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Ah! That explains it! My AV has made you mute/speechless.
Pmann’s Reasons Why Women Won’t Talk To Me (You) Thread
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Gonna go with unrealistic and unreasonable expectations.
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I'm having a difficult time with this right now with the recent happenings with my lady friend, etc. It reminded me of how things just go bizarrely wrong for me in the love department. Always has and it's never quit, and it always depresses me. Since I have no consistent track record whatsoever, I don't know how to handle basic situations that most people seem rational about.
So I just developed my own lifestyle and cultural preferences. That's where the line of inquiry stops with most women. They figure out I'm a living relic and that's it. I'm an intellectual, and as I've grown older, I've stuck more to that side of the equation.
I have a very sensual side, but I've never figured out how to show it. I can't walk up to a woman in a bar and use some smarmy line. My personality just doesn't allow for it. But there are several women here who I think can attest to the fact that I do possess a sensual side and a vibrant one.
I'm a nice guy, I try not to be too much of a pest, but I just don't seem to have the knack of saying the right words to unlock the door. I always feel bad when I get ghosted in PMs, wondering what I did wrong. (Has to be me, or it wouldn't happen so often.)
Sorry to whine. Just feeling kind of defeated right now.
In my case, I'm just too fucked up. All my life, I've been used to being the most different person in a group. The third wheel. The one left out of everything. I seriously believe I could start my own fan club and I'd be pushed out of it.
So I just developed my own lifestyle and cultural preferences. That's where the line of inquiry stops with most women. They figure out I'm a living relic and that's it. I'm an intellectual, and as I've grown older, I've stuck more to that side of the equation.
That's me. I don't post pics of most of my body, first of all for privacy reasons. But the bigger thing is I'm just ugly to begin with. My profile is horrifying. My chest and abdomen are horrors. My ass isn't too pretty either. My body would not inspire sexual desire in anyone, so I leave it alone. You can call it "body dysmorphia" all you want, but I've seen women online (figuratively) run at the sight of my face.
I have a very sensual side, but I've never figured out how to show it. I can't walk up to a woman in a bar and use some smarmy line. My personality just doesn't allow for it. But there are several women here who I think can attest to the fact that I do possess a sensual side and a vibrant one.
Been there, done that. I was like that all through my 20's and 30's. I've never had a whole lot in the way of emotional control. But hitting my 40s and COVID at the same time allowed me to grow bitter, which helped keep things like that in check. Recent events brought that back at least temporarily, and I don't totally like it.
I'm a nice guy, I try not to be too much of a pest, but I just don't seem to have the knack of saying the right words to unlock the door. I always feel bad when I get ghosted in PMs, wondering what I did wrong. (Has to be me, or it wouldn't happen so often.)
Sorry to whine. Just feeling kind of defeated right now.
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You and I are a lot alike. I've agreed with many of the things I've seen you post in the past, your words made sense to me. I wish I had some wise words for You now that could make you feel better. I do not.
Right now, in the world we live in, people are not kind to one another. Male, female, or otherwise. Even with the best of intentions, we fucking destroy each other.
All I can say is that I hope someday, we can all do better. Until then, I wait.
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Too many dick pics or not enough? You were not clear on your grievance.
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Turn off: when men message women with just “Hi” or similar interactions …
GIVE ME SOME FUCKING SUBSTANCE!
This is your ONE chance … you have ONE chance to shoot your shot. Make your message interesting, inquisitive, etc. something like .. why you messaged me, what about me compelled you to send me a message, why should I give you a chance, what are you offering.
Fucking SOMETHING …, a fun fact… a tidbit about your day.. a question you want to ask.
“Hey” will get ignored, blocked and your shot is over.
GIVE ME SOME FUCKING SUBSTANCE!
This is your ONE chance … you have ONE chance to shoot your shot. Make your message interesting, inquisitive, etc. something like .. why you messaged me, what about me compelled you to send me a message, why should I give you a chance, what are you offering.
Fucking SOMETHING …, a fun fact… a tidbit about your day.. a question you want to ask.
“Hey” will get ignored, blocked and your shot is over.
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I think that is called a simp now a days.
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I did wonder about that…….
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Ignored.
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.... I think I fell down a rabbit hole..
Science is awesome!!!
Also... I might have to up the ante a bit, in regards to my yoga.. some of those ancient people.. they are truly creative!!!
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Here comes SCP to not contribute anything of real value and just take up space.
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Hush SCP … you know you fucking love me … maybe more so when I abuse you.
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You want meaningful encounters. Substance. But then you say no dick pics.
Which is it?!??
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It’s been my experience that most dicks don’t have much substance … penises either.
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I see what you did there.
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Ooh, who’s upset you then?
crazychemgirl
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It’s just how he likes it …. Trust meOoh, who’s upset you then?
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They all say that! Is your father a Nigerian Prince with a fortune tied up in Switzerland? 
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Creative intros are fun. When I was doing the dating app thing I'd message people with the intro "Hey there, I'm making a Home Depot run. You need anything?"
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