Anyone out there let their wife screw around?

[pnguinfkt]

i got more than i bargained for, no regrets

The fantasy of my wife being with another man or men is my recurring fantasy of late. Anyone ever encourage it?

I encouraged wife to get a job and finish school. my turn with the kids. I loved her as a barmaid. she got hit on groped and flirted with lots of men. our sex was great as i liked her mishchief as did she. after college she was bred-winner. but still not what i had made soo. i had to work, and travel for months at a clip. then she cheated, but she told me first. i ok'd her affair but warned her to not fall in love. i csme home and johnny was my wifes lover. they dated right in front of me. no sex for me cept me jerking off while my wife dressed. i love her and accepted the hurt, johnny was a better lover, and my wife was happy. next time off the road and wifey dumped johnny. she was now dating many men, none steady though. i got to eat pussy now cuz johnny was gone. she was gettin dick yhough i love jerking wifey told me to get a lover. a man(women are off limits). she knew i tried it in college and liked oral. i was far from gay. wifey's boyfriend had gay buddy so wifey loved watching me practice. now after a year. and no sex with wifey i get off by steve given me the dick.
no regrets, still in love with my best friend wife.

 

[TeaforMe]

I encouraged wife to get a job and finish school. my turn with the kids. I loved her as a barmaid. she got hit on groped and flirted with lots of men. our sex was great as i liked her mishchief as did she. after college she was bred-winner. but still not what i had made soo. i had to work, and travel for months at a clip. then she cheated, but she told me first. i ok'd her affair but warned her to not fall in love. i csme home and johnny was my wifes lover. they dated right in front of me. no sex for me cept me jerking off while my wife dressed. i love her and accepted the hurt, johnny was a better lover, and my wife was happy. next time off the road and wifey dumped johnny. she was now dating many men, none steady though. i got to eat pussy now cuz johnny was gone. she was gettin dick yhough i love jerking wifey told me to get a lover. a man(women are off limits). she knew i tried it in college and liked oral. i was far from gay. wifey's boyfriend had gay buddy so wifey loved watching me practice. now after a year. and no sex with wifey i get off by steve given me the dick.
no regrets, still in love with my best friend wife.

Wtf??

 

[Emerson40]

Fresh box of wine, unopened on the counter.

my wife missed adult activities, so when the kids got older,I encouraged my wife to get a social life. She got a job aa a barmaid. She had so much fun with her barmaid girlfriends. flirting , drinking etc. There were a few nights she came home really late 5am and sloppy drunk, she says she kissed another guy. They made out. She knows i love her, and her honesty shows respect for me. I sometimes think she might have done more. YES the sex is amazing, I loved hearing about her flirting, dancing, and kissing other men. I encouraged her to go further with the men, but she was leery, afraid of goin too far. She stopped all that bout 5 yrs. . Great time in our marriage!!!

Empty box of wine under desk.

I encouraged wife to get a job and finish school. my turn with the kids. I loved her as a barmaid. she got hit on groped and flirted with lots of men. our sex was great as i liked her mishchief as did she. after college she was bred-winner. but still not what i had made soo. i had to work, and travel for months at a clip. then she cheated, but she told me first. i ok'd her affair but warned her to not fall in love. i csme home and johnny was my wifes lover. they dated right in front of me. no sex for me cept me jerking off while my wife dressed. i love her and accepted the hurt, johnny was a better lover, and my wife was happy. next time off the road and wifey dumped johnny. she was now dating many men, none steady though. i got to eat pussy now cuz johnny was gone. she was gettin dick yhough i love jerking wifey told me to get a lover. a man(women are off limits). she knew i tried it in college and liked oral. i was far from gay. wifey's boyfriend had gay buddy so wifey loved watching me practice. now after a year. and no sex with wifey i get off by steve given me the dick.
no regrets, still in love with my best friend wife.

 

[kelli_qcd]

the Wife went on a "girls weekend" camping trip this weekend. and she just got home a little while ago.. one of the first things she says is "I was a naughty girl this weekend"
seems she and one of the other gals she was with found a group of college guys at the next campsite over and well after a few drinks they ended up skinny dipping with them.. my wife fucked one guy in the lake and then back up to her tent and fucked him some more there...

and for those of you wondering... my wife HATES condoms


i LOVE my hot wife!

 

[jezzaz]

I think this is one of those religious wars thing where everyone that has a firm opinion feels the need to impose it on others. The more firm the conviction, the more they want to impose.

For me, I think it's all about how you define sex. For some it's an act of incredible intimacy that denotes the strength and depth of their relationship. For them, the act of sharing that is beyond acceptable. And that is absolutely fine - they get to define their own relationship in any terms the two of them are comfortable with.

