I would agree with this, once the initial connection is made, it can take a while to figure out what makes the other person tick, and what offends.. i suppose the reactions to questions , and the manner in which questions are put develops overtime, if at all.
Whether or not there is an agenda behind the conversation can also have a bearing. Like, what are you hoping to get out of it once a connection has been established? is the mutual, or not?
I definitely think, particularly from the recipients perspective, that the timing of a newly received PM from a new source can determine whether or not a reply will be sent.
Someone casually browsing with no intent, or just checking on threads they follow, may balk at the new PM and ignore, or just give a cursory response, and then forget about it. It's also possible the a PM arriving at the right time for the same person may illicit a completely different response. Such as, is that person horny when said PM arrives, are they just there to check on thread they follow, are they in a good/bad mood or place, or are just simple not interested in you, or did you just happen to catch them at the wrong time.
Whether or not there is an agenda behind the conversation can also have a bearing. Like, what are you hoping to get out of it once a connection has been established? is the mutual, or not?
I definitely think, particularly from the recipients perspective, that the timing of a newly received PM from a new source can determine whether or not a reply will be sent.
Someone casually browsing with no intent, or just checking on threads they follow, may balk at the new PM and ignore, or just give a cursory response, and then forget about it. It's also possible the a PM arriving at the right time for the same person may illicit a completely different response. Such as, is that person horny when said PM arrives, are they just there to check on thread they follow, are they in a good/bad mood or place, or are just simple not interested in you, or did you just happen to catch them at the wrong time.