ataxia.girl
D/s anarchist
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2008
- Posts
- 1,231
I've always thought that a lot of the arguments and lines drawn in the sand stem from the fact that we're all approaching this thing called BDSM from wildly different circumstances.
As you mentioned, behavior that can be enjoyed and sustained a few nights a month may not be enjoyed and sustained 24/7. The same behavior might also signal a total breakdown in communication in an online only or long distance relationship where physical contact and face time is so limited.
Definitely. Its really easy for me to paint this all or nothing picture of Daddy and i because we really are able to have that. If we shared children and a mortgage and normal life responsibilities it would be much different. i could see doing a 24/7 thing with Daddy but circumstances would have to be such that it really was just he and i with me performing more the role of house slave without any of those pesky life responsibilities like taxes and jobs and kids. i think it would be workable for us but circumstances do not permit it and i'm okay with that. i have a very full and varied life, the best of both worlds in some ways i think.