Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Gabe619]

I found masturbating and sucking other men a lot of fun, having been married for over 45 years. It's good to find people who just want sex and appreciate sex. Now I'm always on the look out for a nice guy with a nice cock

I find the same thing. A lot of older guys turn up at the cruising spot I go to. When I say older I mean over 50, oldest was mid 60's I think. But they love someone is willing to suck them off

 

[Gabe619]

Yes she is

No wonder you need guys to help you release that tension.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Would love a helping hand

 

[Gabe619]

Would love a helping hand

Or mouth, lol

 

[MrMannson]

I’ve been wondering about it myself. I was very heterosexual until a few years ago. I felt ashamed and confused. I found online porn and this site and realized maybe this is more common than I thought at my age, close to 50? I even quickly went on Sniffles and saw another male nearby in his 40’s looking for something to experiment with, but my wife interrupted me as I was creating my profile and I haven’t been back. Years ago we would make fun of “bi” guys and laugh and joke. Now it’s a real thing. I would love to discreetly talk to anyone else going through the same. He’ll, I’m even aroused at an older bisexual guy my age!

 

[ThatIrishGirl]

Interesting. In my experience having chatted with lots of me about sexuality online, many have always has the urge but with age comes confidence. The self belief to admit it and sometimes even try bi play

 

[Gabe619]

I’ve been wondering about it myself. I was very heterosexual until a few years ago. I felt ashamed and confused. I found online porn and this site and realized maybe this is more common than I thought at my age, close to 50? I even quickly went on Sniffles and saw another male nearby in his 40’s looking for something to experiment with, but my wife interrupted me as I was creating my profile and I haven’t been back. Years ago we would make fun of “bi” guys and laugh and joke. Now it’s a real thing. I would love to discreetly talk to anyone else going through the same. He’ll, I’m even aroused at an older bisexual guy my age!

I honestly do think it is something men gravitate to as they get older, or at least men of a certain generation. The younger guys these days seem way more into it than when I was at school. 50 does seem the magic age, it was about then that I got into it too.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I got into it in my 50s.. Wife lost her sex drive and so many hot cocks on Lit willing to share

 

[SecretiveHubby1]

I find playing and sucking another man's cock incredibly arousing

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I find playing and sucking another man's cock incredibly arousing

I find naughty husbands secretly craving cock to be very hot!

 

[Gabe619]

I find naughty husbands secretly craving cock to be very hot!

Lot of us around, lol

 

[Britva415]

I’ve been wondering about it myself. I was very heterosexual until a few years ago. I felt ashamed and confused. I found online porn and this site and realized maybe this is more common than I thought at my age, close to 50? I even quickly went on Sniffles and saw another male nearby in his 40’s looking for something to experiment with, but my wife interrupted me as I was creating my profile and I haven’t been back. Years ago we would make fun of “bi” guys and laugh and joke. Now it’s a real thing. I would love to discreetly talk to anyone else going through the same. He’ll, I’m even aroused at an older bisexual guy my age!

Sniffies is totally awesome

 

[PersonalFavors]

Female cruising 'does' exist, but it usually requires a cash transaction, and it's highly illegal. Just saying.

Female cruising does exist. But to gain the trust you need for her to proceed she most of the times would prefer you are single. Proving that was simplest by bringing her home. That was my first strain on casual events. Next after 50 or so I feel like most women and men know where and how their retirement is funded. As result are much less willing to take the risk. These things greatly narrowed down the opportunity of anything good happening.
My last and most recent encounter was several years ago. Very attractive Korean lady. I thought we were just friends and kind of flirty. Once she trusted me she confided that she had never experienced a white man. Divorced for years she said if it wasn't too big, she would like to feel filled up again.
No cash needed. Personality and fun was all that was required.

 

[captainhedy]

By the way, anyone in the Thames Valley looking for fun, masturbation and a nice suck then do hit me up xxx

 

[Gabe619]

By the way, anyone in the Thames Valley looking for fun, masturbation and a nice suck then do hit me up xxx

On the river Medway here, but can't travel or I would take you up on that.

 

[captainhedy]

Sure, but thanks for the reply xxx

 

[Uncut1969]

we stop caring what others think

No doubt about it!

