MissJW
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I'm not sure if this would be better suited for BDSM Talk, but since there's lots of threads about bringing a 3rd person to your relationship (even for one night only) on Fetish & Sexuality, I thought I'd give it a go here. And at the same time I apologise if there's a similar thread going on somewhere, that I've missed.
During our relationship, me and my submissive husband have established great love and trust between us, and we're more than very happy with the D/s side of it. We have regular playtimes and I am constantly looking for new stuff to introduce to my boy beauty.
For months and months now I've been madly interested in bringing another guy into our bedroom. And first things first; he won't be for me. I'm not in the least bit interested in even touching other men (other than my hubby that is), but what I do want and what gets me going, is the thought of handing my hubby over to please the newcomer.
I haven't figured out too many details yet, but the plan/scene is roughly the following: the newbie comes and I will present my husband as the pretty little sissy he is, consenting to offer his asshole, throat, hands and, well, everything if that's what the newbie wants. My signature gives out the main points what we enjoy, and by those standards my dream is to get him fucked and humiliated from head to toe.
All this would be supervised by me, and my main concern is of course the safety and well-being of my hubby. I know he would enjoy this immensely, and he trusts me completely - and I have every intention to keep it this way. We do have safe words, and I'm NOT gonna pick out a random stranger to pound the love of my life (if we even go through with this at all) and of course everything will be planned carefully, with each participant. Or well except maybe my hubby will be left out a bit, cos too much background would sort of spoil the idea, but everything crucial will be out in the open.
What I want to know is that is there anyone who've done this before? Preferably in as similar setting as possible? Where did you find the 3rd person? How did you get to know him, how did you make sure he was clean and healthy, what happened afterwards to each involved? How did your night go in general, and have you done it again? If not, why?
This and million other things circle in my mind. Only things certain at this point are that I get wet even thinking about it, and I know for a fact that hubby would be thrilled to be used like this. The more I think about it, the more questions I come up with. And to find a trustworthy guy, submissive enough to work (and if needed, stop!!!) totally under my command but at the same time dominant enough to have his way with my husband... oh dear.
Oh and this is not something I plan to do regularly.. think of it more as a birthday present for him next year
But, if anyone has any viewpoints, ideas or experiences, please share. Thank you!
Edit ---------------------
I got a private message concerning this, and think I need to point out that my hubby is very ok to be used by another man. He prefers them sexually anyway, whereas women stimulate his romantic side - to put it roughly. As probably for most of us, his sexuality is a complex matter and I'm very careful when toying with it.
I wouldn't even plan this, if the basis of it all would be on uncertain grounds.
During our relationship, me and my submissive husband have established great love and trust between us, and we're more than very happy with the D/s side of it. We have regular playtimes and I am constantly looking for new stuff to introduce to my boy beauty.
For months and months now I've been madly interested in bringing another guy into our bedroom. And first things first; he won't be for me. I'm not in the least bit interested in even touching other men (other than my hubby that is), but what I do want and what gets me going, is the thought of handing my hubby over to please the newcomer.
I haven't figured out too many details yet, but the plan/scene is roughly the following: the newbie comes and I will present my husband as the pretty little sissy he is, consenting to offer his asshole, throat, hands and, well, everything if that's what the newbie wants. My signature gives out the main points what we enjoy, and by those standards my dream is to get him fucked and humiliated from head to toe.
All this would be supervised by me, and my main concern is of course the safety and well-being of my hubby. I know he would enjoy this immensely, and he trusts me completely - and I have every intention to keep it this way. We do have safe words, and I'm NOT gonna pick out a random stranger to pound the love of my life (if we even go through with this at all) and of course everything will be planned carefully, with each participant. Or well except maybe my hubby will be left out a bit, cos too much background would sort of spoil the idea, but everything crucial will be out in the open.
What I want to know is that is there anyone who've done this before? Preferably in as similar setting as possible? Where did you find the 3rd person? How did you get to know him, how did you make sure he was clean and healthy, what happened afterwards to each involved? How did your night go in general, and have you done it again? If not, why?
This and million other things circle in my mind. Only things certain at this point are that I get wet even thinking about it, and I know for a fact that hubby would be thrilled to be used like this. The more I think about it, the more questions I come up with. And to find a trustworthy guy, submissive enough to work (and if needed, stop!!!) totally under my command but at the same time dominant enough to have his way with my husband... oh dear.
Oh and this is not something I plan to do regularly.. think of it more as a birthday present for him next year
But, if anyone has any viewpoints, ideas or experiences, please share. Thank you!
Edit ---------------------
I got a private message concerning this, and think I need to point out that my hubby is very ok to be used by another man. He prefers them sexually anyway, whereas women stimulate his romantic side - to put it roughly. As probably for most of us, his sexuality is a complex matter and I'm very careful when toying with it.
I wouldn't even plan this, if the basis of it all would be on uncertain grounds.
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