Fantasising during lovemaking: your partner having sex with someone else!

[amigayorbi]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

 

[Bbl87]

I've thought about it in the sense of swinging/swapping. I think it would be very erotic to see her fucking someone else while I'm fucking another woman.

 

[One_ping_only]

Guilty as charged !! Just this morning while she was riding me and I was running her asscheeks with both my hands that another guy crawled up behind her was going to fuck her in her tight asshole for her first ever, fabulous DP!

 

[TravisAW]

Mrs AW has encouraged it occasionally, sometimes when she wants it over quicker (after a couple of beers I can last too long for her liking).
One time she looked at me and said "come on, cum inside me and knock me up before my husband gets home."
I replied "are you sure?", she replied "Yes, I want your black baby." I didn't last much longer, the filthy minx.

 

[Jcam1980s]

Yup. I sometimes imagine the night her ex knocked her up. Usually results in a nice big load flowing out of her

 

[gtnlynn]

Yes. After my wife told me about all the sex she had in college with guys I met when dating her, we sometimes pretended I was one of them. She would talk to me as if I were that other man and tell me to fuck her like he did.

 

[screwher]

I do it quite often. During our foreplay, my focus is directly on my sexy wifey. But when it’s that time, when I’m sliding my cock into her pussy, my mind wanders. I’m thinking I’m anotherman fucking my wife!

 

[mustang_driver]

I have done this, especially if I'm having trouble finishing. I'll fantasize about what she would have looked like fucking one of her college boyfriends and it sends me right over the edge. Recently I took it further by fantasizing about her fantasizing about one of her ex's and moaning his name while riding me. Oh my, that was hot.

 

[LeeKee]

Guilty as charged !! Just this morning while she was riding me and I was running her asscheeks with both my hands that another guy crawled up behind her was going to fuck her in her tight asshole for her first ever, fabulous DP!

Guilty of this as well. Also during oral, i spread her ass and imagine her being fucked.

 

[PFWilly]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

I frequently think about the other three guys she’s been with in the past. Either in her pussy or mouth. Heck, we even talk about two of those guys when we’re playing. But one is sort of a verboten topic, I sometimes think about him while jacking off by myself. LOL

 

[NapierBone]

My wife and I do this all the time, talking about who we’d like to see the other with. Sometimes she’ll just give me a handjob while reminiscing about other men. Other times one will go down on the other while the one being pleasured talks about who we’d like to fuck.

we get good value out of our rare encounters outside our marriage. I’d say it’s like a 1:20 real-to-narration ratio.

 

[DrHappy]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

I can honestly say “no.” This isn’t a character judgement. It’s just how my brain works. I have an extremely vivid imagination and I am very visual. However, I guess my brain is very much “in the moment” when I’m having sex with someone.

I remember reading a complaint that a woman made in a relationship forum. She was upset after she found out that her husband had been watching porn. She didn’t want to have sex with him anymore because she thought that he would be thinking about the attractive women in the porn videos instead of her when they had sex. That concept seemed very alien to me when I read it. As an experiment, I later TRIED to think of someone else while I was having sex with my wife. I found it very hard to do, even for a few seconds. I also found it to be a distraction and a turn off.

When I’m with someone, I’m thinking, “I want these tits right here! I want this pussy right here! I want this ass right here!”

 

[FantasySharer1]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

Every time I fuck my wife I imagine that it is actually her brother fucking her and I'm laying underneath the point where his cock disappears into her and waiting for the creampie.

 

[funloverwife]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

i, I do it everytime. Every time i am fucking my wife, I imagine her being fucked by my friend or colleague or her friend/colleague. I really get aroused a lot and have erotic sex. I even tell it to my wife and she also fantasises that man.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I can honestly say “no.” This isn’t a character judgement. It’s just how my brain works. I have an extremely vivid imagination and I am very visual. However, I guess my brain is very much “in the moment” when I’m having sex with someone.

