Are there other Sensual and Submissive CD's who aren't into the full-Sissy thing

[kimjohnsoncd]

I am wondering if some of the more mature members of this forum feel as I do. I am definitely sensual and submissive when dressed and with another CD, Transgurl or Man. I like to be led, I like to be kissed, made love to, and I enjoy pleasing my partner by giving myself up. But I don't enjoy being berated or demeaned or called a sissy fag or any of that. No judgment, it is probably just my age.

In my mind, I am more comfortable with something like this:
https://xhamster.com/videos/crossdresser-fucked-by-his-guy-7282700

 

[kimjohnsoncd]

and of course, interested in hearing from anyone who has interest in sensual and submissive CD's who like to please, be appreciated and give themselves up for mutual pleasure

 

[cdstefi]

I'm with you, although less so on the submissive part. Sissy talk does nothing for me (no shade intended on people who like it, it just grates on me). I'm really anti-humiliation and degradation as well so name-calling isn't my thing, and feminising words for male body parts (clitty, boi-pussy etc) turn me right off too.

That said, I acknowledge that I am absolutely a male crossdresser and have no thoughts or intention of transitioning or desire to be a woman, so my mindset is very different to that of a sissy or femboi. I love the sensuality of lingerie and how I look and feel in it, but I know it's autogynephilia, a fetishistic attraction to the symbology of feminine sexuality.

 

[comegently]

Yes 100%
Romantic femininity.
Kissed slowly. He fondles my thighs and slips my panties down.
Thoughtfully puts a pillow under me to raise my hips.
I wrap my legs around him and look up as his cock touches my hole and my eyes say "yes".
He enters me gently at first. My fingertips rest lightly on his skin as he starts to push.
His pleasure is my pleasure too.

 

[comegently]

Or two trans girls. Both scented and dressed in white lingerie.
Quick, soft kisses.
Naughty hands on each other's bottoms, exploring under the hems of our panties. Moving closer.
Slipping each other's panties down to mid thighs.
Kissing again, but more slowly and with passion.
Hands holding each other's bare bottoms, with fingers between cheeks.
The sensual touch of fingertips.
A long, knowing look into each other's eyes.
A fingertip goes inside.
Thrilled giggles.
A firm embrace, skin to skin.

 

[goodsonformom]

I am wondering if some of the more mature members of this forum feel as I do. I am definitely sensual and submissive when dressed and with another CD, Transgurl or Man. I like to be led, I like to be kissed, made love to, and I enjoy pleasing my partner by giving myself up. But I don't enjoy being berated or demeaned or called a sissy fag or any of that. No judgment, it is probably just my age.

In my mind, I am more comfortable with something like this:
https://xhamster.com/videos/crossdresser-fucked-by-his-guy-7282700

That's a great video.

 

[vizio]

Yes I feel the same way you do! I love dressing up and looking hot and sexy. I love being treated like a princess and being told how pretty I look. Just not into demeaning and humiliating treatment. I put a lot of effort and thought into how I look and want to be appreciated.

 

[Kellieskirt]

Yes I do feel much the same way oh luv to dress panties, stockings, skirts oh my and luv to please and be the girl but for me no turn on being degraded, or treated like just a hole just not a turn on for me no judgement in those that do get all hot an bothered with that type of play, that being sad a nice slap on my ass as he is taking me doggie well that is another thing all together lol and some words like oh yes suck the cock , or you luv this cock that is a turn on as well

 

[likitisplit]

i don't do the whole cd thing, make up, wig and all. i have a hairy chest, very non passable so i don't try. i don't mind being called a cocksucking queer. if i'm called that meaning to be what they want me to be

 

[brad260]

really hot vid and definitely my preferred style.. not alone for sure

 

[sarahlacycd1]

I'm with you, although less so on the submissive part. Sissy talk does nothing for me (no shade intended on people who like it, it just grates on me). I'm really anti-humiliation and degradation as well so name-calling isn't my thing, and feminising words for male body parts (clitty, boi-pussy etc) turn me right off too.

That said, I acknowledge that I am absolutely a male crossdresser and have no thoughts or intention of transitioning or desire to be a woman, so my mindset is very different to that of a sissy or femboi. I love the sensuality of lingerie and how I look and feel in it, but I know it's autogynephilia, a fetishistic attraction to the symbology of feminine sexuality.

