a MAJOR character flaw. I'd get as much pleasure out of a sex doll as a non-feeling man. I never brought an engagement ring with me to pop out before I had sex with a guy; I never asked a man to dump his wife for me. Still if he feels nothing except an interest in my cock, then it is a waste of my time and energy.

 

[Pines]

Well I enjoy mine and it has always been good to me.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Not since I have gotten old and can't suck my own anymore.

 

[Dhfranklin94]

Ummm, yup.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Yes, mine is tiny and limp or shrunk in and I go naked as often as possible. I know my partner scorned it but that is ok

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I like my cock. We've been best friends all my life. I do get turned on by it. A "happy ending" masseur I go to says I should be a cock model.

 

[wetsawdust]

I like my cock. We've been best friends all my life. I do get turned on by it. A "happy ending" masseur I go to says I should be a cock model.

I totally need a happy ending masseur.

 

[Thin59]

Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.

News flash , all men regardless of sexual preferance are turned on by their cocks , just saying .

 

[lit_ch3]

Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.

"I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation...."

Hadn't thought about it in these terms, but totally agree. Well-put. I need to get off. You need to get off. Let's do this. It's just sex. Not a relationship. Not a lifestyle. Just sex....

 

[wideboybrown]

Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.

More bi- as I love pussy.

I do get turned on and admire my own cock. I'd like to suck a similar cock like mine, with a woman...

 

[Thin59]

More bi- as I love pussy.

I do get turned on and admire my own cock. I'd like to suck a similar cock like mine, with a woman...

That would be so hot !!!

 

[saintcero]

That would be so hot !!!

I would certainly go to town on mine or maybe on one that looked just like it.

 

[slipprywenwet]

When I was younger and could get really hard, mine was a little above average, cut and curved slightly up and to the left. I thought it looked pretty good and tried to suck it many times, but never got it done.

...but you tried, didn't you? I think we all did.

I would certainly go to town on mine or maybe on one that looked just like it.

absolutely
it crosses my mind regularly

 

[Thin59]

I would certainly go to town on mine or maybe on one that looked just like it.

While she whatches and joins in hopefully !!!

 

[wideboybrown]

That would be so hot !!!

Looking for a F to volunteer!

 

[Thin59]

When I was younger and could get really hard, mine was a little above average, cut and curved slightly up and to the left. I thought it looked pretty good and tried to suck it many times, but never got it done.

I self suck alot at 63 years old.

 

[slipprywenwet]

I self suck alot at 63 years old.

i'd say that I'd like to see that, but it would just make me jealous.

 

[wideboybrown]

I'll work up to this goal again, at 55 bi-M
A F to help is a tr7e sexy bonus

 

[Thin59]

I'll work up to this goal again, at 55 bi-M
A F to help is a tr7e sexy bonus

Take yoga classes, Id eat your hole while you suck yourself , just a thought

 

[Thin59]

Take yoga classes, Id eat your hole while you suck yourself , just a thought

Are you cut ?