I remember reading a complaint that a woman made in a relationship forum. She was upset after she found out that her husband had been watching porn. She didn’t want to have sex with him anymore because she thought that he would be thinking about the attractive women in the porn videos instead of her when they had sex. That concept seemed very alien to me when I read it. As an experiment, I later TRIED to think of someone else while I was having sex with my wife. I found it very hard to do, even for a few seconds. I also found it to be a distraction and a turn off.

When I’m with someone, I’m thinking, “I want these tits right here! I want this pussy right here! I want this ass right here!”

I’m sort of this way also. I’m usually so focused on what we’re doing it’s hard for my mind to wander (simpleton I am) and only can think of maybe what trick I have up my sleeve next! She does have a suction cup dildo that we’ll use sometimes on the headboard…then my mind can make the leap.

 

[Ramone45]

When I go down on my wife, I can VIVIDLY her former lovers penis entering her, and how good it must have felt for both of them. She is so pretty down there, and she gets nice and wet. She told me that one of her lovers was uncircumcised, so I focus on that big snake sliding into her. She LOVED fucking that guy.

 

[muffinhog]

I do, as often as I can. It happens when she wants a massage before sex. I'll get her very relaxed and then I'll whisper in her ear "where's your husband today?" She'll almost always lose her good catholic girl persona and reply " pfff, he says he's going golfing !" I'll then assume the character of a big dick masseuse while I turn the massage into very sexual foreplay. This turns me on so much, resulting in a very satisfying pussy pounding for her.

 

[jackthelad11]

Love this thread. Me and my wife do something similar. She will pick a person for me to pretend to be and we will then have sex with me pretending to be that person. I will do the same for her but only one of us role plays at a time. It can be somebody famous or just someone we know or work with, Sometimes it can be a complete stranger we see somewhere and make up a back story for them. It certainly spices things up especially when she moans the other guy's name.

Two interesting things about this is that firstly, often when we say who we want the other to pretend to be the reaction is "Oh. Really? You find THEM attractive?". The second is that it revealed to me that my wife clearly spends a lot more time observing guys than I ever would have thought. And thats a big turn on for me.

 

[Conquen69]

Big time! I often imagine my wife's past experiences. She even played along a few times, calling me by her lovers name while I fucked her. I came so hard.

 

[JR284]

Every single time I'm with my wife, whether I'm going down on her or I'm fucking her, I'm thinking about the many many cocks that have been inside of her. It absolutely turns me on like crazy.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

We do this on occasion. Sometimes my wife encourages it, asking lots of questions as she nears orgasm.

She likes when I suggest younger guys who we know would actually like to fuck her, and sometimes get flirty with her. On occasion she dresses a little provocatively and is good at pretending not to notice the attention she gets.

Sometimes she initiates it suggesting people I should fuck.
Sometimes she just wants me and no one else.

I'm just along for the ride.

 

[Victoria14xs]

My husband and I are 100% monogamous. But in the bedroom we’re 100% “open.” Any fantasy goes. He’s free to talk about his secretary while I blow him. I’m free to tell him how badly I wanna suck our hunky neighbor’s big dick - while he’s eating me.
It works for us. It’s beyond hot.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

I've thought of watching a partner with someone and also being the partner fucked while my lover watches, but I probably won't bring this up or actually do it as I'm monogamous once I decide I want to be in a relationship with anyone.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's a hot fantasy and probably not worth it.

 

[StudlyCowboy]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

When my current wife and I got married, it was the second go round for us both. We both had lived out many sexual experiences and during our courtship of a year or so, discovered that we enjoyed talking about our sexual past. With my tongue buried in her pussy, it did not take much encouragement for my fiancé to share her past going back to her first time. I shared with her some of my sexploits and it always made her cum. At some point, we began to share with each other, friends and family that we wanted to fuck and that's when the real fun started. I took it a step further than she did, but she knew that about me before we got married. She did once or twice that I know of and when it came back to our bedroom, we damn near set the sheets on fire. Fuckin' A!