I am almost 100% with you on this. I too love the feeling and sensuality of dressing. Also love the thoughts and fantasies of two like minded dressers doing for them whatever comes naturally. However full on gay rough sex, humiliation, sissification or outright degredation does nothing for me although I have no problem with those who do enjoy it, each to their own.
When it comes to porn my preference is CDs playing or boyfriend and CD girlfriend scenarios where I could be a paticipant in either role. But then that is just me and my weird ramblings.

 

[ncguy4fun269]

I am wondering if some of the more mature members of this forum feel as I do. I am definitely sensual and submissive when dressed and with another CD, Transgurl or Man. I like to be led, I like to be kissed, made love to, and I enjoy pleasing my partner by giving myself up. But I don't enjoy being berated or demeaned or called a sissy fag or any of that. No judgment, it is probably just my age.

In my mind, I am more comfortable with something like this:
https://xhamster.com/videos/crossdresser-fucked-by-his-guy-7282700

I love the same things! I dont mind being a naughty or bad girl, but I don't want to be talked down to.

 

[kimjohnsoncd]

a nice slap on my ass as he is taking me doggie well that is another thing all together lol and some words like oh yes suck the cock , or you luv this cock that is a turn on as well

Agreed!

 

[kimjohnsoncd]

Yes I do feel much the same way oh luv to dress panties, stockings, skirts oh my and luv to please and be the girl but for me no turn on being degraded, or treated like just a hole just not a turn on for me no judgement in those that do get all hot an bothered with that type of play, that being sad a nice slap on my ass as he is taking me doggie well that is another thing all together lol and some words like oh yes suck the cock , or you luv this cock that is a turn on as well first lover was older than me and very sensual and loving, but he would get verbal, asking me how his pefrect 7 inch cock felt as it slid in and out of me

 

[kimjohnsoncd]

My first lover was very sensual and patient, more experienced and really helpful in easing me into new experiences. He was the first cock I sucked or fucked and I was very fortunate. He was over 6 inches, maybe an inch and a half, slightly curved in a way that eventually would hit my P spot. I didn't have much practice with realiistic toys so it was all learning on the go. And he let me learn. It was a while before I was open to having him cum in my mouth so I would jerk him off at the end. But eventaully, without really thinking, I did swallow and I remember him saying how good it was and asking how I liked it. I told him right there and then, I loved sucking his beautiful cock and I loved tasting his cum. From that moment on, he may have asked similar questions but it was probably me talking more than him, telling him how much I wanted to suck his cock and swallow his cum. He patiently waited for me to want to go further until one day, after I had told him I had been practicing but was still unsure, he told me that if I put my lips on his cock one more time I would have to let him fuck me. He assured me that we would go at my pace, however I wanted. But he was adamant and we didn't do anything but kiss that night. He went home and I went to bed frustrated. The next weekend, I dressed to the nines, I prepared myself and I had even acquired a plug that was well lubed and placed to hopefully help with my apprehension.
When he came over we talked, then made out and eventually I pulled him free and looked up at him before lowering my mouth to kiss, lick and suck that georgeous cock. Eventually we went to the bedroom, I excused myself and went to the bathroom to remove my plug and insert a good amount of lube. I came back to the bedroom to find him sprawled naked on the bed, cock erect like a flagpole. I unzipped and let my dress fall to the floor and crawled up the bed in my camisette, hose and heels. I pulled my hair back and devoured his cock again for a while before he asked if I remembered our deal. I didn't say a word and instead moved up and straddled him and with my hands on his chest, I gently began working him into my virgin hole, slowly, inch by inch, more ecstacy than anything, no discomfort whatsoever, until I was riding him at my pace, stopping only to lower to kiss him deeply. As I would lower to kiss him he would ram me good. He moved me to my knees and pounding me from behind before flipping me to missoinary where he would lower himself to agressively kiss me. I remember seeing my legs flailing, hips moving on autopilot to meet his thrusts. I remember him saying only "oh fuck" as he came and me coming a second later. Not degrading at all. And that probably sealed the deal on how I wanted to make love as Kim.

