Soccerguy1297
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- Aug 2, 2012
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I've been on the site for a while now, it all came about through various searches online seeking advice, and stories from guys like myself. I had recently come out as a married bisexual man (my wife knows, and is bi as well - part of which is what made it so easy to come out to her). She is more bi in the sense that she believes "spiritually" that all men and women are bisexual. I highly doubt she'd ever do anything with another women - at least while we are married, although I feel as though I would support it. My wife is not as sexual as I am, so she doesn't quite look at it the way I do.
Here's my question. I'm a young (33), good looking, in-shape, clean, laid back guy who is not looking for anything serious - I have the love of my life and the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, however, I also have desires and needs that she simply cannot fulfill. I have talked with a few guys on here and they've all been great to talk to, awesome guys who are probably really cool people. The problem is that they get in touch and are all about getting to know each other (which is exactly what I'm looking for), however, they then seem to back down a bit or drop off the face of the earth. So...Are bisexual married guys less desirable, or considered too much of a "risk" because of the "wife factor?"
I cannot bring myself to put an add on CL, nor can I bring myself to respond to one, they are all way more aggressive than I want to start out with, and it just seems way too creepy (I've seen the stories on the news). I'm looking for more of a friendship with benefits type thing. I just find it strange that a guy like me has a hard time getting laid by a another guy, heck, us guys are supposed to be "easy." I AM picky and perhaps that's part of it, I don't know, just figured I'd throw it out there.
Thanks for listening.
Here's my question. I'm a young (33), good looking, in-shape, clean, laid back guy who is not looking for anything serious - I have the love of my life and the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, however, I also have desires and needs that she simply cannot fulfill. I have talked with a few guys on here and they've all been great to talk to, awesome guys who are probably really cool people. The problem is that they get in touch and are all about getting to know each other (which is exactly what I'm looking for), however, they then seem to back down a bit or drop off the face of the earth. So...Are bisexual married guys less desirable, or considered too much of a "risk" because of the "wife factor?"
I cannot bring myself to put an add on CL, nor can I bring myself to respond to one, they are all way more aggressive than I want to start out with, and it just seems way too creepy (I've seen the stories on the news). I'm looking for more of a friendship with benefits type thing. I just find it strange that a guy like me has a hard time getting laid by a another guy, heck, us guys are supposed to be "easy." I AM picky and perhaps that's part of it, I don't know, just figured I'd throw it out there.
Thanks for listening.