Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Cardinal]

Last night was my first time having a cock in my mouth in 45 years and it’s just as I remembered, fucking awesome.
I also learned that I’m a total bottom, he used me all over the hotel room and I still asked for more.
Unbelievable, so glad the stars aligned and gave me that chance.
The posts are right, no drama, just two guys getting what they want.

 

[Cardinal]

My wife is still very interested in sex, but, alas, the medications she takes ruin her ability to orgasm. So no sex for us. I love her, and don't want to have an affair with a woman. Two dudes helping each other out works fine for me. I know it's rationalizing, but, since there's no emotional attachment, I'm okay with the occasional man on man action.

Exactly

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Well put. Very valid points
Our wives shut the door on sex slowly. We are still in need
A girlfriend? That’s just dangerous. Women get attached
Feeling emerge.. another married guy? It’s a win win
He wants just what you want. It’s quick and easy.. and very satisfying.
A deep dark secret but there you have itVery well said.

Very well said.
I don't want an emotional attachment with a guy. I just want sex with discretion.
And for married guys who want to stay married, the experiences are, as you said, "Win-Win"

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Fear of missing out on fun things as we get older.

"FOMO"

 

[Jeph77]

Very well said.
I don't want an emotional attachment with a guy. I just want sex with discretion.
And for married guys who want to stay married, the experiences are, as you said, "Win-Win"

The secrecy is a turn-on, for me, a little sensual exploration, though it isn't anything that's going to threaten my spousal relationship, health concerns, aside.

 

[Funguy63]

I think a lot of Boomers were ether brought up that gay sex was bad and not a lot went to college giving them access to experiment. So as we get older the testosterone levels drop, the sex with wifes stop. Sex with men is exciting and easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure. The curiosity grows, and we realize if not now we will be too old to try.

 

[smooth-boy]

I think exploring and learning about bdsm unlocked something for me. I wasn't really getting what I wanted from women, and I discovered men were appealing to me more and more. My body was sure responding; getting harder easier, stronger orgasms. I'm still very trans attracted, but I would be eager to submit to a man irl.

 

[KarinSoftly]

I don’t know but I’m glad older men have those desires and seem to be very affectionate to fems.

 

[wouldloveto]

I think a lot of Boomers were ether brought up that gay sex was bad and not a lot went to college giving them access to experiment. So as we get older the testosterone levels drop, the sex with wifes stop. Sex with men is exciting and easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure. The curiosity grows, and we realize if not now we will be too old to try.

I believe that what you said is true for many older men. Well said.

 

[klippert]

I think a lot of Boomers were ether brought up that gay sex was bad and not a lot went to college giving them access to experiment. So as we get older the testosterone levels drop, the sex with wifes stop. Sex with men is exciting and easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure. The curiosity grows, and we realize if not now we will be too old to try.

I have read this pages comments...Funguy63 has it and the common denominator... "Sex".

 

[bobb_sledd]

I had homosexual relations when I was young. Once I started dating girls it stopped. It reemerged in my late forties. The remergence was stimiluated by my wife. She told me she had a fantasy of watching me having gay sex. We role played this gay sex scenario ever since. I bought her a strapon which she has become proficient using. My desire to suck or be fuck by a real cock has only grown. I crave it now more than ever but have never taken the plunge (except for with my wife and her strapon dildo).

Have you ever told her of your desires?

 

[eroticbum]

My curiosity started when I hit 50. My wife seems to have lost interest in sex but it's also painful for her.
I get the occasional blow job or hand job, and she's amazing. When I wear panties and other lingerie items my
mind goes to cock and how I want to suck one. Not interested in the guy - just a nice hard cock.
Want to know what wifes feels when she sucks mine, Now 60 I still want to experience one.

 

[mike6622]

I am early 70s. I came out as bi to my wife a few years ago. She loves hearing about my exploits and gets really horny when I tell her about how I have played around with other men. I had a few encounters over the years in saunas etc but one of our best male friends came on to me and my wife. We had great threesomes but she would not let him make love to her, only non penetrative sexual activity.
He and I got together by ourselves and went much further on many occasions. She liked me telling her the details.
She is very supportive and happy for me to explore.