 

[goodsonformom]

My first lover was very sensual and patient, more experienced and really helpful in easing me into new experiences. He was the first cock I sucked or fucked and I was very fortunate. He was over 6 inches, maybe an inch and a half, slightly curved in a way that eventually would hit my P spot. I didn't have much practice with realiistic toys so it was all learning on the go. And he let me learn. It was a while before I was open to having him cum in my mouth so I would jerk him off at the end. But eventaully, without really thinking, I did swallow and I remember him saying how good it was and asking how I liked it. I told him right there and then, I loved sucking his beautiful cock and I loved tasting his cum. From that moment on, he may have asked similar questions but it was probably me talking more than him, telling him how much I wanted to suck his cock and swallow his cum. He patiently waited for me to want to go further until one day, after I had told him I had been practicing but was still unsure, he told me that if I put my lips on his cock one more time I would have to let him fuck me. He assured me that we would go at my pace, however I wanted. But he was adamant and we didn't do anything but kiss that night. He went home and I went to bed frustrated. The next weekend, I dressed to the nines, I prepared myself and I had even acquired a plug that was well lubed and placed to hopefully help with my apprehension.
When he came over we talked, then made out and eventually I pulled him free and looked up at him before lowering my mouth to kiss, lick and suck that georgeous cock. Eventually we went to the bedroom, I excused myself and went to the bathroom to remove my plug and insert a good amount of lube. I came back to the bedroom to find him sprawled naked on the bed, cock erect like a flagpole. I unzipped and let my dress fall to the floor and crawled up the bed in my camisette, hose and heels. I pulled my hair back and devoured his cock again for a while before he asked if I remembered our deal. I didn't say a word and instead moved up and straddled him and with my hands on his chest, I gently began working him into my virgin hole, slowly, inch by inch, more ecstacy than anything, no discomfort whatsoever, until I was riding him at my pace, stopping only to lower to kiss him deeply. As I would lower to kiss him he would ram me good. He moved me to my knees and pounding me from behind before flipping me to missoinary where he would lower himself to agressively kiss me. I remember seeing my legs flailing, hips moving on autopilot to meet his thrusts. I remember him saying only "oh fuck" as he came and me coming a second later. Not degrading at all. And that probably sealed the deal on how I wanted to make love as Kim.

Perfect...as it should be.

 

[CD_Bree]

My first lover was very sensual and patient, more experienced and really helpful in easing me into new experiences. He was the first cock I sucked or fucked and I was very fortunate. He was over 6 inches, maybe an inch and a half, slightly curved in a way that eventually would hit my P spot. I didn't have much practice with realiistic toys so it was all learning on the go. And he let me learn. It was a while before I was open to having him cum in my mouth so I would jerk him off at the end. But eventaully, without really thinking, I did swallow and I remember him saying how good it was and asking how I liked it. I told him right there and then, I loved sucking his beautiful cock and I loved tasting his cum. From that moment on, he may have asked similar questions but it was probably me talking more than him, telling him how much I wanted to suck his cock and swallow his cum. He patiently waited for me to want to go further until one day, after I had told him I had been practicing but was still unsure, he told me that if I put my lips on his cock one more time I would have to let him fuck me. He assured me that we would go at my pace, however I wanted. But he was adamant and we didn't do anything but kiss that night. He went home and I went to bed frustrated. The next weekend, I dressed to the nines, I prepared myself and I had even acquired a plug that was well lubed and placed to hopefully help with my apprehension.
When he came over we talked, then made out and eventually I pulled him free and looked up at him before lowering my mouth to kiss, lick and suck that georgeous cock. Eventually we went to the bedroom, I excused myself and went to the bathroom to remove my plug and insert a good amount of lube. I came back to the bedroom to find him sprawled naked on the bed, cock erect like a flagpole. I unzipped and let my dress fall to the floor and crawled up the bed in my camisette, hose and heels. I pulled my hair back and devoured his cock again for a while before he asked if I remembered our deal. I didn't say a word and instead moved up and straddled him and with my hands on his chest, I gently began working him into my virgin hole, slowly, inch by inch, more ecstacy than anything, no discomfort whatsoever, until I was riding him at my pace, stopping only to lower to kiss him deeply. As I would lower to kiss him he would ram me good. He moved me to my knees and pounding me from behind before flipping me to missoinary where he would lower himself to agressively kiss me. I remember seeing my legs flailing, hips moving on autopilot to meet his thrusts. I remember him saying only "oh fuck" as he came and me coming a second later. Not degrading at all. And that probably sealed the deal on how I wanted to make love as Kim.

