Are you dominant or submissive

I’m a man. I can be submissive or dominant depending on my partner but I’m first just a sexual being. I don’t feel defined by a label or a role.
 
I have to say up front that I only dabble here, usually at the request of a playmate.
I am pretty much zero submissive in the classic BDSM sense (as a bottom, I am 'enthusiastically eager to please', but need not, or am willing to allow, myself to be forced). I certainly gravitate pretty easily to 'gentle Domme' (no real pain, no hitting - light spanking at best, but with an extremely stern, demanding attitude). With my experience, it's best that I stick with other amateurs, as I have a feeling I would embarrass myself in front of a truly devoted sub.

For me, it's all about the clothes. I'll miss the summer, but I'm so glad the cooler weather has returned, because it's been so hot that even with the AC on, I couldn't comfortably wear any thigh high stiletto boots.:)
 
For me, it's all about the clothes. I'll miss the summer, but I'm so glad the cooler weather has returned, because it's been so hot that even with the AC on, I couldn't comfortably wear any thigh high stiletto boots.:)

Lol!! :kiss:

Better you than me, I'll stick with my clogs and flip flops!
 
I'm a 100% switch, same as my husband & GF.
Love playing both roles, when alone & playing my fantasies are all of me being submissive though

L:rose:
 
I don't really know anymore. I know that I don't always want to be the leader. I also know that I don't really like being told what to do.
 
Well why don't you ask your source, and I'll ask mine, and we'll reconvene and compare notes. :)

Was there not a thread on male attire somewhere at some point? I thought I remembered discussions of tailor-made suits and expensive watches...
 
Was there not a thread on male attire somewhere at some point? I thought I remembered discussions of tailor-made suits and expensive watches...

The Litster Suit Porn thread? *swoon*

Don't get me started, I don't have time to fap!
 
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