Being an Obedient husband in a FLM

[NancyPan]

I am lucky to be in a Female Led Marriage. My wife is in charge of our home, our sex life, and, of course, my orgasms. In my “vanilla” life I am assertive, a leader, and well respected in my career. But at home my joy comes from pleasing her.

Recently I disobeyed and confessed my misbehavior to her. I was, appropriately, punished, and ultimately forgiven. It is rare for me to disobey her as I strive to please her. I have learned so much about deferring my own wants, listening to her, anticipating what she likes, and the skills of housework.

It is not easy to be an obedient husband. The hardest things for me are to do chores immediately and enthusiastically when I might be tired or engaged in something else, but I have learned that it is my role to serve her. It also has been important for me to learn to listen to her without comment unless she specifically asks for my opinion. This is her house. I am here to serve her. And last, it has been a huge lesson in humility to accept that she has no interest in my penis other than to use it to reward me. Since I am strictly forbidden from masturbation without her permission and supervision, I work hard to earn my spurts, but they are nowhere near as important to me as the amazing privilege of worshipping her.

I do my best to be an obedient husband. Happy to hear from others in FLRs.

 

[HottieOlwen]

I am lucky to be in a Female Led Marriage. My wife is in charge of our home, our sex life, and, of course, my orgasms. In my “vanilla” life I am assertive, a leader, and well respected in my career. But at home my joy comes from pleasing her.

Recently I disobeyed and confessed my misbehavior to her. I was, appropriately, punished, and ultimately forgiven. It is rare for me to disobey her as I strive to please her. I have learned so much about deferring my own wants, listening to her, anticipating what she likes, and the skills of housework.

It is not easy to be an obedient husband. The hardest things for me are to do chores immediately and enthusiastically when I might be tired or engaged in something else, but I have learned that it is my role to serve her. It also has been important for me to learn to listen to her without comment unless she specifically asks for my opinion. This is her house. I am here to serve her. And last, it has been a huge lesson in humility to accept that she has no interest in my penis other than to use it to reward me. Since I am strictly forbidden from masturbation without her permission and supervision, I work hard to earn my spurts, but they are nowhere near as important to me as the amazing privilege of worshipping her.

I do my best to be an obedient husband. Happy to hear from others in FLRs.

Given that we've communicated previously, you'll probably know what I'm about to say. I'm a Hot Wife of long standing, with a very obedient cuckold, in a FLM. Richard loves the tease and denial that is part and parcel of this lifestyle. Everything we do is consensual. I get the best of both worlds: a loving, obedient husband (albeit with a pathetically small cock and suffering from p.e.) and incredible sex with real men with lovely big cocks! At present I am being seen to by a young, 30 year old sex mad youth, who has a thing for the 'olderwoman' and a 70 year old 'Daddy figure', who has to use Viagra to keep it up, but who has the most incredibly thick, knobbly cock***** is good for my cuckold and me!

 

[NancyPan]

Given that we've communicated previously, you'll probably know what I'm about to say. I'm a Hot Wife of long standing, with a very obedient cuckold, in a FLM. Richard loves the tease and denial that is part and parcel of this lifestyle. Everything we do is consensual. I get the best of both worlds: a loving, obedient husband (albeit with a pathetically small cock and suffering from p.e.) and incredible sex with real men with lovely big cocks! At present I am being seen to by a young, 30 year old sex mad youth, who has a thing for the 'olderwoman' and a 70 year old 'Daddy figure', who has to use Viagra to keep it up, but who has the most incredibly thick, knobbly cock***** is good for my cuckold and me!

Your marriage is an example that obedience is something that submission men like your husband and me long to give Dominant Women like you. We enjoy the experience of obeying, of being controlled, of being reminded of our inadequacies. I am sure he is most happy that you have found ample substitutes for what he can not provide.

 

[And4778]

Extremely interesting hearing from both sides of your similar relationships. May I continue to observe and may I ask questions when I have them as I'm sure I will. Thank you both, Andy

 

[pleasedoit4me]

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