DenverFunguy
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I am Dom in that I am a take charge type. However, it is not my way and to hell with everyone else.. In BDSM if done right, the sub has every bit as much a roll in how things play out as the Dom. Even more so most of the time. The Dom can only be truly Dom with a sub after not only the communication has totally extended to reading each other’s motions and actions but building trust and knowing the sub almost better than they know themselves. I am not saying you can't have good sex with someone new. It can be amazing but it cannot be really good BDSM from the very beginning without a lot of learning happening first. When two people click it can be fantastic. And when you learn more and more about each other it will only get better!
Best wishes always.
Mike
I am Dom in that I am a take charge type. However, it is not my way and to hell with everyone else.. In BDSM if done right, the sub has every bit as much a roll in how things play out as the Dom. Even more so most of the time. The Dom can only be truly Dom with a sub after not only the communication has totally extended to reading each other’s motions and actions but building trust and knowing the sub almost better than they know themselves. I am not saying you can't have good sex with someone new. It can be amazing but it cannot be really good BDSM from the very beginning without a lot of learning happening first. When two people click it can be fantastic. And when you learn more and more about each other it will only get better!
Best wishes always.
Mike
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Nice to meet you all.