For some, the distinction between sex and making love is blurred, for others it's more defined. In my experience - and this is purely anecdotal - those who have a more clear cut understanding - or perhaps belief might be a better word - of the difference tend to have a more relaxed attitude towards sharing, be it swinging, an open marriage or Polyarmory.

Personally, we've been down the swinging path. We survived it; we did it for a few years, it was fun, it got a bit same old same old, and both of us decided it was time to move on. And so we did.

Some of the couples we played with survived, some did not. Those who did survive it have sometimes morphed their behaviors now; they don't go to swing clubs, but each has their own adventures, which the other understands but doesn't ask about.

We couldn't do that. For us, we could do it in a swing club simply because there was so little emotion involved. I was there, she was there, we were both getting something out of it at the same time, and we both knew who we'd be leaving with at the end of the night. We made some great friends, but we were also discerning of those we played with - long term couples that understood each other well.

Now the concept of polyarmory I have more trouble with personally. I don't understand how the depth of an emotional attachment that is set up in Polyamory doesn't tug and strain on the primary one. But then I don't think I have the emotional set up to go along with that.

It doesn't mean Polyamory is bad; it means it's probably not going to work for me because of my emotional needs and self image. That doesn't make me bad or weak or emotionally immature either. It just means that I want different things.

I think the concept of defining your own rules and accepted practices in your marriage is essential, and way too many couples fail to do that, just going along with conventional societal mores and defining themselves with those.

I suspect a lot more people could handle sharing, if only they'd give themselves a break and trust their partner more in the first place.

 

[d_flowered]

My husband would like nothing more than watch me with another man. He knows of two of my affairs and frequently asks me to tell him again about them. He does get very excited hearing the details. But...I would never do it with another guy in front of him or even let him know I planned on having sex with another guy.

Dee

 

[HereKumsKatie]

The fantasy of my wife being with another man or men is my recurring fantasy of late. Anyone ever encourage it?

Sorry boys, but I'm offended with the title of this thread - "LET'S their wife...?" Really? "LET'S"? How does that conversation begin? "Pardon me dear, but I believe I'd like to screw around if it's allowed..."?

I "screwed around" before I met my husband on almost every man I ever dated because I wanted to screw lots of guys and none of the guys I had met were worthy of my fidelity and I never promised them my fidelity either so I don't feel it was cheating I think it was just me being me and I didn't expect anything from the guys (except kindness) and I feel it was all good because we didn't make any promises to each other if that makes sense.

My husband and me fuck around because we like to fuck around. We like fucking each other and we like fucking other people too. It doesn't change our relationship because we still fuck each other. We have always fucked around even when we were dating because I wasn't ready to stop fucking around and he knew it and I told him I didn't care who else he fucked and it just sort of stayed that way. But "let" me fuck around? HA! I couldn't stop him and he couldn't stop me.

 

[kelli_qcd]

the Wife is going out of town this weekend to see on of her lovers.. she even had me pay for a hotel room for them..

 

[suckonsimon]

the Wife went on a "girls weekend" camping trip this weekend. and she just got home a little while ago.. one of the first things she says is "I was a naughty girl this weekend"
seems she and one of the other gals she was with found a group of college guys at the next campsite over and well after a few drinks they ended up skinny dipping with them.. my wife fucked one guy in the lake and then back up to her tent and fucked him some more there...

and for those of you wondering... my wife HATES condoms


i LOVE my hot wife!

I bet you had a fucking hot time getting in there where that guy had been.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Females stop the debauchery once the right man comes along.

 

[kelli_qcd]

I bet you had a fucking hot time getting in there where that guy had been.

i LOVE fucking my wife after she has been with one of her lovers.. especially he BIG lovers.. she is always so stretched open it takes a few days before i can reach the back of her pussy again.. and she ALWAYS has me lick and suck their cum from her pussy or ass ... i just wish i could be there to lick her right after they are done fucking instead of waiting until she gets home...

 

[suckonsimon]

i LOVE fucking my wife after she has been with one of her lovers.. especially he BIG lovers.. she is always so stretched open it takes a few days before i can reach the back of her pussy again.. and she ALWAYS has me lick and suck their cum from her pussy or ass ... i just wish i could be there to lick her right after they are done fucking instead of waiting until she gets home...

Would she be open to that? You two and a 'guest'? If she wants just one guy at a time that could be arranged, while the other enjoys the show: you, then him?

 

[kelli_qcd]

Would she be open to that? You two and a 'guest'? If she wants just one guy at a time that could be arranged, while the other enjoys the show: you, then him?

she does NOT allow me to be present.. she makes me wait at home.. one night she did have me drop her off and wait for her.. have you ever sat in a Sherries for 5 hours waiting for your wife to call.. you just KNOW that EVERYONE knows that you are waiting for your wife to call from her lovers so you can pick her up.....

