Why do older men become bi-curious?

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I believe that ALL men are bicurious. Admit it guys, you love the way your cock feels in your hand and you wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in your hand. All guys love a BJ. That is a fact. I can attest, men give way better BJ's than women, just like women eat pussy better. We.just know what it takes I guess.

I agree with your statements that "ALL men are bicurious", "love the way our cocks feel in our hands", and therefore "wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in our hand", and "All guys love a BJ".

I think that there are a couple reasons why men become  more bicurious:
1) Sex drive usually remains higher for men than women as we age
2) Opportunities of having sex with our wives, and/or other women generally diminishes and in many cases stops completely
3) In general, more men are actively looking for sex and are impatient
4) More men are available for casual sex without having a relationship
5) The desire to satisfy our sex drive leads men to seek other opportunities
6) Most men are willing to accept greater risk to satisfy our sex drive
7) Knowledge of all of the above makes men become more bicurious and more willing to act on that

"Men give way better BJs than women". I have first-hand (or is that first-cock) experience with that.

 

[OralAllOver]

I was fearful and out of touch with my emotions for many years

One step at a time (in pumps!)

 

[Jeph77]

All this curious is making me curious.

 

[Dreamer110]

I'm 41 and I have a buddy who is 58 and another who is 62. Some of us prefer the company of an older man

Have room for a third?

 

[TryGuy35]

Am 72 closet bi and occasionally I hook up with a 26 and a 56 yr old guys.

Wow major difference there in age…what are the differences you noticed between the two?

 

[Bi4Older84]

Have room for a third?

I don't have the prerequisite amount of holes to accommodate, but I'd be ok if you took turns!

 

[Dreamer110]

I don't have the prerequisite amount of holes to accommodate, but I'd be ok if you took turns!

I'll gladly just visit you alone.

 

[Rodd121]

I agree with your statements that "ALL men are bicurious", "love the way our cocks feel in our hands", and therefore "wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in our hand", and "All guys love a BJ".

I think that there are a couple reasons why men become  more bicurious:
1) Sex drive usually remains higher for men than women as we age
2) Opportunities of having sex with our wives, and/or other women generally diminishes and in many cases stops completely
3) In general, more men are actively looking for sex and are impatient
4) More men are available for casual sex without having a relationship
5) The desire to satisfy our sex drive leads men to seek other opportunities
6) Most men are willing to accept greater risk to satisfy our sex drive
7) Knowledge of all of the above makes men become more bicurious and more willing to act on that

"Men give way better BJs than women". I have first-hand (or is that first-cock) experience with

Totally agree with all your points made.

In addition, I find Men are so much easier and relatable to a Man’s needs. Think “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.”

Following my divorce, forcing myself back onto the dating scene I found dating women to be such an effort and in some cases financially draining, then having to go home with blue balls.

Rekindling my experimentation and curiosity of M2M from my younger years, it was certainly a lot easier to walk into a gay bar, a bit of eye contact made and flirty chat, arrangements for a mutually satisfying session are made, and had. Both having the understanding of what we’re there for.

A bonus also being, if your male mate is of a similar build to yourself you don’t have to show up to work wearing yesterday’s clothes. ;-)

 

[TrailerHitch]

It's easier, less stressful, and unlikely that your partner will out you, especially if they are married too.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I agree with your statements that "ALL men are bicurious", "love the way our cocks feel in our hands", and therefore "wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in our hand", and "All guys love a BJ".

I think that there are a couple reasons why men become  more bicurious:
1) Sex drive usually remains higher for men than women as we age
2) Opportunities of having sex with our wives, and/or other women generally diminishes and in many cases stops completely
3) In general, more men are actively looking for sex and are impatient
4) More men are available for casual sex without having a relationship
5) The desire to satisfy our sex drive leads men to seek other opportunities
6) Most men are willing to accept greater risk to satisfy our sex drive
7) Knowledge of all of the above makes men become more bicurious and more willing to act on that

"Men give way better BJs than women". I have first-hand (or is that first-cock) experience with that.

Oh, I forgot one more thing - remember - we older men (retired) many times have Limited Income :
8) Sex with women costs money. Sex with Men is mostly Free.

 

[Elliott62]

I believe that ALL men are bicurious. Admit it guys, you love the way your cock feels in your hand and you wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in your hand. All guys love a BJ. That is a fact. I can attest, men give way better BJ's than women, just like women eat pussy better. We.just know what it takes I guess.

I've been married to my BBW wife for 19 years..love her to death..but I readily admit it. I wonder what it would be like to stroke another man's cock while he strokes mine..to 69 with him.. pictures of frotting get me so damn hard because it looks like it feels incredible and finally to feel a warm,hard cock in my ass
What you say about BJs and eating pussy has always made perfect sense to me. Alas, at 62..I figure I will always be just -curious...as I've never experienced the joys of I've mentioned or being with another man and most likely never will. Not even among our gay friends.