Its good to start out with someone that understands patience! It makes the first time a good memory.

 

[Katecdpt]

Kim, great topic for discussion!
I do feel as you do that I enjoy being romanced, not berated or treated like trash. I am a cross dresser and not a transsexual, but I do feel I want to be treated like a lady. Take me out to a nice, intimate dinner, conversation, etc. When we get home, then we can spend time making out, touching, caressing, etc. I guess I just want to feel romanced, cherished and not like a prostitute. Is there anything wrong with just wanting to be romanced a bit?
Just my thoughts on this subject. Keep this one going all.

Kate

 

[Flyover3]

Yes 100%
Romantic femininity.
Kissed slowly. He fondles my thighs and slips my panties down.
Thoughtfully puts a pillow under me to raise my hips.
I wrap my legs around him and look up as his cock touches my hole and my eyes say "yes".
He enters me gently at first. My fingertips rest lightly on his skin as he starts to push.
His pleasure is my pleasure too.

Your description is exactly what I want, seduce me with kisses me he runs his
hands all over me. Convince me as the head of his cock kisses my
hole that he wants me, my eyes would beg for him to enter me. As he thrusts into me my
duty is to pleasure him and in return that will be my pleasure! Nothing
could be better then his tongue in my mouth as his cock thrusts slowly inside me!

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

Yes I do feel much the same way oh luv to dress panties, stockings, skirts oh my and luv to please and be the girl but for me no turn on being degraded, or treated like just a hole just not a turn on for me no judgement in those that do get all hot an bothered with that type of play, that being sad a nice slap on my ass as he is taking me doggie well that is another thing all together lol and some words like oh yes suck the cock , or you luv this cock that is a turn on as well

I am a top who is turned off by the whole degradation/humiliation thing, I enjoy a nice sensual and passionate connection.

Although I will give your ass a nice ringing slap or two while I tell you how beautiful it looks up in the air… now arch your back, extend your smooth long arms in front of you, and enjoy the feel of my long slender cock slowly sliding deliciously deep into your body for the first time..

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

and of course, interested in hearing from anyone who has interest in sensual and submissive CD's who like to please, be appreciated and give themselves up for mutual pleasure

Lovely vid you posted. As a sensual and gently but firmly dominant top, I am on exactly the same wavelength .

 

[jp8155]

I agree. My dream is to have another cd for a wife. To have and to hold. To share even the little things with. Someone with whom I can worship her sexy body and later I can hold and cuddle with.

 

[goodsonformom]

I am wondering if some of the more mature members of this forum feel as I do. I am definitely sensual and submissive when dressed and with another CD, Transgurl or Man. I like to be led, I like to be kissed, made love to, and I enjoy pleasing my partner by giving myself up. But I don't enjoy being berated or demeaned or called a sissy fag or any of that. No judgment, it is probably just my age.

In my mind, I am more comfortable with something like this:
https://xhamster.com/videos/crossdresser-fucked-by-his-guy-7282700

Lovely video...Perfect!

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Lovely video...Perfect!

Had to watch a second time, didn't make it all the way through the first!

 

[toowiredup]

I am wondering if some of the more mature members of this forum feel as I do. I am definitely sensual and submissive when dressed and with another CD, Transgurl or Man. I like to be led, I like to be kissed, made love to, and I enjoy pleasing my partner by giving myself up. But I don't enjoy being berated or demeaned or called a sissy fag or any of that. No judgment, it is probably just my age.

In my mind, I am more comfortable with something like this:
https://xhamster.com/videos/crossdresser-fucked-by-his-guy-7282700

Being submissive does not mean being a dishrag. I absolutely love the sensual, and love being submissive - giving over control and being led by someone I trust; having my boundaries pushed. There's space to explore a lot in there without someone just going "oh you're a sub? You must love being treated like garbage."