 

[Greytruck]

I am early 70s. I came out as bi to my wife a few years ago. She loves hearing about my exploits and gets really horny when I tell her about how I have played around with other men. I had a few encounters over the years in saunas etc but one of our best male friends came on to me and my wife. We had great threesomes but she would not let him make love to her, only non penetrative sexual activity.
He and I got together by ourselves and went much further on many occasions. She liked me telling her the details.
She is very supportive and happy for me to explore.

Very lucky she’s understanding of all that…

 

[ILikeIt]

Have you ever told her of your desires?

She knows my desires. I suck her cock then she fucks me in the ass, and the whole time she is saying "you want a real one don't you?". That is all part of playing out our fantasy. Which, as it includes my wife, is erotic as it is. Fantasy versus reality, I have not figured that one out yet. Sucking a real cock, maybe the reality is a step too much for me. However all the stories I write have me taking as much cock as my wife.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I think a lot of Boomers were ether brought up that gay sex was bad and not a lot went to college giving them access to experiment. So as we get older the testosterone levels drop, the sex with wifes stop. Sex with men is exciting and easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure. The curiosity grows, and we realize if not now we will be too old to try.

I have read this pages comments...Funguy63 has it and the common denominator... "Sex".

All of the above, but, yes, sex with men has always been easy to find, even before men were openly gay. And the old Boomer mentality of it being taboo, (which is still always in the back of my mind), and the nervousness that I'll get caught with my pants down, increases the level of excitement.

Oh and in my adventures, I've had a couple of experiences in truck stops. Before that, I had never expected that so many of those macho truckers were so cock and cum hungry. As klippert stated the common denominator is "SEX".

 

[badonkadoku]

Sex with men is [...] easy to find. even in the time before computers, a stop at a park, a bookstore or a truck stop was certain pleasure.

You must live in a more populated area. Also, sex between conventionally attractive men who aren't concerned about psychos and diseases is probably pretty easy to find. But otherwise, I'd have to dispute the claim as presented without any qualifiers.

WHY ARE WE SO FAR APART?? It's not fair!!

 

[KarinSoftly]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

 

[Jeph77]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

Not necessarily.

 

[KarinSoftly]

Not necessarily.

Not always but sometimes is what I meant.

 

[wifes_fag]

I became mostly a cuckold around age 40. She was fucking a boyfriend pretty often. I didn't mind because I am pretty small and knew she needed much bigger cock by then. She seemed much more satisfied and easier to live with too. I had sucked cock with her over the years and I found myself wanting to do it more for my satisfaction. She didn't care and even encouraged me to see other men too. Somewhere in my mid fourties I hooked up with a guy older than me that had lost his wife. He used me like his wife. After that I have never fucked my wife again. I enjoy being his pussy more. We still go see a new bull together sometimes but I don't fuck her.

 

[Uncut1969]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

Bingo and being on LIT makes your curiosity run wild

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

It may have to do with lack of attention from wives.

The increased interest in M2M definitely has to do with lack of attention from my wife, so I think that that is a primary reason for all bi-curious men; but, honestly, I've had the desire ever since my earliest experiences when I had a personal cocksucker. https://www.literotica.com/s/tribute-to-a-cocksucker

I've also frequented Adult Book Store video areas to satisfy my bi-curiosity
https://www.literotica.com/s/my-trips-to-the-store

 

[cuck72]

I'm in the same boat as many of us older men, grandpas. 72 now and I too have such a strong desire to be a cock sucking ass fucked old faggot. My wife also gave up on sex like over 10 years ago. But I can't blame it all on her, I've had the hunger for a cock in my faggot wannabe month for years now.

 

[Harley55]

For me it was a combination of a sexless marriage with my wife and watching porn and getting turned on by the cocks. Was bicurious for years until 10 years ago when I had my first encounter with a man. Fast forward, I am hooked and have 5 buddies I get together with, averages about once a week. One buddy hosts group gatherings, where I’ve had the pleasure of being with as many as 6 guys at the same time. Taking turns sucking multiple guys while multiple guys take turns fucking me is my favorite. I now prefer sex with men more than my wife.