 

[Donniemti24]

I've been married to my BBW wife for 19 years..love her to death..but I readily admit it. I wonder what it would be like to stroke another man's cock while he strokes mine..to 69 with him.. pictures of frotting get me so damn hard because it looks like it feels incredible and finally to feel a warm,hard cock in my ass
What you say about BJs and eating pussy has always made perfect sense to me. Alas, at 62..I figure I will always be just -curious...as I've never experienced the joys of I've mentioned or being with another man and most likely never will. Not even among our gay friends.

Life is short my friend let yourself go and try it. I did many years ago and don’t regret it at all. The most powerful orgasms I’ve had have been with another guy.

 

[saintcero]

I've been married to my BBW wife for 19 years..love her to death..but I readily admit it. I wonder what it would be like to stroke another man's cock while he strokes mine..to 69 with him.. pictures of frotting get me so damn hard because it looks like it feels incredible and finally to feel a warm,hard cock in my ass
What you say about BJs and eating pussy has always made perfect sense to me. Alas, at 62..I figure I will always be just -curious...as I've never experienced the joys of I've mentioned or being with another man and most likely never will. Not even among our gay friends.

I was 68 when I had my first M2M. If you have gay friends then all you have to do is tell one of them that you are curious and wondered if they knew of a safe gay man that could show you the ropes

 

[Elliott62]

Life is short my friend let yourself go and try it. I did many years ago and don’t regret it at all. The most powerful orgasms I’ve had have been with another guy.

I want to..I know life is short ..geesuz. Just this year I started doing some crossdressing while the Mrs is out of town.. borrowing her sexy lingerie to sleep in... wearing her panties to work...the biggest hurdle is who and how..I want to be comfortable and safe ,with someone who would be understanding..I discussed at length with two of my dearest gay friends...and they don't want to cross that line...which I understand.
.I just don't know how to go about it..

 

[Elliott62]

I was 68 when I had my first M2M. If you have gay friends then all you have to do is tell one of them that you are curious and wondered if they knew of a safe gay man that could show you the ropes

I tried that route. I asked 2 different guys that I have known for 30+ and 40+ years..I asked them that same question ..They basically discouraged me...but that's ok.. seriously..I trust these guys with my life.

 

[Elliott62]

I'm 41 and I have a buddy who is 58 and another who is 62. Some of us prefer the company of an older man

I'm also 62..guess that leaves me out...why repeat

 

[Elliott62]

Oh, I forgot one more thing - remember - we older men (retired) many times have Limited Income :
8) Sex with women costs money. Sex with Men is mostly Free.

 

[Elliott62]

Am 72 closet bi and occasionally I hook up with a 26 and a 56 yr old guys.

62 here..10 years older than me..I like you already.
It's relieving/comforting to know that men my age and older than I are going through the same thing late in life .

 

[saintcero]

I tried that route. I asked 2 different guys that I have known for 30+ and 40+ years..I asked them that same question ..They basically discouraged me...but that's ok.. seriously..I trust these guys with my life.

Have you joined SilverDaddies

 

[Jarrbo]

It seems that most of the interesting guys in this group aren't youngsters. I'm one of those curious older guys, too.

 

[Dreamer110]

It seems that most of the interesting guys in this group aren't youngsters. I'm one of those curious older guys, too.

As am I.

 

[Mrman69]

I agree with your statements that "ALL men are bicurious", "love the way our cocks feel in our hands", and therefore "wonder what someone else's cock would feel like in our hand", and "All guys love a BJ".

I think that there are a couple reasons why men become  more bicurious:
1) Sex drive usually remains higher for men than women as we age
2) Opportunities of having sex with our wives, and/or other women generally diminishes and in many cases stops completely
3) In general, more men are actively looking for sex and are impatient
4) More men are available for casual sex without having a relationship
5) The desire to satisfy our sex drive leads men to seek other opportunities
6) Most men are willing to accept greater risk to satisfy our sex drive
7) Knowledge of all of the above makes men become more bicurious and more willing to act on that

"Men give way better BJs than women". I have first-hand (or is that first-cock) experience with that.

I hear that men ate better a lot

 

[Darty20]

It seems that most of the interesting guys in this group aren't youngsters. I'm one of those curious older guys, too.

Me too

 

[Elliott62]

Have you joined SilverDaddies

Never heard of it...even though I've had gay friends my whole adult life..I know about Grindr... I've stayed in my lane..til now..so I'm sort of a newbie.

 

[JiminNC]

Never heard of it...even though I've had gay friends my whole adult life..I know about Grindr... I've stayed in my lane..til now..so I'm sort of a newbie.

It’s a way to meet like-minded older men. Www.silverdaddies.com