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That may well be true, often. But it ain't necessarily so.
So what kind of behaviour makes a man a boorish clod?
I know lots of guys who I think fit the bill.
But I also know lots of women with unrealistic expectations.
I think most of the time that men or women end up with a partner who turns out to be a jerk, the evidence was there all along. I am thinking of a couple guys I know who are boorish, misogynist assholes who have a great deal of success with women. They are frauds but they have gotten good at telling women what they want to hear just long enough to get into her panties.
As the last post said......why would you marry a boorish jerk? It isn't up to the world or men at large to filter out the assholes for you. There are lots of good guys in the world. But a real man knows who he is. He treats women properly but he also expects to be treated properly. He wants an equal partner to actually conduct herself as an equal which includes seeing the world for what it is. Real men hold the door for both genders most of the time but occasionally forget. Real men enjoy a good fart joke once in a while. Real men swear once in a while. Real men don't treat people poorly but they won't take shit either - and they expect women to know the difference between starting a fight and finishing a fight.
Parents should teach their sons to be better men.....and they should teach their daughters to look for character in a man, not superficial behavioural traits.
There is no excuse for being a boorish clod. But if you want to be an equal and a grown-up there is no excuse for not taking responsibility for your own choice of mates.
Oh this is my new favourite thread. I'm guessing it's in response to the men's thread? I've very nearly commented that half of them probably aren't getting any because they're lacking elsewhere. If your wife isn't giving you sex, you're most likely doing something wrong somewhere... just saying
Guess the opposite could be true, eh?
Maybe he isn’t giving you sex because you’re “doing something wrong somewhere else?”
What a fucked up attitude about a loved one. Men and women aren’t machines that return favors or behavior with sex.
Oh this is my new favourite thread. I'm guessing it's in response to the men's thread? I've very nearly commented that half of them probably aren't getting any because they're lacking elsewhere. If your wife isn't giving you sex, you're most likely doing something wrong somewhere... just saying
Or perhaps, god forbid the woman could have issues.
The thread doesn't make sense to me.
Why give sex to a boorish clod in the first place, much less marry him.
ETA: Ah, the OP...never mind.
Very sadly, there are plenty of men and plenty of women who were all romantic and sexy and attentive to their date = boy/girlfriend = fiancee/fiance = newlywed and then ....
They have slumped into taking their spouse for granted at all sorts of levels which are not about sex, and long for it as the other partner wishes, the fire to get intimate with this "person who takes me for granted except when they want sex" just can't get lit. And that is very understandable, as no-one can thrive as someone else's 'object'.
This is very true. If your marriage is out of kilter one of the first things to go is intimacy.
So it may be that a husband started out all right but then gave up trying or equally found his wife not to be as he thought.
Money problems, work problems, one partner hankering after an ex.
It indicates a problem.
How you solve it defines the marriage.
Lol.....that is a pretty harsh representation. But there is an element of truth to the notion that men are expected to make their wives feel special but you don't really hear about the opposite.