Hello there, I thought I would join maybe as a bit of help and looking for advice, me and my finance are looking to spice things up.in our sex lives by delving into the sub dom roles,myself being the dom and her being sub, my only problem is I'm quite shy, in most aspects of life.the thought of the dom role turns me on as does the sub role for her with me being the dom, I think I may need some advice on how to ease myself into discovering my trigger for finding my inner dom,I know it's there I just don't know what I can do to bring him out, please no pedantic reply and any advice would be greatly appreciated.