Are you dominant or submissive

[funguy4u100]

I fall into that switch category. I've had great experiences in a more dominant role as well as slipping into a very submissive place. Both bring me great pleasures!

 

[Yesok1]

Bdsm wise I'm submissive. I'll endure whatever makes my mistress happy. We need safe words and after care, but I want to be reminded each time I sit down, stretch, bend over or feel uncomfortable for a week that I've made her happy!

 

[NewEng]

Definitely sub

 

[Meduus]

Submissive all the way!

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Submissive....odedient......kneeling....waiting.......use me.....whatever turns you on.........turns me on!!!!!

 

[submissa]

I'm a sub... but I'm only inclined to submit to a minority of women and everyone else can pretty much bite me. I've been with a new domme for a little bit now and she owns my submission. She has said she will allow me to have submissives of my own but I don't really want to... I play with others and dominate them, but it's more accurate to call what I do service topping.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Switch
Naturally have a strong personality but prefer to be more submissive in the bedroom

 

[EmyS]

Very submissive! And obedient too.

 

[ncm55]

Never really tried submissive but it has always been a fantasy

 

[paulaann]

sub and love it!

 

[Gaj1962]

I consider myself very submissive and probably mostly bottom. I love controlling men and women, and would really love being turned into a good sissy slut.

Are you married?

 

[MagicFlute]

In my marriage I don't think there is any dominant/submissive behaviour from either of us. We work side by side both in and Out of the bedroom.

Outside of my marriage, I am definitely dominant. More on the Daddydom end of the spectrum.

But obviously it's difficult finding a sub willing to give herself to someone in my position. But I enjoy reading everyone's stories

 

[Elayne_Hawke]

Switch, I like to take control but I also love to have a guy take control of my feisty bratty side, and do with me as he pleases.

 

[Lady2020]

Neither. Switch doesn't really qualify either.

 

[paulaann]

It removes any blame or guilt when you simply do as your told. Its not your fault so you cant be a slut.

 

[Elayne_Hawke]

Neither. Switch doesn't really qualify either.

Who says you can't be both?
You can be dominant and in control but there's nothing wrong with wanting that switched once in a while. Makes having sex boring without having a change up.

 

[Oldermom935]

Who says you can't be both?
You can be dominant and in control but there's nothing wrong with wanting that switched once in a while. Makes having sex boring without having a change up.

At times you feel dominant, and at other times you want to submit. So you can both maximize the enjoyment.

 

[hulmule]

Dominant, but would be nice a have a woman take control and enjoy the ride...

 

[cowboyup6977]

I have always been somewhat submissive to my husband
I was always dominant with other women
Until one special woman showed me the joys of being submissive to her