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Deepest Darkest Secret your spouse/partner doesn't know!!!

There are several. I'm sure she has no idea.
-Me being on this site
-I'm bi curious
-I had a 5 month affair with one of her friends
-I have a huge panty fetish. I've jacked off with panties from friends and relatives of hers.
 
KrystS67 said:
My husband doesn't know I have this account and surf this site. I discovered this site about 4 years ago.
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Exactly. Always jump out my chest when I hear footsteps. A 4 yr old secret. Is he very conservative? This is like text porn, he shouldn't be too bothered by it.

Anyway, I'm currently single and so I'm more worried about my mom finding out that I'm not a virgin.
 
Don't bother getting involved with anyone, that way there's no secrets. Always remember: people are boring and relationships are not worth the effort.
 
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I want to try to say something that I feel many times when I read posts on Lit BBs.

Each of us (or most of us) has several selves. There is our romantic self, our sexual self, our moral self, our parental self, and others. Yes, it would be great to be fully integrated into one self that would be perfectly consistent and open and honest with everyone in the world. But few people have that, I think.

Life happens serially. We meet someone in one context. We may be attracted to them in that context because of their morality, their physical self, their sexuality, their romantic self, their responsibility. And we may fall in love with them in that context. It is a risk to, after having fallen deeply in love with someone in one context to fully expose your whole self to that person. And that is how a cross-dresser may find himself in a deep relationship with a person who knows nothing about that aspect of that person. It is a bit of a trap. But once one has 99% of a perfect relationship, one may not wish to risk that 99% to expose the last 1% to achieve perfect openness and honesty.

I think that accounts for the "deep dark secrets" that many, if not most, of us have.

Life is imperfect. Happiness can involve compromise. Half a loaf is better than starvation.

All of the above is my opinion. And I will take this opportunity to say that the Lit BB community is a pretty decent bunch of folks. Thank you, everyone.
 
StrongMaster7 said:
I want to try to say something that I feel many times when I read posts on Lit BBs.

Each of us (or most of us) has several selves. There is our romantic self, our sexual self, our moral self, our parental self, and others. Yes, it would be great to be fully integrated into one self that would be perfectly consistent and open and honest with everyone in the world. But few people have that, I think.

Life happens serially. We meet someone in one context. We may be attracted to them in that context because of their morality, their physical self, their sexuality, their romantic self, their responsibility. And we may fall in love with them in that context. It is a risk to, after having fallen deeply in love with someone in one context to fully expose your whole self to that person. And that is how a cross-dresser may find himself in a deep relationship with a person who knows nothing about that aspect of that person. It is a bit of a trap. But once one has 99% of a perfect relationship, one may not wish to risk that 99% to expose the last 1% to achieve perfect openness and honesty.
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thank you for putting this so eloquently. this is how I feel.
my o/h is very 'integrated' or is at least very controlled. I'm not. I wish I was but I'm not.
 
wow

Very well written StrongMaster

StrongMaster7 said:
I want to try to say something that I feel many times when I read posts on Lit BBs.

Each of us (or most of us) has several selves. There is our romantic self, our sexual self, our moral self, our parental self, and others. Yes, it would be great to be fully integrated into one self that would be perfectly consistent and open and honest with everyone in the world. But few people have that, I think.

Life happens serially. We meet someone in one context. We may be attracted to them in that context because of their morality, their physical self, their sexuality, their romantic self, their responsibility. And we may fall in love with them in that context. It is a risk to, after having fallen deeply in love with someone in one context to fully expose your whole self to that person. And that is how a cross-dresser may find himself in a deep relationship with a person who knows nothing about that aspect of that person. It is a bit of a trap. But once one has 99% of a perfect relationship, one may not wish to risk that 99% to expose the last 1% to achieve perfect openness and honesty.

I think that accounts for the "deep dark secrets" that many, if not most, of us have.

Life is imperfect. Happiness can involve compromise. Half a loaf is better than starvation.

All of the above is my opinion. And I will take this opportunity to say that the Lit BB community is a pretty decent bunch of folks. Thank you, everyone.
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StrongMaster7 said:
I want to try to say something that I feel many times when I read posts on Lit BBs.

Each of us (or most of us) has several selves. There is our romantic self, our sexual self, our moral self, our parental self, and others. Yes, it would be great to be fully integrated into one self that would be perfectly consistent and open and honest with everyone in the world. But few people have that, I think.

Life happens serially. We meet someone in one context. We may be attracted to them in that context because of their morality, their physical self, their sexuality, their romantic self, their responsibility. And we may fall in love with them in that context. It is a risk to, after having fallen deeply in love with someone in one context to fully expose your whole self to that person. And that is how a cross-dresser may find himself in a deep relationship with a person who knows nothing about that aspect of that person. It is a bit of a trap. But once one has 99% of a perfect relationship, one may not wish to risk that 99% to expose the last 1% to achieve perfect openness and honesty.

I think that accounts for the "deep dark secrets" that many, if not most, of us have.

Life is imperfect. Happiness can involve compromise. Half a loaf is better than starvation.

All of the above is my opinion. And I will take this opportunity to say that the Lit BB community is a pretty decent bunch of folks. Thank you, everyone.
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Well said. I'm sure everyone on here has done many things that they are ashamed of. Deep down, I know I'm a good person, but some things are just to tempting.
 
1. That I love wearing my wife's panties and jerking off in/with/on them.
2. That I am very curious about sucking a hard cock, especially with the guidance of another women.
3. That I had an affair with a work friend and after I would cum in her mouth she would kiss me before she swallowed and I loved every second of it.
4. That I have toys
5. That I pm with a few people on lit and have shared aome very private pics with them.
 
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