 

[jtx122]

i wish my wife would indulge me and fuck another guy for me or with me. she is really sweet and keeps on about how i'm more than enough for her, but i'd just love to see her getting nailed by someone else. anyone tell me how to persuade her?

Talk to her.
Talk about what you'd like. Try and work out if she has a moral problem, shes just nervous or she think you might have a jealously problem or whatever.

If you think it is more or less nerves then...

Organise a guy.
Have the guy come over and wait in another room. Give him some porn.

Have her drink a couple of drinks to loosen her up.

Start foreplay and get her really worked up, maybe start fucking her and then stop.If she is really worked up there a decent chance you';; be able to persuade her to fuck the other guy.
As we know a hard cock has no morals - but in my experience a lot of wet pussies can be light on morals too.

The major problem with this approach is possible guilt and recriminations for either or both of you.
And she might prefer him fucking her more permanently.

 

[kelli_qcd]

well She just left to go to the hotel and meet with her young lover, she had me lick her pussy for a while.. then told me that if i so much as let my penis drool in my panties while she was gone tonight that she would know and that i would be punished when she got home tomorrow.. however she told me also that i was to edge my self at least every two to three hours until she got home..

 

[kelli_qcd]

last night was soo fucking HOT...
the Wife and i went out with some friends for Her birthday celebration.. long story short we ended up back at one of our friends houses and eventually made our way to the hot-tub.. the Wife decided that skinny dipping was in order since it was after all Her birthday celebration.. eventually there are 5 people in this 4 person hot-tub and my Wife is straddling this guy She has had the hots for for a while now.. next thing i know they are kissing and She is nuzzling his neck.. She keeps looking at me to make sure i am watching.. then She really starts grinding and i see that "look" that She gets when something first enters Her pussy.. meanwhile everyone else in the tub is watching Her as She starts riding his cock until She has a small orgasm and starts to relax a little.. thats when everyone else tells me to get into the tub too... so i quickly shed my cloths making sure to stuff my pink panties in my back pocket so no one sees it if they go to get another drink, climbed in and listened to everyone telling me how sexy and hot my Wife was...

 

[NightL]

This thread does not belong in the How To...
should have been moved in 2003.

 

[kelli_qcd]

Friday my Wife went out with a couple of Her girlfriends and said She would be home "early"
so about 1:30 in the morning i tried texting Her and no response
then about 2 i called.. still no answer
so i tried a few more times then She answered
i heard sounds that i thought were a bit weird.. then Her giggling and a MANS voice. saying something like "thats nice" and some mail moaning ..i then recognized those sounds.. She was giving a blow-job!
this went on for about four or five minutes.. with me Hard and stroking myself through my panties.. then the line went dead.. i tried calling back a couple of times.. straight to voice mail...
about 20 minutes later i get a text saying She will be home soon but had to wait until the cops left the parking lot of the bar so She could drive out
when She finally got home She told me that HE really liked Her tits and that She fucked HIM in the front seat of Her rig...
Her pussy was sooo red and open.. and i could taste His cum mixed with Her cum as She had me kneel beside the bed and lick Her clean... then She allowed me to fuck Her pussy until i came... (it had been over a week since She last allowed me to cum, i get to fuck Her often but NOT cum because She says that i can only cum in Her pussy after another MAN has)

 

[SkylarFalling]

Sex can be about love, or it can just be about sex. There isn't anything wrong with sex just for the sake of it so long as everyone involved is aware of that. My relationship is worth far too much to me to be invalidated by a fuck (or fucks ) that were just for sex as fun. And I haven't gotten to screwing with other men yet, although I'm confident he'd be ok with it, we've just got other stuff to try out at the minute, but I've no doubt that after fucking someone for fun it must be even more delicious to go home with him and fuck knowing its about fun, yeah, AND a load of other stuff that will keep me happy for the rest of my life.

I say he would be ok with it because we both came out as bi during the course of our relationship and we have an agreement between us that having never been out as bisexual while either of us were single, it's ok to experiment with others as long as it is safe and we keep each other totally in the loop with what is going on.

IT'S MAGICAL.

 

[kelli_qcd]

agreed.. as long as it is sex for sex sake it is an AWESOME addition to a SOLID relationship

 

[kelli_qcd]

Oh!
yes
just got a call from my Wife

and she was FUCKING her newest lover.. it was hard to hear but i could hear her moaning.. and telling him not to stop...
and the definite sounds of a MAN fucking hard.. skin slapping...etc
it was sooo hot!

 

[r1rusty]

Well look no further for such a husban...lm here

any pics of your wife..if u dont mind..or, whats her profile or body type..?

 

[kelli_qcd]

after a night with HER lover this is how Her pussy looked

 

[zach20092]

Looks yummy!! Did u eat her out?

 

[kelli_qcd]

Looks yummy!! Did u eat her out?

of Course!....