 

[MrMannson]

Aaaand that’s what I a trying to understand. How did I go from discounting my millennial daughters explanations for love and sex between two people of the same sex when it’s something I’m suddenly realizing? I’m married to an amazing woman for almost 30 years, we have great sex, there’s just that curiosity I can’t shake. And it wasn’t there before at all, why now in my mid 40’s?

Even typing this, I received a picture from an awesome user whose in a similar situation as me and now I’m hard and wondering what’s next?

 

[wetsawdust]

Only able to speak for myself.....50 was when I finally quit giving a fuck and decided to crack the code to my brain and shake out some deep seated unhappiness. My marriage was fragile, I was an emotionally unavailable yet devoted hubby and dad. I was unhappy all the time, partially because I knew there was something in me keeping me from being who I knew was in there somewhere. I didn't know what that was......until I did. Turns out, a lot of us have been this way all along, just didn't know it.
Now, as a single queer guy, I'm able to live and breathe, I'm able to let my ex find the joy I couldn't give her, and my friends and family get to know the real me. And if they have a problem with that.....fuck em.

Bottom line, the only word of caution I'd give is.....if you're going to do a deep dive and explore and get to know that side of you, it's empowering and incredible exciting. But be prepared....you might find a lot more than you were looking for.

 

[Justynewhitney]

Only able to speak for myself.....50 was when I finally quit giving a fuck and decided to crack the code to my brain and shake out some deep seated unhappiness. My marriage was fragile, I was an emotionally unavailable yet devoted hubby and dad. I was unhappy all the time, partially because I knew there was something in me keeping me from being who I knew was in there somewhere. I didn't know what that was......until I did. Turns out, a lot of us have been this way all along, just didn't know it.
Now, as a single queer guy, I'm able to live and breathe, I'm able to let my ex find the joy I couldn't give her, and my friends and family get to know the real me. And if they have a problem with that.....fuck em.

Bottom line, the only word of caution I'd give is.....if you're going to do a deep dive and explore and get to know that side of you, it's empowering and incredible exciting. But be prepared....you might find a lot more than you were looking for.

Interested in hearing what But be prepared....you might find a lot more than you were looking for means for you.

 

[dingdongditchding]

who is 100% straight, 2) lonliness, need for human contact 3) HARD COCKS are SEXY. 4) cum

 

[dingdongditchding]

Only able to speak for myself.....50 was when I finally quit giving a fuck and decided to crack the code to my brain and shake out some deep seated unhappiness. My marriage was fragile, I was an emotionally unavailable yet devoted hubby and dad. I was unhappy all the time, partially because I knew there was something in me keeping me from being who I knew was in there somewhere. I didn't know what that was......until I did. Turns out, a lot of us have been this way all along, just didn't know it.
Now, as a single queer guy, I'm able to live and breathe, I'm able to let my ex find the joy I couldn't give her, and my friends and family get to know the real me. And if they have a problem with that.....fuck em.

Bottom line, the only word of caution I'd give is.....if you're going to do a deep dive and explore and get to know that side of you, it's empowering and incredible exciting. But be prepared....you might find a lot more than you were looking for.

cool man, sounds like you are on top of it. I am becoming more comfortable in my skin. Most folks around here already think I am a freak or an oddball. I spend way to much time alone. like I said I am becoming more comfortable with my kinks and fetishes but I am not gonna yell them from the rooftop.

 

[jbird4]

I’d try that but wife tracks my phone. A hotel meetup at one I’m supposed to be at for work would be the only way to scratch that itch.

Business travel and a sniffies app. If you’re in the right town, it’s not that hard to find someone normal. There are lots of scammers, avoid any anonymous accounts.

 

[BurtSaxby]

So in my case, even though I didn't read every page in this thread, I've also started thinking about MM experiences - I'm in my early 60's. Sex with the wife was never as good as I've had - she's more of a taker than a giver. I look at a lot of male porn, read the Gay stories on here, and jack off a lot. My problem is that after I've cum, I loose interest - until the next time the wheels start turning. I've not taken advantage of a couple of times I could have met with guys who were into mutual cock sucking. I'm afraid that after I cum, I'd just want to get the hell out of there. Also, since I don't have any other friends, I'd have to sneak around. Can't say I'm going to Joe's to watch the game..... Getting caught would end up in a divorce, which is something I don't need at this point in life. Anyone else feel this way - and if so, did you ever act on it?

 

[submissivemale49]

For me I think I was always bi curious but finally acted on it when I was older.